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Neighbour has cut my tree...a lot!

274 replies

NeighbourCutMyTree · 18/07/2022 09:23

How much is usual? I know they can trim overhanging branches, they've gone right to the top of the tree. I'll see if I can add a photo.

OP posts:
sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:51

@sunglassesonthetable I though you might have appreciated some shade today!
It's a shame you don't have the ability to have a nice raport and dialogue with your neighbour to discuss a suitable resolution.

@saleorbouy

Couldn't agree more. 😄

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:52

SofiaSoFar · 18/07/2022 12:50

That works both ways.

OP should have started the discussion prior to letting the tree take over part of the neighbour's garden.

Even if the tree was already too large when OP moved in, it's still up to them to sort it out if they don't want the neighbour to take their own action.

The OP is a tenant, not her tree Sheesh

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:52

The neighbours should have cut it in the winter when the sap receded, that's just good manners.

There's NO good manners involved here.

( ok though cos it's the law👍🏻)

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:52

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:51

@sunglassesonthetable I though you might have appreciated some shade today!
It's a shame you don't have the ability to have a nice raport and dialogue with your neighbour to discuss a suitable resolution.

@saleorbouy

Couldn't agree more. 😄

Not her tree but landlords

godmum56 · 18/07/2022 12:53

This thing about being responsible if the tree dies......not true. You aren't allowed to kill your neighbours tree on purpose but if you trim branches and or roots in line with what is allowed and the tree subsequently dies then the neighbour is not at fault.....fir one thing how would you prove it ?

godmum56 · 18/07/2022 12:54

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:52

The neighbours should have cut it in the winter when the sap receded, that's just good manners.

There's NO good manners involved here.

( ok though cos it's the law👍🏻)

Good manners is either not letting the tree overgrow in the first place or not moaning when a neighbour trims it.

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:54

SofiaSoFar · 18/07/2022 12:50

That works both ways.

OP should have started the discussion prior to letting the tree take over part of the neighbour's garden.

Even if the tree was already too large when OP moved in, it's still up to them to sort it out if they don't want the neighbour to take their own action.

Not her tree belongs to the landlord. OP has no say in the matter

ThreeLittleDots · 18/07/2022 12:55

I never understand not having some dialogue with neighbours

No permission is needed hence no particular need for dialogue.

Any dialogue would be limited to:

Neighbour 1: "My tree surgeon is cutting all of the overhanging branches up to the boundary line on Friday"

Neighbour 2: "Ok"

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:56

stupidly · 18/07/2022 12:23

I am going to do a exactly the same thing to our neighbours huge apple tree that over hangs in to my garden, drops dozens of apples everyday that I have to pick up for weeks. Clear all the leaves on autumn. It's a lovely tree but far too close to the boundary and needs to be kept in check, which it is hasn't been.
Awaiting neighbour fall out - but I will let them know we plan to do it and agree when (when is best for the tree) however I would not bother discussing with them if they were renters rather than owners.

Well I would liaise with the landlord firstly

bruffin · 18/07/2022 12:57

Badbadbunny · 18/07/2022 12:12

Shouldn't be so stupid as to plant a large tree so close to a boundary in the first place.

How do you know the trees werent there first. The trees in our estate were there when the houses built, its part of the charm of the estate.

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:57

godmum56 · 18/07/2022 12:53

This thing about being responsible if the tree dies......not true. You aren't allowed to kill your neighbours tree on purpose but if you trim branches and or roots in line with what is allowed and the tree subsequently dies then the neighbour is not at fault.....fir one thing how would you prove it ?

Well you're wrong there

milkyaqua · 18/07/2022 12:58

Where does it say the OP is a tenant?

ThreeLittleDots · 18/07/2022 12:58

You aren't allowed to kill your neighbours tree on purpose but if you trim branches and or roots in line with what is allowed and the tree subsequently dies then the neighbour is not at fault.....fir one thing how would you prove it

Hmm. I think case law would be the best thing to look at. Party 1 would have to prove that party 2 behaved recklessly and caused the death of the tree via sap loss, or introducing infection.

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:58

*Neighbour 1: "My tree surgeon is cutting all of the overhanging branches up to the boundary line on Friday"

Neighbour 2: "Ok"*

LoL at thinking everyone else being the same as you😂

Nope it wouldn't be like that around here.

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 12:59

Good manners is either not letting the tree overgrow in the first place or not moaning when a neighbour trims it.

Add to that discussing the situation with your neighbour.

LarryBlackmonsCodpiece · 18/07/2022 13:00

Highly amusing some of the comments in this thread. After being granted permission from your local council you can have your neighbours very neglected TPO oaks cut every few years as they start to go over your boundary or touch your property, probably best to get them pruned later on in the year. A registered arborist will cut it similar to ops, bit tidier mind. As in typical mumsnet fashion loads of self entitled imbeciles here who obviously can’t be arsed to properly maintain their beloved trees, then throw their toys out of the pram when others have to deal with your mess. It’s your responsibility to deal with it not your neighbour, be a good one instead of a selfish fuckwit.

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 13:02

No permission is needed hence no particular need for dialogue.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just hold up a card with IT'S THE LAW on it if approached.

RockinHorseShit · 18/07/2022 13:03

Less highly amusing & incredibly sad that too many, yourself included @LarryBlackmonsCodpiece are too ignorant to know the laws that are there to protect our birds & wildlife 🙄

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 13:04

As in typical mumsnet fashion loads of self entitled imbeciles here who obviously can’t be arsed to properly maintain their beloved trees, then throw their toys out of the pram when others have to deal with your mess. It’s your responsibility to deal with it not your neighbour, be a good one instead of a selfish fuckwit.

"Obviously " doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

Thebeastofsleep · 18/07/2022 13:05

NeighbourCutMyTree · 18/07/2022 09:43

If I even up the other side, there will be no tree left, seriously, it's half the tree they've lopped off! Because of the way I've blocked out the surrounding houses you can't tell, but I am left with half a tree. There's no way to even up the mess. I'll just have to live and learn to love my half a tree.

If the half they cut overhang the boundary they were perfectly within their rights, even if it has butchered the tree (which it has).

ThreeLittleDots · 18/07/2022 13:06

It protects nesting sites, built nests & nests being built. You can't even legally move pigeon nests out of season as they reuse old nests

What's not true in what I said? OP didn't say there were nesting birds. People are making up scenarios here.

doubt the neighbours even bothered to check

There's no evidence to suggest this from OP's post.

ThreeLittleDots · 18/07/2022 13:07

LoL at thinking everyone else being the same as you

Pardon?

Nope it wouldn't be like that around here

What would it be like?

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 13:09

There's no evidence to suggest this from OP's post.

Yep It certainly looks like they are people who take care with things.

SofiaSoFar · 18/07/2022 13:09

justasking111 · 18/07/2022 12:54

Not her tree belongs to the landlord. OP has no say in the matter

I must be missing something; I can't see any posts from OP saying she's tenant not owner?

But if that is the case there's even less incentive for the neighbour to be getting into much of a conversation about it. The LL clearly isn't taking responsibility.

sunglassesonthetable · 18/07/2022 13:10

What would it be like?

Bit of a chat. Explain.
OP organises someone who can do a decent job.

Everyone knows what is going on.