To give up hope I'll ever meet someone?

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POF - met a guy last week who actually seemed keen, the chat was flowing, we met up, didn't give myself in on the first date (as I usually do ) blah blah...

2nd date last night, really good chat again...sex...then he messages today, all seems well.

For past 4 hours he's been on and off line on WhatsApp but no message - I know this sounds daft but every day it has been pretty constant messages.

He's 43, so not a kid, but I'm exactly right smack bang to where I was, pulling these walls up even further, AGAIN, wondering what the hell it is I'm doing wrong I'm fairly attractive, good job, independent etc., should I just face facts now that I will never meet someone who wants to be with me again? 😔😢😢😣 Feeling so fucking heartbroken and used again 😢😢

Chances are, if he's just after a shag, he will ditch you whether you do it on the first date or the tenth.

Sorry it hasn't worked out this time, OP. But better to happen after the second date, before you had chance to develop real feelings for him.

Hopefully, the shag was a good one at least?

Well, he told me his surname was Corrigan but I found it to be 'Horrigan', original huh?!

Basically he told me his daughter was completing a Masters in Psych, So I googled her name and pics came up with the correct surname (I knew what she looked like as he had his WA pic set to one of him and her)! Decided to then tell me it was a typo when I'd called him out on it

I know to some (a lot) I sound frickin unhinged and to be honest I probably am and make no bones about it; I've been hurt like you wouldn't believe so to find an initial connection with someone I thought just may possibly be a nice guy, and then this?! It has been confirmed today that I was right too, he is still married

Thanks lovely 🙏 The shag was mediocre, even tho he had a massive dick! But hey ho, I did need one

OP, I’m really sorry you are so upset, maybe you should take a break from dating?