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Strange comment from couple re children’s clothes.

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Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 01:05

I’ve always taken pride in my children’s outfits. Always ironed, Boden etc.

I was at the local tea shop yesterday when an elderly man said to my two young children ‘ooo dressed for a wedding are we’ and his wife snapped at him saying ‘no, just a parent who dresses them properly’

I felt quite uncomfortable that he felt my children were going to a wedding because they were in a dress.

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Ontomatopea · 15/07/2022 12:24

Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 12:10

I also have no complaints if the items get dirty or soiled. Due to the quality of Boden items, they can handle a hot enough wash to remove soiling. Another win.

Does the colour fade? I quite like the look of some of this boden stuff

BoJoGoGoGo · 15/07/2022 12:29

They are very pretty but not something I'd put anywhere near a park. Were they matching? A bit twee if so, I hated wearing the same as my sibling.

Tops and leggings are more suited for the park- they could still be a tunic etc

Vikinga · 15/07/2022 12:30

The dress is very pretty. It looks victorian. I'm sure my girls would have worn them to the park but i wouldn't have liked to have to get grass stains, juice stains etc off it. I don't like to do high temperature washes and I have too much to do to have to spend too much needless time looking after my kids clothes.

I also never iron or very rarely. Again, I have too many other things that I love doing to waste it doing that but if you enjoy it then I don't see the problem.

BoJoGoGoGo · 15/07/2022 12:31

Just seen they're 45 pounds too! More money than sense tbh

Louise0701 · 15/07/2022 12:31

If you love pretty dresses, why did you buy that one?

Chattycathydoll · 15/07/2022 12:33

Gorgeous dress! The sort of thing I’d have loved when I was little and still love tbh (and my DD hates, per the dragon/welly combos upthread.) they’re going to get stains on their clothes no matter what colour, does blue with stains really matter compared to white with stains? If the kids are happy, that’s what matters.

HangOnToYourself · 15/07/2022 12:34

This the most middle class, mumsnetty thing I've read for some time...

Testina · 15/07/2022 12:35

Louise0701 · 15/07/2022 12:31

If you love pretty dresses, why did you buy that one?

😭

User5386509 · 15/07/2022 12:35

Surely the DC were not dressed in the same dress

Vikinga · 15/07/2022 12:35

So looking at the boden website, these dresses look more comfortable and practical whilst still being pretty

Strange comment from couple re children’s clothes.
Strange comment from couple re children’s clothes.
Strange comment from couple re children’s clothes.
BruceWaynettaSlob · 15/07/2022 12:36

SnackSizeRaisin · 15/07/2022 06:03

Very sexist to put girls in dresses to go to the park. Why should they be hampered by their clothing. Don't think the brand particularly matters.

Round here it's a marker of being working class to dress children smartly. Ironed dresses with knee socks, patent shoes and bows in hair etc. Boys in sailor suits with a side parting. Middle class kids wear any old junk crumpled and full of holes. No experience of Boden, but Asda has nice children's clothes.

Do the snobs round your way shudder when they see the ghastly working class Princes George and Louis and Princess Charlotte on TV?

AtwilightRebellion · 15/07/2022 12:36

Sapphirejane · 15/07/2022 08:21

@AtwilightRebellion - have you considered that you having a cleaner frees up an awful lot of time to iron that others not blessed with the means to hire a cleaner may not have?

Oh sure. But i liked it as a student too. I've always ironed - I do it in front of TV.

Never ironing a single thing is unthinkable to me. But then I like crisp bed linen and clothes that look like they have been properly pressed. 😊

TheRainIsNotPermanent · 15/07/2022 12:39

The dress screams special occasion to me.

BruceWaynettaSlob · 15/07/2022 12:56

Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 12:09

Personally I love pretty dresses and will not be responsible for your opinions.

Jumped the shark now, op.

SoupDragon · 15/07/2022 13:02

I like crisp bed linen

i prefer my bed linen to be soft, not crisp.

SoupDragon · 15/07/2022 13:04

Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 11:54

These were the dresses.

Sure.... And you couldn't think of a single reason why it looked like they were going somewhere like a wedding rather than the park?

Sapphirejane · 15/07/2022 13:15

BruceWaynettaSlob · 15/07/2022 12:36

Do the snobs round your way shudder when they see the ghastly working class Princes George and Louis and Princess Charlotte on TV?

The royal children dress pretty casually the rest of the time, those formal outfits are for when they are “working”. So yes copying the royals for everyday wear I would consider working class actually.

Children dressed the same makes me cringe a little. Let them have their own identities. It seems lazy to me.

Sapphirejane · 15/07/2022 13:16

@SoupDragon ooo no, nothing beats crisp cool bed linen, but then I am a scratchy towel person too.

Pipsquiggle · 15/07/2022 13:22

@Uptheapplesandpearstobed

So your DDs were both wearing the same ironed pretty white good quality dress from Boden and you wondered why a random old man asked if they were going to a wedding 😂

This thread is just too funny. I think it's the most #firstworldproblem we've had.

Congratulations OP - you have raised the bar

Bellaboo01 · 15/07/2022 13:33

Why did that make you feel uncomfortable?

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. They were an elderly couple and clearly werent being rude. Life is too short to worry about this sort of thing.

FilthyforFirth · 15/07/2022 13:35

What an absolutely mad outfit for the park. No other words!

Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 13:41

My children are still young therefore they cannot climb upon the apparatus so the outfit was suitable for sitting on my picnic rug (White Company)

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Dita73 · 15/07/2022 13:43

Ok this is definitely a wind up

User5386509 · 15/07/2022 13:43

😂😂😂

Uptheapplesandpearstobed · 15/07/2022 13:44

It is most definitely not a wind up, I just thought as I’d been ripped to shreds over my Boden dresses that I’d throw in a treat for you all 😉

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