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Mother in law trouble

83 replies

Icequeen122 · 24/07/2022 17:07

Hi I was just wanting others opinions on this to see if anyone thinks I’m wrong I don’t think I am so here goes..
my son has autism and only 8 years old one of the things he can struggle with is behaviour I am doing everything I can to help him with his, he had a bad day and wasn’t listening to anything and was just doing a lot of misbehaving.
she isn’t his biological grandmother either so I felt how she handled him was completely wrong and I wouldn’t of even let my own mother do what she did.
she thought it would be okay to shout at him repeatedly and called him stupid and a fucking idiot and told him that his younger brothers were more intelligent than him. I then started to tell her I think she needs to stop and she then started to shout at me and call me a fucking idiot and said that if he was her son she would lock him down a hall way for a week with nothing to do. so I told my partner that me and the children were leaving she then kept shouting at me so I said oh that’s clever isn’t it keep shouting infront of the children that’s going to upset them. She then said to my partner oh so cos she says so you all need to leave do you! I kept saying we’re leaving and that was that. She then shouted at my partner telling him to never bring that thing here again meaning me and I said don’t worry I won’t be coming back again I don’t want too and told her sue wasn’t welcome at my home either. My partner has said it was all my fault and I shouldn’t of said anything to her. I was defending my child I had every right to pull her didn’t I?

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Icequeen122 · 25/07/2022 14:46

update- the abuse is still carrying on seen posts about me calling me a fucking bitch and more I’ve took screenshots of the posts. Got a solicitor involved too

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HernamewasMary · 25/07/2022 18:24

Maybe talk to her other son and any OH about how they deal with it? There's strength in numbers OP

Icequeen122 · 25/07/2022 18:37

@HernamewasMary her other son is more of a mummy’s boy than what my ex is. They all seem to believe her crap. They’re making out that I attacked and hit her they’re completely delusional

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Tigofigo · 29/07/2022 09:57

How are you doing Icequeen?

Icequeen122 · 29/07/2022 13:22

@Tigofigo a lot better thank you we’re finally free from their abusive crap they’ve put me and my children through. I’m taking him to court to try and win full custody of the children my solicitor thinks I’ve got a good chance especially with all the abusive messages and phone calls they’ve given me. The evil mother in law shot her self in the foot and threatened my 8 year old little boy on the phone which I recorded so that can see what they’re really like. My little boy is a lot better he’s happier and doing well thank you for asking it’s really appreciated

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TalkingToMyselfAgain · 29/07/2022 13:24

She's a horrible bitch, and your bloke enables her terrible behaviour. You need to have a serious chat with him and get him to back you up, not side with his awful mother

RobertaFirmino · 29/07/2022 14:13

TalkingToMyselfAgain · 29/07/2022 13:24

She's a horrible bitch, and your bloke enables her terrible behaviour. You need to have a serious chat with him and get him to back you up, not side with his awful mother

That horse has already bolted, RTFT

Tigofigo · 31/07/2022 10:51

Icequeen122 · 29/07/2022 13:22

@Tigofigo a lot better thank you we’re finally free from their abusive crap they’ve put me and my children through. I’m taking him to court to try and win full custody of the children my solicitor thinks I’ve got a good chance especially with all the abusive messages and phone calls they’ve given me. The evil mother in law shot her self in the foot and threatened my 8 year old little boy on the phone which I recorded so that can see what they’re really like. My little boy is a lot better he’s happier and doing well thank you for asking it’s really appreciated

I really admire you for getting yourself and them away from these people. Good luck with custody x

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