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To feel increasingly alienated by Tory voters?

358 replies

BarmyBrunhilde · 10/08/2022 14:11

I am in despair as to where our country is at. With the cost of living crisis looming (and already beginning), this winter is going to be brutal and likely life ending for so many in the UK, and the current aspiring leadership of the Tory party seem to be more interested in litigating culture wars and appeasing NIMBY pensioners in the Home countries than actually addressing any of the serious problems in the UK.

I've never been a Tory voter, but I've always been able to get along with people who have different views (provided they aren't racist/homophobic etc). But how anyone could see all the misery and deprivation on the horizon, look at the prospective leaders and frontbenchers with their complete lack of sultions, and continue with supporting them is genuinely beyond me. I find myself slowly being consumed by bitterness and rage against people for their views, and it frightens me. Am I alone in this?

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Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:01

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 18:53

And I agree we are in for troubled times, but it’s incredibly simplistic to suggest that we wouldn’t be here if we had a Labour Government.

It’s actually annoying to read this, and playing party politics with a global problem is minimising the issue.

Labour wanted to lockdown faster and for longer apparently and do the exact opposite of the the Tories, not to mention his non-view on Brexit. Please tell me how this would have put us in a better state than we are now.

Well I think that the hope was that by longer down sooner and harder, we actually wouldn't be locking down for so long, which wasn't a stupid idea at the time, I don't think. But the reason really that I think we'd have been better off under Labour with regard to the pandemic is that the Tories gave so many PPE contracts and Test and Trace contracts to people who should never have had them, and that cost billions. Not wasting those billions would have put us in a better state, I think.
I also don't agree that it minimises the issue. I can see that it's annoying, because I find it irritating when people say things like 'Can you imagine how much worse it would be under Labour?' But I think it's right that the ruling party should be held to account for how it performed, and I think it performed abysmally really. I also think that the EU offering to delay the full implementation of Brexit because of the pandemic was an opportunity that should have been snatched, so that we wouldn't have been facing all these hits at once.

Festoonlights · 10/08/2022 19:05

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:01

Well I think that the hope was that by longer down sooner and harder, we actually wouldn't be locking down for so long, which wasn't a stupid idea at the time, I don't think. But the reason really that I think we'd have been better off under Labour with regard to the pandemic is that the Tories gave so many PPE contracts and Test and Trace contracts to people who should never have had them, and that cost billions. Not wasting those billions would have put us in a better state, I think.
I also don't agree that it minimises the issue. I can see that it's annoying, because I find it irritating when people say things like 'Can you imagine how much worse it would be under Labour?' But I think it's right that the ruling party should be held to account for how it performed, and I think it performed abysmally really. I also think that the EU offering to delay the full implementation of Brexit because of the pandemic was an opportunity that should have been snatched, so that we wouldn't have been facing all these hits at once.

This is classic!
So do you think Labour would have found other more ethical contractors? And somehow they would do so without any favour ( even forgetting the huge fight globally for PPE) You are living in cloud cuckkoo land.

Have you actually seen Starmers very long list of sports tickets and ‘gifts’?

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:05

Boybandfacedfannyfart · 10/08/2022 18:59

Ok, maybe the table was difficult to understand:

August 21 - €1497
august 22 - €5178

Shall I do the maths for you too?

OK - stand corrected. Didn't read properly.

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:09

Festoonlights · 10/08/2022 19:05

This is classic!
So do you think Labour would have found other more ethical contractors? And somehow they would do so without any favour ( even forgetting the huge fight globally for PPE) You are living in cloud cuckkoo land.

Have you actually seen Starmers very long list of sports tickets and ‘gifts’?

A response wins 'classic' status very easily these days.
Yes - I do think Labour would have found more ethical contractors because I think they would have employed people who actually had experience in the field.
I don't think we would have seen headlines like this:
www.ft.com/content/740aa990-9bed-4cd3-b75b-0a5ce50b55c8

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:13

quincey I was looking at this chart re inflation, which seems to have reputable sources

To feel increasingly alienated by Tory voters?
Smellywellyhoo · 10/08/2022 19:14

The Tories hate the working class and below. It's that simple. They always will. People vote for them because they don't care about that.

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:18

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 18:56

I don't think that the Dutch prices have risen by more than 70% though, have they? My point was that our prices have gone up by more than 200 % [to date] whereas in the rest of Europe prices have not risen by as much, though I grant you that they may have been higher to start with.

I think Because we had massive discounts due to the sheer number of supplier and market competition here to begin with, we paid A LOT less. Hence why so many companies went tits up because they didn’t hedge properly and thought we’d always have cheap cheap gas!

