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7 out of ten children in poverty

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Gilead · 20/08/2022 09:45

Come from families where at least on parent is employed. 40% of UC claimants are working families BUT Sunak blames those on Welfare for inflation and he wants to cut benefits by at least £1000 per annum.
AIBU to think that the Tories are trying to create a two tier state?

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RunningSME · 20/08/2022 13:04

Georgeskitchen · 20/08/2022 12:27

If only one parent works what's wrong with the other one going out to work evenings/weekends? That what I and many acquaintances had to do when the kids were young. No UC top ups , no 30 hours free childcare. Yes we went to work to feed and clothe our children

Yeah that actually isn’t really true though is it because in the 70s and 80s you could pretty much get by still on one income. We didn’t have much but the basics were all covered.

by the time we got to the 90s tax credits were well and truly in place.
so you’d actually have to go back to the 60s children to be living as you describe.

Str8talker · 20/08/2022 13:05

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UndertheCedartree · 20/08/2022 13:06

Wonnle · 20/08/2022 12:59

I know that bit where does the "cutting by £1000 a year " quote come from ?

I think it is a misunderstanding based on the removal of the uplift a year ago.

AtomicBlondeRose · 20/08/2022 13:10

Also people are misreading the OP as it doesn’t say they have one employed parent, it says at least one employed parent. In other words a sizeable number of children in poverty have two working parents.

talkingdeadscot · 20/08/2022 13:11

RunningSME · 20/08/2022 13:04

Yeah that actually isn’t really true though is it because in the 70s and 80s you could pretty much get by still on one income. We didn’t have much but the basics were all covered.

by the time we got to the 90s tax credits were well and truly in place.
so you’d actually have to go back to the 60s children to be living as you describe.

Actually, FIS (family income supplement) was bought in by the tories in 1970/71 so preceded Tax Credits. There were no payments for childcare but it was a 'top up' benefit. Children have always been expensive.

Hoardasurass · 20/08/2022 13:12

@UndertheCedartree I asked @Gilead if that's what they are talking about but they haven't responded. I think they are purposely trying to whip up anti tory/Sunak hatred

Lineala · 20/08/2022 13:12

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 12:31

Being in a position to save is a huge privilege

Good for you. But some people are too ill, too disabled, carers, low IQ, etc and aren't able to work full time, or even part time. Should we look after them? Or should we consign them to a lifetime of poverty and misery?

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 13:16

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Disgusting attitude. Just absolutely appalling.

Things can get bad quickly for those in financial difficulties, they may be fat they may be thin but if the money dries up they all need to eat and will all feel hunger the same. I don’t understand how people can be so cruel and judgemental

UndertheCedartree · 20/08/2022 13:17

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At the food bank I volunteered at many were underweight, homeless and with addiction issues. Most of those without addiction issues had mental health issues. And we know most medication for serious mental health causes weight gain. It's nothing to do with eating less and exercising more for most.

PenguinIce · 20/08/2022 13:17

Huge amounts of benefit money is going to Landlords. If the Government truly wanted to cut the benefit bill then they would build more social housing and stop selling it off.

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 13:17

stand outside for one hour

To judge them and be a dick or you know, you could volunteer for an hour and get to know them and understand why they are there perhaps

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/08/2022 13:17

I think they are purposely trying to whip up anti tory/Sunak hatred.

There's loads of anger hatred for the Tories around.🤷‍♀️ You can't really blame people. Twelve years of Conservative government has wrecked the UK.

Florenz · 20/08/2022 13:18

People who claim benefits (regardless of whether they work or not) should not expect to be better off than people who work and do not claim benefits. The solution is to make working people better off, so they don't get so annoyed at the benefit claimants.

UndertheCedartree · 20/08/2022 13:19

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 13:17

stand outside for one hour

To judge them and be a dick or you know, you could volunteer for an hour and get to know them and understand why they are there perhaps

Precisely. That this poster has a hobby of watching and judging the poor is as inhumane as it is creepy.

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 13:20

Florenz · 20/08/2022 13:18

People who claim benefits (regardless of whether they work or not) should not expect to be better off than people who work and do not claim benefits. The solution is to make working people better off, so they don't get so annoyed at the benefit claimants.

This is too complicated as there are so many variables at play. Eg a working couple with one NT child could be worse off than an unemployed couple with 2 SEN children because they get more in UC dla and carers and housing elements etc but they NEED more money to meet the needs of their family

UndertheCedartree · 20/08/2022 13:22

Florenz · 20/08/2022 13:18

People who claim benefits (regardless of whether they work or not) should not expect to be better off than people who work and do not claim benefits. The solution is to make working people better off, so they don't get so annoyed at the benefit claimants.

You would seriously look at a disabled person and be annoyed if they got more than you from working, knowing they will never have the chance get a promotion or a pay rise?

