My husband stayed away from home at an event over the weekend on his own and chatted to a woman a few times when they kept seeing each other in the same places. She gave him her contact details on an item that advertises her business, and he contacted her a few times using these details, including in the middle of the night while still at the event, when he stopped en route home, and shortly after he got home. It was an innocent conversation about nothing, but she said she was hoping he'd get in touch.
When he got home, he told me about her, and a woman that had directly hit on him. But he didn't tell me he'd contacted the first woman, and that he was intending on continuing to contact her.
Aibu to find this a bit...off? I do trust him, and he's never given me any reason not to trust him before. I don't think anything happened. But I wish he'd been upfront about wanting to keep in contact with her.
Situation not helped by her being a decade younger than us. He admitted he's sexually attracted to her, and had a physical reaction to her dancing with another girl. We've been through a rough time recently but not because of our relationship, mostly external factors. He's been struggling with his mental health and work situation a bit and has taken it out on me at points. And I've been having a rough time because of health and potential infertility. Our relationship is generally great and we've been together a long time, it's just been tough the last few months. Maybe I'm being a bit sensitive because of these things? I just wish he'd told me? I feel like it wouldn't have been an issue if he had. He left out what is to my mind, a really important bit? He initially didn't see what the problem was, but says he gets it now.