I don’t believe any sort of psychic woo stuff. After all, no one would ever be attacked if we had any sort of innate ability to see it coming. It’s largely confirmation bias. I’m pretty sure if you could look back at CCTV there would be subtle signs that you perceive non verbally - they were there but not concrete enough for one to have more than an impression. I also know things can objectively be there that we can’t perceive. My dogs can smell a teaspoon of sugar in a swimming pool. Bees can see lights and colours totally invisible to my eyes. Snakes can detect heat and vibration. Pigeons can bloody navigate across the globe and Elephayes remember the way to water homes they haven’t visited for decades. I can’t go the same way to the hospital twice or remember where I left my car keys. There are probably thousands of other things waiting to be discovered by science. Senses are variable and not anyways interpretable by the teeny bit of our brain that we think does the thinking. So we get ‘a feeling’
But feelings are very definitely fallible. We actually enjoy manufacturing strong feelings based on fictitious circumstances, for entertainment. Haunted houses etc being a case in point - we actively seek an unpleasant and undesirable feeling for kicks. We humanly seek narratives that support our feelings and views long after it becomes blindingly obvious the facts don’t support them. Feelings are affected by tv, seasons, hormones, food, drugs, sleep. Almost anything. Which makes them powerful, but virtually useless in practice. We are a very easily suggestible species. We also routinely and actively suppress feelings to behave in socially acceptable or expected ways. Sometimes a feeling is triggered by something too fleeting or subtle to register consciously and sometimes it’s just entertaining or fooling oneself. No way to know, most of the time.
The OP listed numerous very inappropriate and very easily noticed things that rightly set alarm bells going. I bet the DV victims could also look back and list lots of things they forgave, overlooked and explained away (not that they should have to). The posters who said they had just had bad feelings of one sort or another often have no events that followed. Or sometimes they did have events that followed, but they didn’t feel strongly enough to do anything at the time. It doesn’t invalidate the vibes. But it doesn’t validate them as indications of something factual either. Often if you DO something different, you prevent the thing you are predicting, so it’s inherently unprovable (it’s astonishing how we as a species will ‘believe’ unshakeably in unprovable or soundly disproven concepts, and yet dismiss out of hand things that are proven over and over beyond common sense. Look at that ghastly vaccine doctor - absolutely rot, all of it by any possible measure, yet the anti vax movement just will not die!)
We aren’t animals. We are virtually deaf, blind, have a useless sense of smell and really crappy instincts compared to animals. We’re human. Poor perception of virtually everything, an ability, in fact a need, to fool ourselves and others, a need to seek a narrative that supports pre-conceived ideas and the frankly idiotic belief (in the face of all the evidence) that we are good judges of character and read situations well. We don’t. We have lots of poorly founded and firmly held beliefs and we discount or elevate facts to support them as required. There’s no blame or criticism attached to this. It’s just being human. By all means act on your feelings. No one can know which are well founded ones. Try to be honest with yourself, look harder for evidence and welcome the likelihood that you are wrong. (I don’t know why we hate to be wrong so much. We are all the time. Yet no one likes to admit it, even when it doesn’t matter at all. The best thing about science, and what elevates it above all other systems imho is that it actively seeks to be wrong. It’s the best way to learn)