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/08/2022 13:29

Being disabled can be very expensive. ATM I know a woman who spends more than £100 per week on the electricity powering the medical equipment needed for her severely disabled adult son.

ilovesooty · 20/08/2022 13:29

GurningGolfer · 20/08/2022 10:50

I think he's got the right idea. We both work full time, never ever get any hand outs and do not qualify for any benefits or any other one off handouts the government come up with occasionally. We do qualify for child benefit but save this and tend to give back to charity each month anyway. We struggle through life at times paying every bill, a large mortgage and nursery bills. Paying for qualifications out of our own pockets to better our situation to earn more money to provide more for our own family. Sometimes it irks when some families end up with more left at the end of the month because they get benefits and a lot of help with stuff such as housing, free meals, food banks etc when not always truly in need (we've all met them!) But I don't begrudge those who are truly in need. I do think those that are truly in need of benefits could do more to better their situations such as making use of free courses and qualifications etc that are open to those on UC and other benefits in order to get into better paid more. Perhaps he's trying to push those that can work to motivate themselves to achieve more and provide more for their families themselves. Anyway I'm sure I'll get berated for this but just my 2p. For what it's worth I don't agree with a lot the tories have done recently and will be hard pushed to vote for them again come the next general election but the welfare state does need addressing as too many people just idly sit by and stay on benefits forever without ever considering how they could better their own situation.

I'm not "berating" you but the tone of your post is unpleasant, as is your use of the term "handouts".

We shouldn't have a society where children live in poverty.

willingtolearn · 20/08/2022 13:30

I think we have several problems.

'Work' is problematic - we have industry telling us they need workers, but what they are offering is not secure work or regular hours. They are offering 'fully flexible contracts' which means they want full flexibility from you whilst not having to guarantee any hours. Really they would like people under 25 (preferably whose living costs are paid by parents) who cost less and who they can expect to have no life or responsibilities outside their job so that they can immediately jump when the employer says so.

Employers say people don't have the 'right skills' but won't train them because then they say they will move on. They want to instead offer apprentice retail worker roles or apprentice teaching assistant roles so that they can pay even less than minimum wage.

In mainstream media today it was reporting we need to import loads of overseas workers for care work because 'no one will do it'.

Why not? Because it is usually low paid, irregular hours, not paid for break with expectation of you paying for your own vehicle's running costs and petrol, only partly paid back. It's also insultingly classed as unskilled or low skilled when it really requires a massive range of technical and soft skills as well as physical strength.

We need better employment regulation that forces employers to offer regular hours and invest in their staff.

LunaTheCat · 20/08/2022 13:30

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More and more research tends to support the idea that obesity is genetic and not due to a personal failing.
To tackle it you need good quality food and fresh veges - the struggling local food bank is not likely to provide this.
Then there is gas/ electric/ cooking equipment.

Louise0701 · 20/08/2022 13:32

@thelongconmom of course there are council houses. For every new build site; a percentage of it must be social housing. The demand may outweigh the supply, but they definitely exist.

GurningGolfer · 20/08/2022 13:35

Lineala · 20/08/2022 13:12

Good for you. But some people are too ill, too disabled, carers, low IQ, etc and aren't able to work full time, or even part time. Should we look after them? Or should we consign them to a lifetime of poverty and misery?

Thats different and you know it and I discussed that in my 1st post. There is a difference between can't and won't and I'm talking about the 'won't' section. Or those that think they can't but actually just won't.

DrCoconut · 20/08/2022 13:40

And here we have classic benefits bashing thread. Tattoos, check. Sky TV, check. Better off than hard working tax payers, check. I can't understand the mentality of earning so much you don't qualify for help but begrudging those who are worse off the few crumbs they get from the government. I'd say having good health, career opportunities, being financially independent, owning your home or having more options to rent, looking forward to a pension or savings etc is far better than a life on UC or disability benefits.

MintJulia · 20/08/2022 13:47

I'm a single mum and it worries me. I come from a FSM family and remember how it felt.

I don't have the money to help in any meaningful way, but all my ds's outgrown school uniform, shoes, trainers, coats, gloves etc, I carefully check, clean, have reheeled if necessary, repair stitching to hems, buttons etc and then send to a school in a deprived area.

I just think that every coat or pair of decent trainers I can send is £25 that a struggling parent isn't having to shell out.

Florenz · 20/08/2022 13:48

ClementineAugustus · 20/08/2022 13:20

This is too complicated as there are so many variables at play. Eg a working couple with one NT child could be worse off than an unemployed couple with 2 SEN children because they get more in UC dla and carers and housing elements etc but they NEED more money to meet the needs of their family

Purely on money coming into the household. People choose to have children, it's their choice.

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