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AIBU?

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To expect some days to be left alone

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Urnatalone · 13/09/2022 05:15

So this is probably a common issue I know. Brief explanation. My sex drive is like through the floor. It's never been crazy high but I think birth control has just snuffed it out completely. Unfortunately OH is absolute opposite. I try not to "have a headache" all the time but I have explained to OH previously that honestly 90% I literally have no interest at all. My issue is he take the mick. It's like every other day sometimes every day he will be (from my point of view!) Pestering me for sex. AIBU to just want a day where I can exist without having to feel pressured to perform? It honestly gets on my nerves and when I really CBA I just won't but its the constantly being mauled at and having to say no thats bugging me. Sorry for rant its just got to me today!

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sleepymum50 · 13/09/2022 12:11

Hi, have no advice but you have my sympathy. I have never had a high sex drive and at menopause it dropped off a cliff. My H didn’t pester daily but enough to cause me guilt and annoyance. Yes I used to do duty sex. We are separating, and I guess this was just one of many, many things. But the bliss of never sharing a bed again!

QweenT · 13/09/2022 12:13

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