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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think there's still that teeny weeny bit of a pandemic thing happening?

310 replies

IAmOldNow · 09/08/2022 00:11

Not complaining, just observing:

Figures say: cases rising, hospitalisiations rising, fatalities: flat at best but if anything that'll be thanks to large scale immunisation, largely due to vaccines that may not prevent infection altogether but are, largely, proving to be pretty good at making sure the vast majority of us don't end up on a ventilator and/or: dead!

Currenrt reality says: huge client party tonight. Cue some 3k people crammed into a mostly indoors space, free alcohol, hugging, air kissing, any old thing you'd imagine from people who, literally, know and do not actively hate each other and haven't met in the flesh for two years.

AIBU to think that this is a) human and understandable but also b) bound to see 1/3 of the organisation out cold with COVID within a week?

For the record: I don't know the right answer! I went, too!

OP posts:
x2boys · 10/08/2022 09:21

x2boys · 10/08/2022 09:20

I can understand the staff disruption I had covid a few weeks ago and felt awful for about four days ,and.i used to be a nurse in the nhs so can understand lots of people feeling getting covid will be massively disrupting ,how, however is it affecting.hosputal admissions and deaths?

I oh actually o think you answered that sorry.

Wouldloveanother · 10/08/2022 09:31

YABU. There is nothing selfish about anyone wanting to prioritise living a full and unhindered life over your mum, who they don’t know and is unlikely to suffer any serious covid effects given she is presumably jabbed and boosted.

i find this ‘terrified for my 70+ year old relative’ to be 🙄 to be honest

I know this will be seen as controversial but you asked…

Wouldloveanother · 10/08/2022 09:39

IcedPurple · 09/08/2022 17:55

The poster sounds suspiciously similar to another poster who didn't think evidence were needed to support their claims.

As I said above, quite a few MNers are nostalgic for lockdown and miss all the drama and feeling superior to others for the 'selfish' behaviour of meeting with family every so often.

I think this too. Nothing will ever be ‘enough’ to protect their relatives from an illness that is very unlikely to have serious consequences if they’ve been jabbed

JustLyra · 10/08/2022 09:59

I just wish people would go back to being as considerate to folks like my DD as they were pre-covid.

Obviously id love more in our circumstances as it would enhance my DDs life, but I know that’s not reasonable. But just back to the way they were when the people close to us stayed clear of us with coughs and colds.

PeloAddict · 10/08/2022 10:08

Bobby80 · 10/08/2022 09:19

Literally can’t believe people are still talking about COVID…..

My shit immune system hasn't gone away so covid is still a big thing for me
I don't want to get it, be unwell, go through the whole annoyance of having to get the medication etc, time off work

Wouldloveanother · 10/08/2022 10:16

PeloAddict · 10/08/2022 10:08

My shit immune system hasn't gone away so covid is still a big thing for me
I don't want to get it, be unwell, go through the whole annoyance of having to get the medication etc, time off work

I understand, but that’s for you to mitigate now.

AMIAMIBU · 10/08/2022 10:21

What people have shown is that, left to manage Covid themselves, they won't act responsibly. Lockdowns are the best idea, but WFH were possible, mandatory mask wearing indoors and on public transport, limits to the number of people who can gather for social events and a return to limited numbers of people in shops at one time are easy wins that will make the difference between life and death for tens of thousands this winter.

Tens of thousands?

Lockdowns?

Mandatory masks?

None of those things are going to happen!

PeloAddict · 10/08/2022 10:30

@Wouldloveanother I know. That's why I said up thread I wear a mask and ask people to test. I'm just replying to say why some of us are still thinking about Covid

BigSandyBalls2015 · 10/08/2022 10:35

Less than 0.25% of people in England died of covid .... how many of them were very elderly and/or had serious health issues anyway. I'm not saying they're lives weren't important, but we need to keep this in perspective.

There shouldn't be any more restrictions at all for covid. If people feel they are vulnerable they should take the necessary precautions.

HesterShaw1 · 10/08/2022 10:39

WFH were possible, mandatory mask wearing indoors and on public transport, limits to the number of people who can gather for social events and a return to limited numbers of people in shops at one time are easy wins

Easy wins? Really? Easy? Do you STILL have no idea about how the economy works? Do you still have no clue about the amount the financial impact these easy wins cause, about how much less money people are able to spend, how much less money is circulating, how much less tax is paid, and how much less money is available for public spending, including health spending?

