Hi all. Wondering if I'm BU to be hacked off?
We've literally just had a knock on the door from our downstairs neighbour. We live in a maisonette, we're in the top flat he's on the bottom. He said 'listen, can you tell your kid to be quiet and stop running around?'.
I am honestly speechless. We have a three year old and a newborn. Yes, she was running up and down the hallway and laughing, but she's 3 and doesn't understand she needs to be quiet at certain times of day. We've lived her for four years, never had any issues or complaints from other neighbours or the ones who lived below previously.
I am absolutely fuming but I don't know if I have a right to be. To me, if you live in a shared building you run the risk of hearing noise. And it's not as if we're playing music or running the washing machine. You know, noise you can prevent or limit. Does he expect us to gag and tie up our child?
Am I BU or is he?
AIBU?
Downstairs neighbour complaining about child making noise
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 07:48
Am I being unreasonable?
529 votes. Final results.
POLLMintyt · 14/08/2022 09:58
I would say your sorry, you have carpets and have told your 3year old to try to be considerate, but she is 3 it's a flat and your are downstairs, I do try but sometimes we will be noisy
Whatever00 · 14/08/2022 09:57
Put a rug on the carpet and by her soft slippers. Then if he knocks again tell him I have put a rug and got her slippers to minimise the noise. You have tried to consider his needs but unfortunately, in shared space you are going to hear other people's noise. End of.
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 08:21
@DancingBeanstalk what would you suggest then other than distraction and telling her no, which is what we've been doing? Thank you for suggesting my parenting is poor though, very kind of you.
Carpetfluffy · 14/08/2022 08:03
YABU. Massively!
Bet you'd be right down there if he put music on and woke your kids up at night but it's okay for your 3 year old to run around and wake him
Up before 8am on a Sunday because she's 3?
Brill
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