We have paid much less than other countries for much longer. I have a large multi-bedroom detached house and my dual fuel bills were <£150 per month. Insane! Not realistic to continue really is it.

Should have been managed better for sure many moons ago (not strictly a Tory problem), but it wasn’t. The increases are awful, but the absolute household costs aren’t worse.
We get <5% our gas from Russia, Germany circa 50%.

In many ways it has been managed better than other places in terms of non-reliance on Russia, but not in terms of the last year.

It’s bad I agree and people will suffer, which is sickening and I am genuinely thinking about ways so can help those less fortunate than me, because I am in a better position. But don’t tell me it wouldn’t be any different under Labour.

And what do you think immediate taxation (if they were to even implement it) on the energy companies is actually going to do for the man on the street right now!

Nothing.

Labour blowing hot air because it’s easy to do so from the other side.

We have a shite government, and a shite opposition and like so many, I am politically homeless because there are no good choices.

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:19

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:13

quincey I was looking at this chart re inflation, which seems to have reputable sources

Cheers midnight. Will take a look.

Festoonlights · 10/08/2022 19:19

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:09

A response wins 'classic' status very easily these days.
Yes - I do think Labour would have found more ethical contractors because I think they would have employed people who actually had experience in the field.
I don't think we would have seen headlines like this:
www.ft.com/content/740aa990-9bed-4cd3-b75b-0a5ce50b55c8

The contractors were so few and far between! You make it sound like the world was actually ready for this and awash with ppe! It most definitely was not and many had to use bin liners as aprons etc for ages.
if some companies moved from gin supply to sanitiser well good for them! That’s what free enterprise looks like.

Look at Tony Blair and his multi millionaire hangers on, that’s what Labour looks like after a stint in office - hardly Florence bloody nightingale!!

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:20

Actually this article today suggests that the Dutch are doing better than us in terms of what they are paying: www.dutchnews.nl/news/2022/02/average-energy-bills-could-rise-86-as-gas-and-electricity-prices-soar/#:~:text=Energy%20bills%20have%20soared%20over,January's%20prices%2C%20the%20CBS%20said.

superplumb · 10/08/2022 19:22

Justcallmebebes · 10/08/2022 14:20

These threads are getting really tiresome. The Tories have only been in for so long because they keep getting voted in by the majority of people. We live in a democracy which means the majority of people want them in. If they don't, they'll be voted out at the next election and then you will find that the alternative is just as bad, if not worse.

The opposition don't seem to have any real answers to the problems we're all facing either

It isnt the majority. We have 1st passed the post not proportional representation so we don't have democracy at all. If you add up everyone who did not vote tory they would be a larger majority. Please educate yourself on the parliamentary system.

NeelyOHara1 · 10/08/2022 19:22

I voted YABU only because it's easier to just kneejerk castigate people who don't see things how you do rather than, if you feel so strongly, take the time and trouble to engage and persuade. That it takes more effort than you'd probably be willing to expend isn't unreasonable though.

BrokeAsABone · 10/08/2022 19:22

@BarmyBrunhilde I was in agreement with you until you downplayed the massive impact of gender ideology. Please don't treat people who care about it as daft. I am as working class as they come and I can clearly see the dangers to children and women. There is nothing more important than child safeguarding.

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:24

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:09

A response wins 'classic' status very easily these days.
Yes - I do think Labour would have found more ethical contractors because I think they would have employed people who actually had experience in the field.
I don't think we would have seen headlines like this:
www.ft.com/content/740aa990-9bed-4cd3-b75b-0a5ce50b55c8

I’d like to think they would have.
Not sure that it would have happened that way though.

When speed is of the essence, quality and rigor are compromised.

Absolutely right to hold the party in power responsible, but I think a basic understanding of wider economics is being wilfully left out here.

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:24

Festoonlights · 10/08/2022 19:19

The contractors were so few and far between! You make it sound like the world was actually ready for this and awash with ppe! It most definitely was not and many had to use bin liners as aprons etc for ages.
if some companies moved from gin supply to sanitiser well good for them! That’s what free enterprise looks like.

Look at Tony Blair and his multi millionaire hangers on, that’s what Labour looks like after a stint in office - hardly Florence bloody nightingale!!

www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/government-wont-confirm-if-ppe-reached-nhs_uk_6001c25ac5b6ffcab96408f2

The government's behaviour over PPE was disgraceful, which is why they were so reluctant to answer for it. Your attempts to justify it with a comparison with Tony Blair speak for themselves.

