Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Grilled cheese - not a meal?

108 replies

Icannoteven · 15/08/2022 14:28

So my partner makes a 'meal' he calls grilled cheese'. It literally consists of just cheese grated directly onto a plate and put under the grill until crispy 😐. I've been to his mum's house and seen her make something similar where she cracks an egg into a plate, covers it in grated cheddar and grills it.

He insists that this is a normal meal that everyone eats.

I've literally never seen anyone else eat this. Any time I've heard people talk about a 'grilled cheese' they have meant something like a cheese toastie.

Am I being ignorant or is this just NOT a well known dish. It's just a weird habit peculiar to his family?

Also, who the F cooks an egg under a grill!

OP posts:
diddl · 15/08/2022 16:47

I love grilled cheese.

I do it in the sandwich maker.

Perhaps I should call it a meal rather than a snack!

itsnotmeitisactuallyyou · 15/08/2022 16:48

never heard of it, but going to try it!

Antarcticant · 15/08/2022 16:52

Perfect snack if you are low-carbing.

BellaLab · 15/08/2022 16:54

Mrsjayy · 15/08/2022 14:38

We call it roasted or toasted cheese in Scotland its more of a lunch snack. Its not a cheese toastie .

Roasted cheese is on bread though, not just grilled cheese.

SenecaFallsRedux · 15/08/2022 16:58

ShadowoftheFall · 15/08/2022 16:27

What’s sharp cheddar? Mature cheddar? Vintage?

For us, it's aged cheddar (extra sharp) from New York State. And in the Southern US, a bit of mayo on the bread.

fishingpaintings · 15/08/2022 17:01

In italy a provolone is hung over the bbq and melted for quite a while. It's spectacular. Just sort of carved off and served in a bowl.

Knocks me out like a Sunday roast would. Definitely a meal 🥳

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 15/08/2022 17:01

Yeah that's weird. A piece of flat grilled cheese is a snack. (NOT a meal.) Would be yummy with a glass of wine, or a glass of whisky, but not as a meal no.

Also, putting a plate under the grill? WTAF? Confused

GoAround · 15/08/2022 17:02

I’ve only heard of Grilled Cheese as what Americans call a cheese toastie. Standard kids menu offering over there. You know it’s a classy establishment when it’s made with Wisconsin cheddar and not the orange American stuff!

A pile of melted cheese gloop sounds disgusting.

ShadowoftheFall · 15/08/2022 17:03

SenecaFallsRedux · 15/08/2022 16:58

For us, it's aged cheddar (extra sharp) from New York State. And in the Southern US, a bit of mayo on the bread.

Thank you

LewisLittUp · 15/08/2022 17:04

That's not a meal, it's a dirty snack 🤤

MarmiteWine · 15/08/2022 17:05

I'd never call it a meal, but for a snack I really enjoy cheese melted on the George Foreman grill. Just the cheese, nothing else,

onelittlefrog · 15/08/2022 17:06

I've also only heard of a 'grilled cheese' meaning a cheese toastie (American).

I wonder if some Brit got this mixed up and thought they would try a grilled cheese 😂

There are so many delicious things you can do with cheese, this seems like a bit of a waste, especially if it's just cheddar. Each to their own though.

Wombat27A · 15/08/2022 17:06

My DHs favourite ever meal on holiday was in a Greek cafe.

Menu said "spaghetti with cheese". When it came it was a bowl of plain spaghetti and a massive bowl of grated cheese...

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 15/08/2022 17:08

BlancmanegeBunny · 15/08/2022 15:45

I'm in my 50s and live in South Wales. Grilled cheese with egg was something I grew up with, my grandad loved it!!!! It was always served with bread to mop it up with. I like sliced tomato on mine!!!

You were posh with your fried egg! In our corner of South Wales we just had the grilled cheese (imaginatively named ‘cheese on a plate’), sometimes with sliced tomato but often, ultimate bliss, with one of my grampa’s extraordinarily strong pickled onions. Eat that off your lap in front of a coal fire on a damp night - you’ll know what heaven is.

hoglethotel · 15/08/2022 17:08

Like @BlancmanegeBunny it is a traditional supper from where I'm from in SW England. But we're "dap country" so do many things in common with the Welsh.

It certainly was a traditional dish growing up. I like grated onion in mine. Lots of bread to mop it up at the end. My Nan always used to make this as a supper when I slept over in the 70s/80s. The other favourite that people turn their noses up on but is actually quite nice is cheese and vinegar.

thelittlefox · 15/08/2022 17:09

DP has done this. Not grilled though, just slices of cheese, on a plate, microwaved until melted, eaten with a fork, no egg or bread. He says his mum gave it to him for dinner at least once a week when he was a kid, although presumably she would have grilled it, because his childhood was in the 70s. Something else she used to make him was chip fritters - basically deep fried chips, dipped in batter and deep fried again.

He's from Glasgow🙄

DurhamDurham · 15/08/2022 17:22

My dad used to make 'cheese dreams' when he got home from the pub on a Friday night. He made them an individual side plate size one for each of us. It was piles of grated cheese mixed with eggs and chopped onions baked in the oven for about twenty minutes. It was blooming lovely.
We all went to bed with indigestion but totally worth it Grin

SkirridHill · 15/08/2022 18:23

What a blast from the past! My DGM used to do this. I can even remember the brown saucer she used to use, to do it in the microwave. 😂

SenecaFallsRedux · 15/08/2022 19:04

Grilled cheese sandwiches are not just kids' food in the US. The traditional accompaniment is tomato soup. DH and I often have that combination for dinner, especially in the cooler months.

We also do some fancy versions of grilled cheese sandwiches. Smoked gouda and thinly sliced pear is one of my favorites. Also thinly sliced apple with aged cheddar is very tasty.

Grilled cheese sandwiches are cooked with a heat source coming from the bottom as in a frying pan and then turned. But we also have cheese toast in the US, which is placed in the oven under the broiler, which, correct me if I'm wrong, is what I think you call a grill in the UK. Cheese toast was my mother's favorite breakfast.

MajorCarolDanvers · 15/08/2022 19:06

Never heard of this

MissConductUS · 15/08/2022 19:07

DurhamDurham · 15/08/2022 17:22

My dad used to make 'cheese dreams' when he got home from the pub on a Friday night. He made them an individual side plate size one for each of us. It was piles of grated cheese mixed with eggs and chopped onions baked in the oven for about twenty minutes. It was blooming lovely.
We all went to bed with indigestion but totally worth it Grin

There's an American version of cheese dreams that's very similar but with bits of bacon on top. I had them often growing up.

www.food.com/recipe/easy-cheese-dreams-223225

SleepingStandingUp · 15/08/2022 19:08

Ilovenutellaaaaa · 15/08/2022 14:34

But it's basically just a cheese sandwich that is toasted (or fried in USA) with melted cheese...if.you consider a sandwich a meal then yes it is.....plus they are delicious, an easy cheap quick meal that is yummy

Theres no bread

Tuxedokitty · 15/08/2022 19:19

My grandad used to have this for lunch - grilled with tomatoes and onions, with white pepper and bread and butter.

We used to have "cheesy hammy eggies" for a treat dinner as kids - I think it's a Navy thing. Toast with a layer of cheese, ham or corned beef and a fried egg on top.

Threelittlelambs · 15/08/2022 19:24

I ate this as a child in the 70’s and still do now.

Dry bread to pick it up with - lovely!

Threelittlelambs · 15/08/2022 19:26

I wonder if this is regional?

Welsh heritage, Birmingham born.

Swipe left for the next trending thread