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Am I the only one who thinks scrimping and saving can go and get fucked for bare essentials

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Freedomfromunfairbills · 11/08/2022 17:45

All the advice about cost of living seems to be ways you can scrimp and save to possible cobble together enough money to stay alive on bare necessities such as food, water, etc. Am I the only one thinking fuck this we just should not accept this when many of the companies jacking up their prices are making record profits. Even if it’s technically possible why on earth should I give up new clothes, gadgets, TV, holidays abroad, ect all to fund the obscene riches of the one percent. Instead of this advice on how to possibly meet these we actually need to say on mass no we are not surfs under the feudal system and we refuse to become a peasant class enough is enough. We should demand the government steps on and nationalises these companies and demand immediate taxes on the ultra rich to fund it all. I’ve always been fairly right wing and conservative but surely this is simply some kind of feudalism that will reduce many of us to little more than peasants and ruin the quality of life for many. Aibu?

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WinterMusings · 11/08/2022 19:46

MushMonster · 11/08/2022 18:23

For good.
Voting is the main power we hold.
We can all collect signatures to request early elections. If we get enough signatures in they do have to discuss the matter in parlament. We can do this each month, till they get the idea.
We are not powerless.
And exercising our power does not need to be illegal, violent, detrimenting to the economy or to others in any way.

@MushMonster

Right.
And who do you think would do any better?

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 11/08/2022 19:49

ImWell · 11/08/2022 18:35

So you want other people to work hard to produce food, housing, clothes, a television etc for you, but you don’t want to pay for it?

Why would anyone else want to go along with that?

What you are feeling is unearned entitlement. You can get in the bin.

This ^ Absolutely. You seem to love all of the things capitalism brings, holidays, lux goods etc. Make your mind up!

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 19:50

WinterMusings · 11/08/2022 19:46

@MushMonster

Right.
And who do you think would do any better?

Any of the others would do better because ALL of them would increase the amount of money at the bottom, which would get spent, with economic benefits.

The rot with this lot started with austerity and has continued.

The Tory policies since 2010 are the reason UK households are significantly poorer than European counterparts (and that is before we factor in the deliberate shrinking of our economy i.e. Brexit).

Stripyhoglets1 · 11/08/2022 19:50

Labour would do better than this shower of tories.

If you bother going to look you'll see what they propose - a windfall tax and help for people that need it.

ImWell · 11/08/2022 19:51

OlympicProcrastinator · 11/08/2022 19:30

But people aren’t entitled to it. It’s hard to know where to start with the idea that someone in China should get up and commute to work to make you a shiny new phone that they themselves can’t afford but that you shouldn’t have to pay for

Thats a rather odd tangent you’ve gone off on there. Not paying for a shiny new phone??

Are we not discussing a large drop in the standard of living for many hard working people while they pay for the obscene profits of energy firms? I’m no hard socialist by any stretch, I don’t believe in the redistribution of wealth insofar as high earners or wealth creators being taxed so heavily there is no incentive. But things that are essential like gas and electric shouldn’t (it seems to me) cost so much that it holds millions effectively to ransom. I understand that many people who work 40-50 hours a week feel entitled to a reasonable standard of living and that the wages in this country, broadly speaking won’t cover bills costing over £4000 per year. People feel ‘entitled’ to keep more of their hard earned money than spend it on obscene prices.

It’s not a tangent, the OP and others are expecting luxuries that they can’t afford. Someone needs to mine the materials for them, design them and build them. They don’t want to do this for free.

Again with your “shouldn’t” though. There is no should, or shouldn’t. “Should” you have a better standard of living than a child collecting twigs for her family’s cooking fire? You don’t work harder than her, so why “should” you have a higher standard of living?

Buzzligh · 11/08/2022 19:51

Apologies if people don't find this relevant but I was inspired by a comment on this thread to search for it. Apparently the tories removed our rights as the public to call an early election (funny how I read a variety of sources every day and yet this one slipped by.) I don't know if there's any petitions with bigger traction but as so many of us are running out of options and fast, perhaps is the way to go?? petition.parliament.uk/petitions/618068

ChillyFloss · 11/08/2022 19:51

Our government doesn't care - look at Germany, France etc. Our bills are going to be massively higher than theirs.

I wouldn't dispute that we have been massively let down, mostly by the Tories. France is doing better, in part, because they have heavily invested in Nuclear energy. I would question whether Germany are doing so well since they were forced to turn off Nordstream 2. (They are currently turning off public lighting and heating to save energy to prevent winter blackouts and store energy while it's cheaper, something that wouldn't help us because we sold off our energy storage capability 🙄). It's a shitshow but the trick is to resolve it without making things even worse than they are.

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 19:52

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 11/08/2022 19:49

This ^ Absolutely. You seem to love all of the things capitalism brings, holidays, lux goods etc. Make your mind up!

Germany is capitalist, but they have massively higher standard of living.

The Tory version is crap. It isn't working. Our economy is performing far worse than the rest of the G7. That is a political choice.

Winederlust · 11/08/2022 19:52

ImWell · 11/08/2022 18:47

It’s entitled to think you have a right to luxuries without the income to pay for them.

Are there people senior to you at work? What do you need to do to aspire to one of their jobs?

How much did you save for a rainy day before things got this expensive? Can your partner earn more?

It's mind blowing that people can be this ignorant (or just fucking selfish in the extreme).

Many, many people have been working hard for years, multiple jobs yet have still had to live pay cheque to pay cheque. Even rely on food banks. That's before the energy price hikes etc. Where do you expect them to have savings from?

