Hi all. Wondering if I'm BU to be hacked off?
We've literally just had a knock on the door from our downstairs neighbour. We live in a maisonette, we're in the top flat he's on the bottom. He said 'listen, can you tell your kid to be quiet and stop running around?'.
I am honestly speechless. We have a three year old and a newborn. Yes, she was running up and down the hallway and laughing, but she's 3 and doesn't understand she needs to be quiet at certain times of day. We've lived her for four years, never had any issues or complaints from other neighbours or the ones who lived below previously.
I am absolutely fuming but I don't know if I have a right to be. To me, if you live in a shared building you run the risk of hearing noise. And it's not as if we're playing music or running the washing machine. You know, noise you can prevent or limit. Does he expect us to gag and tie up our child?
Am I BU or is he?
AIBU?
Downstairs neighbour complaining about child making noise
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 07:48
Am I being unreasonable?
529 votes. Final results.
POLLgirlmom21 · 14/08/2022 08:06
FFS every Sunday we get a "I was woken by my neighbours kids in the garden" thread and everyone says "oh they should make their children play inside" and now that's wrong and you should sit her in front of Peppa Pig?
Kids run around. It's what they do.
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 08:21
@DancingBeanstalk what would you suggest then other than distraction and telling her no, which is what we've been doing? Thank you for suggesting my parenting is poor though, very kind of you.
tinplantpot · 14/08/2022 08:23
She's no a baby. She's 3.
Stern talking to. We don't run in the house. And every time she does check her, stop her and tick her off.
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 08:21
@DancingBeanstalk what would you suggest then other than distraction and telling her no, which is what we've been doing? Thank you for suggesting my parenting is poor though, very kind of you.
TheseAreMyGoodPants · 14/08/2022 08:06
Okay guys, maybe I am BU. For those who missed it I should say that it wasn't going on for hours, she ran down the hallway once, we told her to stop and she did, but then got excited and forgot herself and did it once again. We then took her into the living room to try and distract her. That's when the neighbour knocked. I just think it's a little heavy handed to come knocking when it only happened twice?
Prinnny · 14/08/2022 08:32
Sounds like it was the straw that broke the camels back. Maybe be more mindful of the noise in future.
Of course some noise is to be expected in a flat but a three year old running around in the hour of 7 on a Sunday is taking the piss.
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Mumblechum0 · 14/08/2022 08:40
I’m still gobsmacked at the pp who thinks it’s ok to mow their lawn at 6am on a Sunday 😱
OP, what consequences are there for your DD forgetting to do as she’s told? Because as with any rules for kids or adults, there need to be consequences for being broken, I think
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