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What would you do on/if.... Do that.

18 replies

wb3 · 13/09/2022 06:28

I hate these comments.

Lazy, unoriginal, unintelligent and showing a total lack of understanding for context.

I can just picture the smug look on the poster's face as they believe they've played a killer debate ending trump card - it isn't. It's just plain lazy and utterly unhelpful

OP posts:
pictish · 13/09/2022 06:30

What?

girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 06:33

Do you mean "what would you do if your daughter came to you and said her partner was treating her like this?" for example?

wb3 · 13/09/2022 06:47

It's been said in relation to schools and doctors being closed next Monday. A poster is asking for help with a problem and some people reply:

What would you do on a snow day? Do that.

What would you do if your child was ill? Do that.

What would you do on a normal Bank Holiday? Do that.

I've seen it many other times too.

OP posts:
girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 06:51

Well they're right really, aren't they?

ApolloandDaphne · 13/09/2022 06:52

They aren't wrong.

Madamecastafiore · 13/09/2022 06:55

Much better if they replied "What would Beyoncé do?" 😂😂😂

pictish · 13/09/2022 07:07

I see. Seems a sensible enough response to me.

brookstar · 13/09/2022 07:19

But that's a sensible response though 🤷🏼‍♀️
Is it because they aren't sharing the same level of outrage at things being closed as you?

Strawberries86 · 13/09/2022 07:22

@Madamecastafiore 😆😆WWBD

W0tnow · 13/09/2022 07:22

I suppose if you’re not impacted to the point some of these posters are (operations being cancelled after months and months of waiting time, funerals of loved ones being cancelled) it’s easy to provide a glib response.

liveforsummer · 13/09/2022 07:24

Surely they are just giving basic advice. It's not the first time things have closed unexpectedly and we all managed somehow so we know how it works. Can't give any further advice really as don't know your individual circumstances which will differ from theirs so a generic response as given is the only thing a intone can really say?!

wb3 · 13/09/2022 07:27

Fair enough.

I'm being unreasonable.

OP posts:
psychomath · 13/09/2022 07:49

Agree that the "what would you do on a normal bank holiday" one is stupid - prepare for it more than 10 days in advance and/or not have the appointment booked in the first place, I assume? But equally, parents complaining about the schools being closed for one day as though it's the end of the world is really annoying (assuming it's just an inconvenience and not causing them to miss anything life-changing - I can see how for a tiny minority of people it could potentially cause real issues).

FlissyPaps · 13/09/2022 08:10

Unintelligent? Lazy?

You need to get over yourself. Don’t like the advice, then don’t take it.

girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 08:11

FlissyPaps · 13/09/2022 08:10

Unintelligent? Lazy?

You need to get over yourself. Don’t like the advice, then don’t take it.

There were literally 13 posts including the one where the OP admitted she was unreasonable. It's not hard to read them before you post.

FlissyPaps · 13/09/2022 08:16

girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 08:11

There were literally 13 posts including the one where the OP admitted she was unreasonable. It's not hard to read them before you post.

I did read them, thanks.

If I want to comment I will. Just because OP says they’re being unreasonable doesn’t mean anyone else is allowed to comment.

I still think the OP, (and you as well so it seems) need to get over yourselves.

girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 08:27

@FlissyPaps you clearly woke up on the wrong side of the bed. I hope you feel better after a decent cup of coffee.

FlissyPaps · 13/09/2022 08:32

girlmom21 · 13/09/2022 08:27

@FlissyPaps you clearly woke up on the wrong side of the bed. I hope you feel better after a decent cup of coffee.

Christ, did you also? 😂

This is the internet calm down.

If the OP wants to throw out comments like Lazy, unoriginal, unintelligent and showing a total lack of understanding implying she is better than them, you know ANYONE has the right to reply.

Don’t like it then report the thread or ask the OP to request it taking down. So weird.

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