ApplesandBunions · 10/08/2022 10:41

I always think it's interesting when things are too complex to be able to evidence, but not so complex that a poster can't claim they're easy wins and engage in daft cod psychological analysis of people who don't take their word for it.

Wouldloveanother · 10/08/2022 10:42

AMIAMIBU · 10/08/2022 10:21

What people have shown is that, left to manage Covid themselves, they won't act responsibly. Lockdowns are the best idea, but WFH were possible, mandatory mask wearing indoors and on public transport, limits to the number of people who can gather for social events and a return to limited numbers of people in shops at one time are easy wins that will make the difference between life and death for tens of thousands this winter.

Tens of thousands?

Lockdowns?

Mandatory masks?

None of those things are going to happen!

Thank goodness. Why not go the whole hog, we can all just live and exist inside sterile tubes like that episode of the Simpsons? Never encounter a microbe again?

HesterShaw1 · 10/08/2022 10:44

But CoViDz OvEr innit.

Oh and what a neat little way to try and diminish the intellect and education of people who don't agree with you 🙄

x2boys · 10/08/2022 10:45

Unless there is a new vaccine / treatment resistant new varient, that causes the NHS to be overwhelmed, then lockdown is not going to happen again
Masks might be advised over the winter months but even when they were mandatory, they were never enforced .

TheKeatingFive · 10/08/2022 10:46

Not single poster here is saying Covid is over. The reading comprehension among some is abysmal.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 10/08/2022 10:48

There will never be a lockdown like there was in spring 2020 ... the vast majority of people would take no notice whatsoever.

ApplesandBunions · 10/08/2022 10:51

x2boys · 10/08/2022 10:45

Unless there is a new vaccine / treatment resistant new varient, that causes the NHS to be overwhelmed, then lockdown is not going to happen again
Masks might be advised over the winter months but even when they were mandatory, they were never enforced .

I can't see that lockdown could even happen then.

Lockdown requires the state to pay lots of people to stay at home, and a relatively quiescent population. It needs a sweet spot where the public are scared enough to mostly observe the rules but not so scared or pissed off that people working in the essential infrastructure (which is a lot, and includes the likes of delivery services) start refusing to work. Can't see how we hit either of those prerequisites again in the near future, much less both.

AMIAMIBU · 10/08/2022 10:55

BigSandyBalls2015 · 10/08/2022 10:48

There will never be a lockdown like there was in spring 2020 ... the vast majority of people would take no notice whatsoever.

Agreed! Me included!

ApplesandBunions · 10/08/2022 10:56

I just think as well, can you imagine either Truss or Sunak trying to sell it to the public after they spent months minimising Partygate?

HesterShaw1 · 10/08/2022 11:05

swimlyn · 09/08/2022 14:06

@QueenCamilla
…It's unfortunate for those who fall into vulnerable categories (as unfortunate as it always has been) but no, I'm not compromising my own life just to equalise us all in misery. My misery won't un-vulnerable anyone. It literally won't...

Ha ha. Your misery? What? Donning a paper mask for 5 minutes in a check out queue? Get real!

@MorvernDark
But what the hell can you do, most of us are expected to go back to normal life.

What 'everyone can do' is have just a little bit of consideration for other people around them. No need for a space-suit, never was, but a light paper mask for a few minutes in close quarters?

@GoldenOmber
…maybe it’s because they don’t see it as the little easy tiny thing you do…

Yes, coughing and sneezing in people’s faces is of course easier, isn’t it? Silly me.

@Sugarplumfairy65
…Guests took the tests because they care about other people…

A well thought out post Sugarplum. Unfortunately we caring people are very much in the minority here aren't we?

It’s interesting that the naysayers here are comparing the current ‘do nothing’ policy to ‘full lockdown’ as before. Whoever suggested that?

Just a little bit of consideration for others? A light paper mask for a few minutes when in close quarters? Far too much to ask obviously…

Around me@MorvernDark, shoppers abothering to shield a cough or sneeze with a hand or hanky. That’s ‘living life’ is it? It’s hardly “recreating panic and paranoia” to ask for a little consideration.

In a lot of the above, posters who use ludicrous extremes to justify their “can’t be bothered” attitude are just plain stupid. In dealing with exposure to germs or viruses, it’s not ‘all or nothing’, it’s using your brain, and adjusting your precautions appropriately.

This is exactly the kind of post which made the tide turn on MN.

