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To be done with cyclists (as a car driver).

460 replies

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 10:02

Have cycled in the past but now only drive.

I'm a considerate driver and always allow plenty of room when overtaking and am patient in following the cyclist when it's unsafe to overtake and leave a big gap. I take care when left turning. They are more vulnerable on the road.

Yet I've been sworn at be a cyclist and it's pissing me off.

Yesterday on a busy road I saw the cyclist and was busy scanning ahead to make sure I could give him half a carriageways room to overtake. I started my overtake as he was wafting his arm around and looking back. It wasn't a clear right turn signal more a 30 degree flap around before swerving into the part of the road I was on, and swearing at me.

Ffs. If you want to turn right, stick your bloody arm out fully and make a clear signal. No wonder drivers and cyclists hate each other.

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Funkykitty · 26/07/2022 19:36

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 19:31

OP you should probably step away from this thread now…

Why Should she do that?

LoveMyPiano · 26/07/2022 19:37

As I suggested in my own diagram - and something I have seen happen..... Something may have been approaching the junction to emerge onto the road with you and the cyclist on it. THIS vehicle may be turning left - and NOT check their own left, as sometimes happens..... You would then have had an almost head-on collision - and the cyclist could have been the meat in the sandwich.

Ergo: Why NOT to overtake near junctions.

Funkykitty · 26/07/2022 19:38

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 19:31

I've had my fun now. Goodbye folks I'm off to watch the football. ⚽️

Goodbye OP 🤣

Chooksnroses · 26/07/2022 19:41

girlmom21 · 26/07/2022 11:56

It usually means they are busy on their phone!

I can honestly say I have never seen a cyclist on the road on their phones!

I've lost count of the number I've seen! I saw a girl the other day riding along the road no hands, because she was texting.

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 19:47

@Funkykitty because she was starting to sound more and more unhinged in trying to justify herself to more and more posters piling on. Probably better to just walk away.

Funkykitty · 26/07/2022 19:48

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 19:47

@Funkykitty because she was starting to sound more and more unhinged in trying to justify herself to more and more posters piling on. Probably better to just walk away.

Looks like shes done that now.

WaveyHair · 26/07/2022 19:52

As a cyclist An arm by the side and not holding the bar = a hand signal....

Er I hope not. I have taken my hand off the bar & had it by my side as I had lost all feeling in my hand & wrist & my shoulder was solid.

An arm signal is more like 🤳- sorry best I had but more 90 degrees from the body.

Highway Code also says.

www.highwaycodeuk.co.uk/rules-for-cyclists-road-junctions.html (74)

If you are turning right, check the traffic to ensure it is safe, then signal and move to the centre of the road. Wait until there is a safe gap in the oncoming traffic and give a final look before completing the turn. It may be safer to wait on the left until there is a safe gap or to dismount and push your cycle across the road.

If OP had started the overtake before cyclist checked for traffic, quite entitled to continue.

WaveyHair · 26/07/2022 20:10

And if we are on a rant about overtaking cyclists the driver that did 100% piss me off and get verbal feedback on their driving was an older (not quite elderly) man.

I was waiting to turn right, in a lane, in turn with other cars. No going up the inside or jumping the queue. It was controlled by traffic lights. Light went green, I followed the queue of cars turning right, and going downhill slightly so picking up speed.

But no. the fuckwit elderly man in a car behind me decides to overtake me, then brake to turn left in front of me, nearly taking me out to get into a car park.

That is dangerous, wanky driving. And yes, his wing mirror did get folded back in as he clearly was not using it.

LakieLady · 26/07/2022 20:13

Sapphirejane · 26/07/2022 10:47

I have more issues with cyclists as a pedestrian. I’ve been knocked down twice in my town by cyclists one on the pavement and one going through a red light. Different to a car in that there is little recourse as no easy way to identify them again. One man last week cycled right up behind me on the pavement and his rang his bell and shouted aggressively when I didn’t immediately get out of his way. Also saw a woman yesterday shout angrily at a man where the cycle lane crossed the footpath. Pedestrians have right of way.

So whilst “not all cyclists are like that” it’s enough that it needs to be talked about and addressed.

I was nearly hit by one a few weeks ago. He was cycling on the pavement so he didn't have to stop at the lights that control one-way traffic on a section of very narrow road, and rounded a blind bend at speed.

As he bumped down the kerb to avoid me, he called me a cunt, presumably because he thought that me using the pavement for its intended purpose was a cuntish thing to do.

A few days later, my sympathies swung the other way though. A driver was so desperate to get past a cyclist on a winding stretch of rural road that they went so close to her that there was barely a foot between the driver's wing mirror and the cyclist's arm. The slightest wobble or bump in the road and they'd have clipped her.

I hung back and waited till we were through the bends to pass, and caught up with the driver a couple of miles up the road. A bit further on, they passed very close to 2 people on horses. Utter twat.