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:27

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:24

I’d like to think they would have.
Not sure that it would have happened that way though.

When speed is of the essence, quality and rigor are compromised.

Absolutely right to hold the party in power responsible, but I think a basic understanding of wider economics is being wilfully left out here.

genuinely not trying to be wilful.
It wasn't just speed - it was the handing over of billions to people with absolutely no experience to set up vital services. Dido Harding, John Penrose's wife, was in charge of a racecourse before she was given a £37 billion pound contract to run test and trace, which was a spectacular failure. No, I don't think I've seen anything from Labour that suggests they would have made those choices. I'm not sure how the wider economics make it any better.

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:28

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:27

genuinely not trying to be wilful.
It wasn't just speed - it was the handing over of billions to people with absolutely no experience to set up vital services. Dido Harding, John Penrose's wife, was in charge of a racecourse before she was given a £37 billion pound contract to run test and trace, which was a spectacular failure. No, I don't think I've seen anything from Labour that suggests they would have made those choices. I'm not sure how the wider economics make it any better.

Not you midnight, I didn’t mean you explicitly (or even at all).

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:29

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:28

Not you midnight, I didn’t mean you explicitly (or even at all).

No worries - it's hard to keep up with who's talking to who.

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:31

www.bmj.com/content/376/bmj.o391

This is the BMJ's account of the government having been found to have acted unlawfully in giving the contract to Harding and Coupe. Some bewilderment about why people with no medical training and without a lifetime of business administration would have got that contract.

Quincythequince · 10/08/2022 19:31

Midnightblack · 10/08/2022 19:27

genuinely not trying to be wilful.
It wasn't just speed - it was the handing over of billions to people with absolutely no experience to set up vital services. Dido Harding, John Penrose's wife, was in charge of a racecourse before she was given a £37 billion pound contract to run test and trace, which was a spectacular failure. No, I don't think I've seen anything from Labour that suggests they would have made those choices. I'm not sure how the wider economics make it any better.

Mention of wider economics is wrt the OPs first, and then subsequent posts. Not PPE or test and trace.

A better example of how not to do something at the expense of the taxpayer I can’t imagine.

hellesbells · 10/08/2022 19:33

Hbh17 · 10/08/2022 16:30

Do you really think that after a pandemic, and during a continuing major war on the border of Europe, that cost of living issues are solely down to one governing party? Have you not noticed what is going on across the world? So easy, and stunningly naive, just to blame the Government, even tho there may have been some mistakes made. I'm not sure that any current political party has an easy solution and it certainly isn't the Government's job to bail out the population by chucking money about.

This Tory Government have run this country into the ground over the past 12 YEARS, In that time they have cut Health, Education, policing, they have given us BREXIT which is an absolute disaster and is only going to get worse, the have done nothing to grow the economy, Covid and the war are useful for them to use as scapegoats for their horrible mismanagement of the country

Willyoujustbequiet · 10/08/2022 19:34

Yanbu.

To my shame I voted Tory when I was young but am hopefully more mature and less selfish so hell would freeze over before I did again.

They'll be out at the next election OP. Even the die hards are sick to the back teeth of this shitshow.

hellesbells · 10/08/2022 19:36

Muminabun · 10/08/2022 16:48

Tories are not responsible for brexit, COVID or cost of living crisis or global fuel prices. The government are not your parents. Labour are far more abysmal than the tories hence why the tories keep winning.
the above is pretty much the answer to all of these threads.

The tories are entirely responsible for BREXIT

Festoonlights · 10/08/2022 19:40

hellesbells · 10/08/2022 19:36

The tories are entirely responsible for BREXIT

So not a single Labour voter voted for Brexit then??

Tanith · 10/08/2022 19:54

BarmyBrunhilde · 10/08/2022 15:51

Well I think that's rather revealing - I'm sure a 'very middle class' retiree (with a triple locked pension) has the luxury on focusing on 'twaw policy' as being some major issue. For most in this country, including hundreds of thousands of working families, we're focused on rather more pressing matters!

That may well be your opinion, however you're refusing to face facts.

As was demonstrated earlier in the thread, the Conservatives were elected by a minority. The majority didn't vote, or weren't living in an area where their vote mattered.

It doesn't matter that most of your acquaintances are focused on other matters, it's irrelevant that hundreds of thousands of working families are struggling with other issues. Those hundreds of thousands rarely turn out and vote.

Like it, or not, what matters is the minority that elects Governments. Identity politics is a much bigger issue to many of them.
Contemptuously dismissing women's concerns won't win votes.