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I don't want to be 'reigned over' anymore

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Yubgftr · 11/09/2022 23:39

While I totally respect the Queen and how she served the country, I think it's now a good time to end the monarchy as I think modern society has outgrown it.

Just the idea that someone inherits the job of head of state through birthright and reigns over us peasants is crazy in this modern age. Then all the ceremonies, titles, line of succession are remnants of a completely different era and tbh remind me of episodes of The Tudors or Game of Thrones, it's just so archaic and out of place.

I think having to bow and curtsey to people just because they were born or married into a special family also seems ridiculous. Why should I have to curtsey to any of them? Not saying I'd be rude or disrespectful but having to bend my knee to a set of people as if they were deities, it's just insane! I think I'd actually feel humiliated.

I also don't get the fawning and crying outside the palace - by all means be respectful and recognise her contribution but crying about someone you've never met? To me it's OTT

Back in medieval times when there was little education and religion was used to manipulate the masses, I can understand why all the peasants went mad for their sovereign and saw them as annointed by God etc etc but we're much more enlightened now (most of us!) so we need to make way for a new way of doing things.

Even a new national anthem - why is it all about the king or queen and god saving them? Why not about the people, the nation as a whole?

That said, I also hate the idea of someone like Boris Johnson being head of state and I bet that's a role he'd go for if we were a Republic. Swings and Roundabouts!

YABU - God save the king, monarchy forever
YANBU - time to end the monarchy

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ancientgran · 13/09/2022 16:17

vera99 · 13/09/2022 12:29

Once the hullabaloo is over and the hysteria dies down it remains to be seen what an ageing King and his consort on foreign travels will do, represent or shudder even be popular. The Royals' worst nightmare is saying doing a US trip where there are sparse crowds and even worse Meganhite protesters at the "colonial crown".

He's mid 70s, I think she's late 70s. I would think the younger royals will be doing most of the foreign travels.

ancientgran · 13/09/2022 16:22

jokingfox · 13/09/2022 10:14

@Ellami donrt be so naive. Charles got away with it for so long, hell even Andrew. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

So did Diana, I think her score was higher than his.

sageandrosemary · 13/09/2022 16:23

YANBU. The only places for royalty are history books and fairytales.

Smellywellyhoo · 13/09/2022 16:28

I think we should have a referendum. I don't support the concept but if a majority of the population voted them in, so be it.

vera99 · 13/09/2022 16:45

One of the richest families in Britain worth in excess of a billion quid gets unique tax breaks has a funeral declared a bank holiday costing reputedly 2 billion pounds whilst the country goes into vicious winter cost of living crisis. Oh and shelters a nonce and parades him about and threatens to arrest a lawyer for holding up a blank sheet of paper on Parliament Square. Show some respect.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 13/09/2022 17:20

Otezres · 13/09/2022 15:08

DarkShade · Today 14:08
I think accusing women who disagree with political status quo as having their "knickers in a twist" is misogynistic.

accusing ANYONE who disagrees with you as having their ‘knickers in a twist’ is belittling reductionism. I get to decide what I care about. I’ve had a bellyful of being told what all the nation is feeling by the media already.

👏👏👏

ChrisTheSheep16 · 13/09/2022 17:22

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MarieIVanArkleStinks · 13/09/2022 17:25

AuxArmesCitoyens · 13/09/2022 13:07

So fifty years of pulling strings behind the scenes no longer counts since he's promised he won't do it again? Right. Got it.

Of course he will, he can't resist. He's always believed his views were of the utmost importance and that everyone wanted to hear them. But when you're humoured from birth that everyone thinks you're important and wonderful, it's no real surprise.

He will be having a meeting with our elected PM on a weekly basis, the contents of which by unwritten rule will be kept secret. Not at all the ideal environment in which to exert undue influences behind the scenes.

How 'democratic'.

Sugerfree · 13/09/2022 18:03

Smellywellyhoo · 13/09/2022 16:28

I think we should have a referendum. I don't support the concept but if a majority of the population voted them in, so be it.

This time, if the anti-monarchy side loose, will it also then become "advisory"?

vera99 · 13/09/2022 19:19

Good protest begins - we are a free people hopefully under the rule of law.

twitter.com/snb19692/status/1569736397547790337

Otezres · 13/09/2022 19:34

@vera99 bravo

@ShouldersBackChestOutChinUp I’m pretty sure that’s going to be true. What a man. Seems like it IS ok to do some things whilst mourning. So much for ‘respect’.

vera99 · 13/09/2022 19:39

So billionaire Charlie doesn't read the room well. Well, there's a surprise strap in it's going to get rough.