The vindictive and bitter sounding moral high ground, the vanity about "caring for others".

Remember that woman from Bolton who was on Twitter loudly calling for school strikes? She made out that it was because schools were so terribly dangerous and that she and her friends were meeting outside in parks only, because they were the caring responsible ones, and everyone else was JUST PURE SELFISH. Turns out she was apparently "clinically vulnerable" after all. She didn't mention that bit.

x2boys · 10/08/2022 11:06

ApplesandBunions · 10/08/2022 10:51

I can't see that lockdown could even happen then.

Lockdown requires the state to pay lots of people to stay at home, and a relatively quiescent population. It needs a sweet spot where the public are scared enough to mostly observe the rules but not so scared or pissed off that people working in the essential infrastructure (which is a lot, and includes the likes of delivery services) start refusing to work. Can't see how we hit either of those prerequisites again in the near future, much less both.

I don't think this is going to happen but hypothetically if a dangerous new variant came in that was killing people in their thousands every day and people of all ages were getting very sick then the government would have to bring in restrictions and people couldn't just ignore them
I don't think we will have a lockdown anytime soon nor is there any need for it but nobody can rule out the possibility that it won't ever happen again.

ApplesandBunions · 10/08/2022 11:13

x2boys · 10/08/2022 11:06

I don't think this is going to happen but hypothetically if a dangerous new variant came in that was killing people in their thousands every day and people of all ages were getting very sick then the government would have to bring in restrictions and people couldn't just ignore them
I don't think we will have a lockdown anytime soon nor is there any need for it but nobody can rule out the possibility that it won't ever happen again.

Restrictions and lockdown are not the same thing.

But of course people could ignore restrictions and even a full lockdown. There are some who did last time. I had whoever I liked in my home and visited others, for example. There were also some businesses illicitly functioning and would be again.

On a more visible and damaging level, people could take to the streets and there could be significant unrest. Many people are going to rely on access to public, heated spaces this winter given the cost of fuel now. You think the population would all accept withdrawal of access to that and comply with an order to stay at home and freeze? Nah.

This is all moot though, because lockdown requires people to be paid to stay at home and it could not be more obvious that the government won't be doing that this winter.

Quartz2208 · 10/08/2022 11:14

I think a lockdown would be more likely for another virus though rather than COVID

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 10/08/2022 13:28

Notwhennever · 09/08/2022 00:49

How was your childhood? Full of fear? Lots of adults keeping their distance and disciplining you if you did the opposite? Did your childhood resemble rainy day activities for the best part of a year including summer time - did you pine for something more than elbow touches when you were little?
No?
Don't you think the next generation deserve what you grew up with and more?
They've literally just removed screen separations in some supermarkets. It may have been challenging for adults but it was horrendous for children.

But we didn't have covid when anyone here was a child. In my childhood, our danger was polio. We were vaccinated against it, so it died out in this country (though I read today it's been detected in London again).

Two of my friends have died of covid. Many others are still suffering the after-effects, which are long-term in some cases. One relative (a child born with a heart defect) has had his life very much restricted by the need to avoid infection. The infection is passed on by people, unknowingly infected, not wearing masks.

Our government has done a lot wrong during this pandemic, some of it, I agree, very harmful to children. But I don't think pretending it's not happening is the answer.

ancientgran · 10/08/2022 13:47

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 10/08/2022 13:28

But we didn't have covid when anyone here was a child. In my childhood, our danger was polio. We were vaccinated against it, so it died out in this country (though I read today it's been detected in London again).

Two of my friends have died of covid. Many others are still suffering the after-effects, which are long-term in some cases. One relative (a child born with a heart defect) has had his life very much restricted by the need to avoid infection. The infection is passed on by people, unknowingly infected, not wearing masks.

Our government has done a lot wrong during this pandemic, some of it, I agree, very harmful to children. But I don't think pretending it's not happening is the answer.

I remember being terrified of polio when there was a big outbreak in the midlands in the 50s, we hadn't been vaccinated then. I wasn't afraid of dying, I was terrified of being in an iron lung. They would occasionally have a "human interest" story on the news and you'd see a smiling child, or maybe more than one, trapped in an iron lung. I really hoped I'd die if I got it as I couldn't bear the thought of being in one of those things for years.

I also remember smallpox outbreaks in the 1960s. Out local GP had queues for vaccinations all day every day for a few weeks and he would stay open till quite late at night.

It was all fun back then wasn't it.