My fiancé and I are getting married.
Originally we planned on a big white wedding in his mums garden.
However his MIL is overbearing and has said something completely unforgivable. (Said I lied about having a miscarriage, you may remember my other thread)
I think she's done this to drive a wedge and to stop OH moving (we are long distance, he lives near her and is moving to me) she can't bear the thought of him moving...
Anyway... we are currently on holiday in the states. Seeing the sights and seeing people have quicky weddings...
OH suggested we do a legal wedding here, just the 2 of us, and I'm ok with that... we can have a fancy party back home with our friends and family
i don't want OH to regret not seeing me in a dress or having a real wedding, he says he doesn't care and we can always have a wedding later...
His family will be devastated as he's the only boy, the youngest and the last to marry. He isn't bothered but I don't want any upset. We will have a "proper" wedding at some point
AIBU to just go ahead and get hitched? Has anyone else done a wedding without it being a wedding?
Tell me your courthouse wedding stories ...