"Backstairs Billy" the Queen Mother's favourite and a lifelong servant was treated abominably upon her death. It's who they are.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3005715/Jealous-courtiers-took-vicious-revenge-Backstairs-Billy-Queen-Mothers-favourite-servant.html

Emotionalsupportviper · 13/09/2022 19:45

Rosehugger · 12/09/2022 10:27

I really wish we were a modern, vibrant country: The Netherlands, Spain, Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Belgium, Japan - these are the examples we should be following

Some of these countries have a monarchy.

I think they all do.

A proper "working" monarchy with members who have real jobs n the real world where they mix with real people (and can probably dress themselves on the morning)

FrippEnos · 13/09/2022 19:46

ShouldersBackChestOutChinUp Otezres

What do you think will happen to the rest of the staff if you vote out the royals?
Seems to me that you have a double standard on your hands.

vera99 · 13/09/2022 19:52

That Charles sacking news is a real gob-smacking shocker and the actions of a venal and super-rich entitled family. In what actual universe does that actually make any PR sense except in one when you just don't bloody care. They could have left it a month or two at minimal expense. But then it's "The Firm" after all, then it does make sense. Looks like love and affection is a carefully constructed one-way street.

ShouldersBackChestOutChinUp · 13/09/2022 20:04

@FrippEnos what are you blathering on about? I never said I wanted to vote out the royals.

Please do get facts straight. Thank you so much.

ShouldersBackChestOutChinUp · 13/09/2022 20:06

@FrippEnos so you think it's ok King Charles sacks his staff?

vera99 · 13/09/2022 20:07

Pippa Crerar

One source told me: “Everybody is absolutely livid, including private secretaries and the senior team. All the staff have been working late every night since Thursday, to be met with this. People were visibly shaken by it.”

greenhousegal · 13/09/2022 20:13

If it is true that Charles' staff at Clarence House are being disbanded and made redundant, well words fail me.

I understand that things change and all that but honestly, before the Queen is even buried the unfeeling nature of the new regime is apparent.

I don't know who they employ for their PR, but it's not a good look for the King if it is true and the news was delivered with such finality today. Nothing wrong with holding off until after the funeral, and having NDA's (maybe?) for staff in return for a handsome thank you for their wonderful service.

ancientgran · 13/09/2022 20:14

vera99 · 13/09/2022 19:52

That Charles sacking news is a real gob-smacking shocker and the actions of a venal and super-rich entitled family. In what actual universe does that actually make any PR sense except in one when you just don't bloody care. They could have left it a month or two at minimal expense. But then it's "The Firm" after all, then it does make sense. Looks like love and affection is a carefully constructed one-way street.

Well the piece that was linked to above doesn't say they were sacked. It said there would be changes and some jobs might go with offers of help to find jobs in other royal establishments, or externally, or enhanced redundancy payments. People might not like it but it isn't sackings. If he leaves Clarence House there obviously has to be changes.

FrippEnos · 13/09/2022 20:15

ShouldersBackChestOutChinUp · 13/09/2022 20:06

@FrippEnos so you think it's ok King Charles sacks his staff?

For someone that snaps at others to get their facts straight, you should take your own words to heart.

I didn't say that it was ok. I asked what you thought was going to happen to the rest of the staff when the royals stop being royal as spome want.

Or in your terms have to pay their own way.

It seems strange to me that you have issues with him making staff redundant (not fired, again facts straight) when that is what will happen (for lots of the staff) if they stop becoming paid royals.

Cakeandcoffee93 · 13/09/2022 20:16

LMAO I totally agree with you OP.

Cameleongirl · 13/09/2022 20:16

I've clicked on the link and the article says that Charles’ offices will move to Buckingham Palace so the operations at Clarence House are entering a consultation period as they figure out who’s needed where.

It sounds as if some people will move with his offices, some will be offered alternative employment at other royal households, but there may also be some redundancies.

It’s quick, but I presume the logic is to give Charles’ staff a heads-up right away, instead of leaving them to wonder what’s going to happen?

greenhousegal · 13/09/2022 20:19

Disastrous PR whatever the reasons. Probably delivered with a stabbing gesture from the poisoned nib of a pen found in an inkwell on a small desk somewhere, that the lackey picked up deferentially, before he realised he was to be sacked forthwith.

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