As for tax cuts, all well and good but when it's not enough to cover price rises and people need medical help due to not being able to eat or keep themselves warm, they'll be waiting hours for ambulances or hospital beds because the already decimated NHS has even less money to treat them.

OP may not be one of those people right now. They may have inadvisedly voted Tory in the past, but it's these people who are maybe now realising the error of their past decisions who can help turn the tide. They may be rebelling for selfish reasons but what helps them helps us all in the long run.

Open your eyes.

ImWell · 11/08/2022 19:52

Stripyhoglets1 · 11/08/2022 19:50

Labour would do better than this shower of tories.

If you bother going to look you'll see what they propose - a windfall tax and help for people that need it.

I’ll not be voting for that, thanks.

If you want to, that’s fine, and you just need to get enough people to agree with you and it can be enacted.

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 19:53

ChillyFloss · 11/08/2022 19:51

Our government doesn't care - look at Germany, France etc. Our bills are going to be massively higher than theirs.

I wouldn't dispute that we have been massively let down, mostly by the Tories. France is doing better, in part, because they have heavily invested in Nuclear energy. I would question whether Germany are doing so well since they were forced to turn off Nordstream 2. (They are currently turning off public lighting and heating to save energy to prevent winter blackouts and store energy while it's cheaper, something that wouldn't help us because we sold off our energy storage capability 🙄). It's a shitshow but the trick is to resolve it without making things even worse than they are.

German energy price increases are far lower than ours - about 20%. The fact they have done this even though more affected due to Nordstream is a good comparison - when a government cares, they use their power to benefit the population.

OldFan · 11/08/2022 19:53

Well you can try that. You won't get anywhere though except facing fines for non payment of bills.

Tulipvase · 11/08/2022 19:55

I don’t really understand it all and I might be wrong but it seems that my bills (will have) have gone up x3 but the energy producers profits have also gone up x3.

So it doesn’t seem that the extra charge is just to maintain their profit, it’s increasing it……

That is what seems unfair.

Happy to be corrected!

Coachwork · 11/08/2022 19:56

So until Tory policies affected you personally it was fine. Vote Tory get Tory, what's so difficult to understand about that?

iloveeverykindofcat · 11/08/2022 19:57

If you feel like this, why not join your local branch of the Socialist Party? I know a lot of people who are members. Then you could take some concrete action towards a redistribution of wealth.

ChillyFloss · 11/08/2022 19:59

But people are facing starvation this winter and not being able to heat their homes, special measures are needed and they can more than afford it

By "they", you do realise you mean "you and me". The government doesn't have money. 😀

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 19:59

Tulipvase · 11/08/2022 19:55

I don’t really understand it all and I might be wrong but it seems that my bills (will have) have gone up x3 but the energy producers profits have also gone up x3.

So it doesn’t seem that the extra charge is just to maintain their profit, it’s increasing it……

That is what seems unfair.

Happy to be corrected!

You are broadly correct.

That is why all the bollocks about 'politics of envy' is just bunkum.

Capitalism used to be supportable because it generally worked for enough people. Now it is broken. If we don't fix it, there will be trouble.

Snowjive2 · 11/08/2022 20:00

PlanetNormal · 11/08/2022 18:21

Well, OP, if you have “always been fairly right wing and conservative”, then congratulations. You have got the capitalist, privatised, free-market economic system you voted for, and it’s a bit late to start whinging about it now. You are the Turkey who rather stupidly voted for Christmas. So suck it up.

This. You voted for this.

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 20:00

ChillyFloss · 11/08/2022 19:59

But people are facing starvation this winter and not being able to heat their homes, special measures are needed and they can more than afford it

By "they", you do realise you mean "you and me". The government doesn't have money. 😀

The energy companies have raidly increasing profits. 'They' do have money. Our money.

carefullycourageous · 11/08/2022 20:00

*rapidly

Crispynoodle · 11/08/2022 20:02

Just in case anyone feels like doing anything about it:
wesayenough.co.uk/

3amAndImStillAwake · 11/08/2022 20:05

I’ve always been fairly right wing and conservative

Happy to vote Tory when it wasn't affecting you then? But now it is you want to demand something be done?
What did you think you were voting for? I mean really, what did you expect from them?

Winederlust · 11/08/2022 20:07

MissStress · 11/08/2022 19:31

I find the posters on here frothing in defence of this outrageous increase of costs of vital utilities have - by far - the most shocking and bizarre stances of all.

Getting offended and spiky when the OP is not objectively unreasonable; the spiralling costs are outrageous.

Very odd little band of staunch apologists for vast corporate profiteering and worse: simultaneously attacking the consumers who are affected who now can’t live on what was previously a comfortable wage… 🧐

Thankfully I don’t encounter people like this irl.

Totally. It just plays right into the govt's hands- the old divide and conquer technique. It's as old as time and we just keep falling for it.

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/08/2022 20:08

Well given you are ideologically “fairly right wing and conservative” you’ll understand that you need to buckle up. There is no magic money tree. If you need to adjust your finances do that, need more money?Get a better paid job. Frankly you’re only touchy because you are individually affected. Presumably you’ve not been bothered to date about anyone else with your right wing conservative ideol

YourTruthorMine · 11/08/2022 20:09

Yes, let's expect the average person to slave every hour for pitiful wages to line the pockets of the wealthy? If people on average wages can no longer afford a few luxuries, due to the escalating cost of living then I don't blame them at all if they choose to claim benefits. Otherwise we may as well be in a Victorian work house.