DdraigGoch · 26/07/2022 20:33

shootfromthehip145 · 26/07/2022 11:27

Lets talk about pollution from Lycra clad cyclists shall we and destroy that ECO-friendly appearance that you like to brag about!

Production of synthetic fabric like lycra consumes 1.35 percent of the world's oil resources. That is more than Spain's annual oil consumption.

Lycra is a plastic-based fabric, and plastic is resistant to microorganisms that break down materials. will not break down into organic matter and are therefore non-biodegradable. lycra clothing remains intact in a landfill for 100s of years.After years of degradation by sunlight and oxygen, lycra fabric will break into extremely toxic microplastics
Microplastics affect marine life and human health. microplastics are a magnet for toxins, and fish swallow these toxic microplastics. Wind and rain also carry microplastics around, so they end up virtually anywhere. No place is safe.

So no lycra clad fools are not only a danger to our roads but a danger to our planet!

Whereas 40% of oil goes towards fuel, such as that powering the average car. More still will be used in the manufacture of said car, including the vast amounts of plastic contained within.

So unless you exclusively walk everywhere, wearing hand-knitted, undyed woollen garments (sheep's wool, not acrylic) then you are still a bigger problem than cyclists are.

DdraigGoch · 26/07/2022 20:35

Mississipi71 · 26/07/2022 11:31

I was indicating right to go into a car park and was waiting for oncoming traffic to go. An idiot cyclist decided to undertake and go past me on the right as I was about to turn. Riding on pavements, swearing and gesticulating at you when they are in the wrong. Cannot stand the arrogant tossers.

Are you in a foreign country? Undertaking is on the left in countries where people drive on the left.

Islafrog · 26/07/2022 20:39

In this situation the cyclist is in front of you on the road, you are both travelling in the same direction and so the cyclist has priority over you (the same would apply if there was a car in front of you rather than a bike).

You are approaching a junction and because someone else in front of you has priority you cannot overtake because the person in front of you has priority and you might come into conflict with them (Rule 167).

You are unfortunately in the wrong here even although the cyclist may have signalled late.

My job is to teach children to cycle safely on the roads. I hope they will continue to cycle but if they don't and they go on to become drivers I hope that they are more aware of how to drive alongside cyclists and pedestrians. You wouldn't believe the examples of bad driving we have seen when out of the roads with groups of children.

There are good cyclists, bad cyclists and disrespectful/unlawful cyclists just like there are good drivers, bad drivers and disrespectful/unlawful drivers. Road users all need to cooperate. A new system of heirarchy of road users came into force at the start of the year. Cyclists are more likely to come off worse if they are hit by a large junk of metal so they sit higher up the chain than a car. Likewise pedestrians sit above cyclists.

I'm a driver (cars and vans), pedestrian, cyclist, occasional horse rider and I'd just like to complete my journey safely. This thread is a reminder that anyone can make mistakes/bad decisions on the road and we all need to think a bit more about how we interact on the road with other users so that everyone is safe. It shouldn't be a battle between one group of road users against another.

AchatAVendre · 26/07/2022 20:42

DdraigGoch So no lycra clad fools are not only a danger to our roads but a danger to our planet!

I'm interested in what people like you actually wear when you are exercising? Jeans? Cotton? Pantaloons? What on earth do you actually wear, if you eschew modern breathable stretchy fabrics?

I'm not a fool, but a hard working tax paying professional, and it will cost you quite a lot in compensation if you choose to drive carefully and hit me when I'm cycling to work. I often work in the courts too, and I've heard it all before.

Everything would be much better for everyone if we actually had universal segregated cycle paths in this country. Most Northern European countries manage to have them. Here, we don't even have footpaths along many roads and you regularly see people out walking leaping on and off the grass verge trying to dice with traffic. And I don't mean those idiotic cycle paths you get for a couple of miles covered in glass and with cyclists dismount signs at every junction, but proper ones like in Holland, Belgium, Northern Germany and Denmark.

StRaphael · 26/07/2022 21:51

Tomorrow we should all post about every driving misdemeanour we observe, ranging from lack of indicating, not understanding road signs, speeding, not adhering to stopping distances, aggression, brake lights not working etc. etc.

I wonder how many threads they’d be - my guess is thousands. The need to highlight cyclists is a boring MN obsession.

Pedallleur · 26/07/2022 22:16

StRaphael · 26/07/2022 21:51

Tomorrow we should all post about every driving misdemeanour we observe, ranging from lack of indicating, not understanding road signs, speeding, not adhering to stopping distances, aggression, brake lights not working etc. etc.

I wonder how many threads they’d be - my guess is thousands. The need to highlight cyclists is a boring MN obsession.

I see all that every day on my cycle commute. 12 miles each way. See some cyclists being stupid but how motorists make it home free of death and injury astonishes me. 99% are alright but the others seem to have a deathwish.

