To be pissed of at DH???

[Disenchanted]

He was supposed to be going out tonight then it was cancelled at about 6pm, he said lets get the kids to bed and we can snuggle up and watch a film,

so Ive just spent 2 hours getting DS into his own cot for the first time in 7 months, and he screamed like a banshee the whole time!! because I thought we would need the bed to our selves IYKWIM!

and Ive just come out now from DSs room and DHs mate is down stairs and he said hes going out

I told him I didnt want him to as he said we would watch a film together and now Im apparantly 'trying to control him'

YANBU

I am not suprised you are pissed off.
Feeling mad for you reading this.

Hes just left without saying bye

its just called being a bloke. i have one like that too. totally unreasonable

yanbu - i wouldnt let him out!
god id be so upset. please tell him hes upset you?

YANBU. Very immature behaviour on his part.

He knows hes upset me.

Hes going to his brothers and 'he hasnt been there for ages'

so what?

I know Im going to sound stupid but I dont like being in the house alone either, usually I ask my sis to come round but obviously didnt have time.

And as DS is in his cot for the first time in ages I know he will be up and down all night and ill have to deal with it all.

YANBU - what a selfish prick

Men can take the mick, he is acting like a child and wanting his own way. I dont think we sould except that behavour just because there MEN if we acted that way they wouldnt have it.

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Not really much I can do though is there?

Though I am sorely tempted to ring him up and have a go..

I am consoling myself with googling 'Johnny Depp' and 'Gerard Way' though. Which is making me a teeny bit happier!

Hi,could you not ring him at his brothers and ask when he intends to be home?

Am feeling angry for you.

Phone him and tell him that his dinner is in the dog and hope he has a tenner in his pocket for the prostitute he is going to need for the next 6 months.

He usaully comes back at about 1ish,

he is going cinema straight from work tomorrow so wont be home till 10 / 11pm tomorrow either

what?

why is he going to the cinema after work?

Is this a regular thing?

Sorry about all the questions just sounds unbelievable.

isn't having a baby a 50/50 responsibility? How can he just bog off out after saying he would stay in? i would go mad if my dh did that, well, he wouldn't dare even try that. I think you should do the same to him and leave him in on his own whilst you go out

Why aren't you going to the cinema with him?

Hes going with his dad

to see aliens vs predetor.

i really wanted to go but I dont wanna go with his dad IYKWIM.

His dad is paying for him, so he said he will go with me if i pay for him instead as hes skint !!

seriously. Im not joking at all

Gat ds out of his bed and take him in with you when you go. That way, dh will know how the land lies when he gets home.

Right then.... YOU need to organise a night out for yourself on Thursday then.

Make sure you're ready by the time he gets home from work, at which point you go out of the door trilling 'Don't wait up'

My sis is coming on friday to watch films

but as its here ill prob end up with the kids

Do you mind me asking how old your DH is?

Not that it should make any difference.

Surly he won't be going out on friday as well seeing as your sister is coming over.

Hes young early 20's,

He doesnt drink or anything but hes just annoying me lately!

I might go see Sweeny Todd and sleep at my mums! Get a lie in too!

YANBU. My DH says he sounds like a wanker.

Make sure you've promised him a threesome with you and your sister. Then take her out to the movies instead!