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To think the comfort you get from a dog is like no other (photo)

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dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 00:14

I'm awake (durrr) and really not well. I've been fighting an infection on and off for weeks now (other health complications).

This evening it's all got a bit much and I had a sobbing cry to my DH. DDog was so upset and desperate to get on the sofa to see that i was alright. He eventually disappeared to his sock hidyhole (I still don't know where it is) and placed one on my knee. They make him happy so why shouldn't that work for me?

Everyone has gone to bed (DH is going to deal with kids tomorrow) and I'm in agony. Sat downstairs and DOg has not left my side. Unlike his usual nighttime routine of getting into his bed, he is unmoved from the position he took up a couple of hours ago with his head on my chest and body on my arms.

I cannot tell you the comfort it gives me in the nighttime loneliness, feeling rubbish.

I know that if DH did the same I wouldn't feel half as calmed and soothed as I do with DDog (as much as I love a hug from DH!)

Here he is earlier in the evening but other than a wee and a drink has returned to this position. He is getting me through tonight with his wet nose and gentle snoring

To think the comfort you get from a dog is like no other (photo)
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dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 09:11

Thank you @LadyLothbrook you have made me cry 💜

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dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 09:12

Whoops sorry @TheLadyofShalott1 I meant to tag!!

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dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 09:13

Also enjoying the cat photos!

I used to have two cats who were Burmese cross and the softest fur.

Absolutely adorable but everything was very much on their terms! One used to sleep on my pillow and slowly move me out of the bed

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hoorayandupsherises · 28/07/2022 09:14

Glad to hear your feeling a bit better. Hope the doggy medicine continues its work.

Our old dog earned the badge of "Doctor" because, although he usually didn't like sleeping against us or other dog (he was very furry and liked his cool tiles in the kitchen), he would be absolutely stuck like glue to us as soon as anyone was poorly or sad.

He had a chronic illness for years but held on long enough to see me and DH through the worst time of our lives and left us just as we were starting on the road to recovery. I know he knew. 😭

SpeckledlyHen · 28/07/2022 09:16

BullTerrierMum · 28/07/2022 08:08

I have a mountain of things I need to do today...... but currently have a severe case of canine paralysis

I adore bull terriers. I am always transported back to my youth and watching a film called The Incredible Journey with a bull terrier called Bodger.

SpeckledlyHen · 28/07/2022 09:18

I hope you feel better soon OP, your doggie looks gorgeous.

I have a big old basset. My husband was very unwell once, had a severe infection too and was out of it and delirious for most of the weekend. She slept on the bed with him for 48 hours and only got off occasionally for a comfort break and some food (but much less than normal). She's never done it when we've had colds or anything so I think she sensed her really needed her.

SpeckledlyHen · 28/07/2022 09:20

hoorayandupsherises · 28/07/2022 09:14

Glad to hear your feeling a bit better. Hope the doggy medicine continues its work.

Our old dog earned the badge of "Doctor" because, although he usually didn't like sleeping against us or other dog (he was very furry and liked his cool tiles in the kitchen), he would be absolutely stuck like glue to us as soon as anyone was poorly or sad.

He had a chronic illness for years but held on long enough to see me and DH through the worst time of our lives and left us just as we were starting on the road to recovery. I know he knew. 😭

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Enko · 28/07/2022 09:22

I was down with covid 2 weeks ago and D dog cuddles with me the majority of the day. It's so calming and makes you feel so loved and cared for.

Moonface123 · 28/07/2022 09:26

Its a life long love affair.

MissedItByThisMuch · 28/07/2022 09:49

Thank you @dogcuddles I seem to have got a mild dose thankfully. I hope you’re feeling better soon too.

FAQs · 28/07/2022 10:34

we have a dog and a cat, dog is definitely my shadow and the cat my daughters, they are so intuitive. Love he bought a sock 😍

dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 11:11

@hoorayandupsherises I'm so sorry for your losses. It sounds like DDog was one of a kind and very in tune with you and your husband. What a brave soul carrying on to make sure you were both ok. 🌈

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dogcuddles · 28/07/2022 11:12

Thank you all for your stories and photos

I started this thread feeling very sorry for myself late at night and wanted to share how wonderful DDog is

Reading today has put a smile on my face reading about all our wonderful animals and how they enrich our lives 🐾

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BullTerrierMum · 28/07/2022 22:35

@SpeckledlyHen that is a fabulous babe for an EBT!

I had a coughing fit earlier...... doggo immediately sprang into action, ran across the room and came to check I was ok Smile

Onlyhereforthebatshitneighbours · 28/07/2022 22:52

He brought you a special sock - oh my heart! 💕

Some of these posts have brought tears to my eyes...I've had two wonderful dogs and many wonderful cats. Some of my felines have been unbelievable at knowing when I needed comfort, but right now I'm missing my dogs more than anything reading these posts. So, so loving, funny and protective. My last had me wrapped round his little toe and i wish I could kiss his nose right now.

I'm so sorry you're suffering op and I hope this infection finally clears up soon. Flowers

happygertie · 28/07/2022 23:10

Magical creatures, far superior to humans

Midnightblack · 28/07/2022 23:11

He’s gorgeous. Dogs are the best, kindest creatures on earth. I hope you feel better soon xx

littlepeas · 28/07/2022 23:17

Strangest thing with one of my dogs - he freaked out when I once fell asleep sitting up on the sofa and barked at me a lot (very out of character). We think he thought I was dead!

Midnightblack · 28/07/2022 23:20

Actually I think the love I have for my dog was like no other. Of course I didn’t love her more than my children, but my love for her was utterly uncomplicated and easy. She was a kindred spirit, and the kindest, most fun, sweetest-natured girl. I miss her so much, but love thinking of her.

QueenofLouisiana · 28/07/2022 23:37

Gorgeous doggo! They just know when you need extra love.

DS 17 was adamant that he didn’t want a dog, hated the idea. Finally agreed as long as he wouldn’t have to help with the dog. DH and I have been away for the week with the dog. DS thinks we should go away more often as he was fine looking after himself- but we should leave the dog behind as DS missed him. 😂

PickAChew · 28/07/2022 23:40

Well his sweet face has just made me very happy 😍

Mariposista · 28/07/2022 23:56

I knew by your description of your dog’s behavior that he would be a labrador. Mine is the same if anyone is unwell or upset, lovely kind and sensitive boy, bringing us his teddies or putting his big head on your knee. 🐾

dogcuddles · 29/07/2022 08:32

Ahhh thank you so much for your overnight messages

Myself and DDog had another night spent mostly on the sofa as I couldn't get comfortable in bed.

He's now become Velcro doggo and nearly tripped me up several times this morning in his attempt to stick to me like glue.

I'm feeling a little better thanks for the well wishes, I do hope others who have pet nurses at home are also feeling well

This was me and Duke yesterday evening getting comfy catching up on Eastenders 💤

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