DdraigGoch · 26/07/2022 22:33

how motorists make it home free of death and injury astonishes me
Airbags, seatbelts, crumple zones...

AndreaC74 · 27/07/2022 07:23

Everything would be much better for everyone if we actually had universal segregated cycle paths in this country. Most Northern European countries manage to have them

Yes they would, but ultimately, there will always be cars and cyclists on the same road, as there are in Europe, its not practical to have total segregation.

I think the biggest thing we could do to improve general driving standards in this country would be re tests for drivers, introduce a cycling element to the driving test and the presumption of guilt for any driver involved in an accident with a pedestrian or cyclist.

Hopefully, unless the target is dropped, the move to ban the sale of fossil fueled cars in 2030 will lead to less vehicles on the road... though how that will work in car obsessed UK i do not know.

Inkyblue123 · 27/07/2022 07:26

I’m fairness, there are a huge amount of car drivers who don’t signal and seem to be completely confused by roundabouts. I find electric scooter riders the absolute worst. I guess idiots are not limited to one mode of transport

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 27/07/2022 11:36

I find electric scooter riders the absolute worst.

Agreed. I was turning right at a mini roundabout this morning and an idiot on a scooter shot straight across. Obviously I was going slowly and stopped (and yelled abuse at the twat) but he's asking to be in an accident

DangerouslyBored · 27/07/2022 15:19

DdraigGoch · 26/07/2022 20:33

Whereas 40% of oil goes towards fuel, such as that powering the average car. More still will be used in the manufacture of said car, including the vast amounts of plastic contained within.

So unless you exclusively walk everywhere, wearing hand-knitted, undyed woollen garments (sheep's wool, not acrylic) then you are still a bigger problem than cyclists are.

I live in rural Surrey. MAMIL / Family Dodger heaven. Majority drive to get here. The car parks are full of them getting changed out of the boot of their Audis and Porsche Cayennes. Our hedgerows and gardens are full of their rubbish. They travel long distances to get to races here and overseas. There is nothing environmentally friendly about being a MAMIL.

hesttreat · 27/07/2022 15:30

NellesVilla · 26/07/2022 10:25

YANBU.

Like many people I loathe most cyclists and dream about mowing some down (half-joking!).

I am currently living in a bit of leafy Surrey where they are infamous in taking over the roads- often riding 3 abreast- and generally being an absolute pain in the neck.

Cyclists, it’s true: most car and can drivers detest you, or at least your behaviour on the roads!!

I should imagine in leafy Surrey most cyclists are car drivers as well?

OneTC · 27/07/2022 17:45

DangerouslyBored · 27/07/2022 15:19

I live in rural Surrey. MAMIL / Family Dodger heaven. Majority drive to get here. The car parks are full of them getting changed out of the boot of their Audis and Porsche Cayennes. Our hedgerows and gardens are full of their rubbish. They travel long distances to get to races here and overseas. There is nothing environmentally friendly about being a MAMIL.

They also have little to do with advocacy for cycling for environmental reasons.

If more people replaced short car journeys with short cycle journeys there would be less emissions.

Going on about the small percentage that wrap themselves in plastic to do it, as a kind of gotcha from a user of any other type of vehicle is ridiculous.

AndreaC74 · 27/07/2022 19:39

DangerouslyBored · 27/07/2022 15:19

I live in rural Surrey. MAMIL / Family Dodger heaven. Majority drive to get here. The car parks are full of them getting changed out of the boot of their Audis and Porsche Cayennes. Our hedgerows and gardens are full of their rubbish. They travel long distances to get to races here and overseas. There is nothing environmentally friendly about being a MAMIL.

But plenty of people drive to park runs, walking, taking the dog out.. endless reasons to drive somewhere nice BUT apparently cyclists can't do that?

People also go overseas to lazy by a pool, surf, paraglide, walk hike etc etc but cyclists can't do that either?

Plenty of people litter and its a filthy thing to do and yes cyclists do often throw gel wrappers into hedgerows, just as users of Macdonalds do or heaven forbid, dog owners and bags of shit....

Maybe a bit more tolerance is required on all sides.

RedHelenB · 28/07/2022 07:04

LaLoba · 26/07/2022 10:13

So by your own account the cyclist signalled a right turn and you overtook anyway. I’d swear at you too.

This. He was signalling and you ignored it. Yabu.

Nala82 · 28/07/2022 07:20

bluegardenflowers · 26/07/2022 10:55

It was simultaneous with my committing to overtake. He needed to read the Highway Code not me. He effectively didn't signal. By the time i realised what he wanted it was to late and i was committed.

It's lucky for the cyclist that because you're a safe and considerate driver who follows the rules you didn't overtake at a junction, so their ambiguous signal (if that's what it was) didn't turn out to be a problem, because you weren't overtaking in a dangerous place anyway.

Oh......