Tiffany jewellery views

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I need to buy a gift for my sons TA, she’s much more than that she’s now like family. She’s been with my son for seven years. He’s gone from being non verbal to verbal with her among other things. She’s been amazing. I wanted to get her something that she could look at to remember that would last. I was going to get know earring for friendship but after thinking about it realised that they would clash with her bung.

is Tiffany as a brand now tacky/ outdated? I’m thinking of getting her necklace, not a love heart return to Tiffany’s, a more subtle not obvious necklace, probably a friendship knot.

it is an expensive gift (for us) but want something that will last.

I have asked on style and beauty but wanted to widen the views to more people who aren’t as fashion conscious if that makes sense.

That's such a lovely idea. Does she wear jewellery already? If so, what colour and style? What sort of clothes? How old is she?

Tiffany gets a lot of bad press on here, but I wouldn't take much notice.
I have a beautiful cake slice and knife from the New York store which was a wedding present 27 years ago. Tacky it is not.
Just keep whatever you buy simple?

I agree that Tiffany is timeless and a blue box is a beautiful gift to receive. I have had a few pieces over the years and they are so wearable.

That sounds like such a thoughtful beautiful idea. A little blue box is always an exciting gift to receive!

Well, I still love Tiffany jewellery.

Thank you. She's late 20's has tattoos and piercings but still dresses well and looks amazing, naturally pretty so she can get away with anything. @KittyEmK

Sorry OP, I re read the question and realised you weren't looking for style ideas! I'm sure she'll be utterly thrilled with a necklace from Tiffany X

Anything over £25 has to be declared and permission sort to keep the time. Just keep that in mind.

I think it's risky. Tiffany is old hat, and crap value. If she's into tats I can't see her wanting Tiffany. What do you want to spend?

Could you check discreetly with the head if she is allowed to accept it? Gifts over a certain value may need to be declared or refused if from a single family, rather than a group getting together to get vouchers for example.

I am wearing my Elsa piretti starfish as I write. She will love it. CN I make a suggestion of a voucher so she can choose. Or if you do want to get her something go for a necklace good Luck

I'd check if she's allowed to accept such an expensive gift. I also think it's extremely over the top. There are cheaper jewellery items you can buy.

It doesn't sound as though Tiffany is going to be her style. It's a lot of money on something that she wouldn't keep. Most professionals wouldn't be able to accept it.

I think you got some good suggestions on the other thread. My dd is a similar age and style by the sounds of it, very into black and tattoos, and she has jewellery from Vivienne Westwood that she loves. Cheaper than Tiffany too.

Will she actually like it?

I was given Tiffany earrings which I ended up selling on Marketplace as they were entirely not me.

It’s a lovely thought but I’d ensure it was something really wanted.

I wouldn't, I would buy her a gift card from Tiffany though so she can choose her own jewellery. It would be such a waste if it's wrong.

Tattooed and pierced woman here, wearing a Tiffany bracelet as we speak. I love it and have worn it 24/7 for about 15 years now. I have a friend with full-body tattoos and purple hair who also loves Tiffany silver. That said, we both like the chunky, Hardwear / 1837 / ID tag ranges rather than the more delicate pieces.

I do agree that the prices are totally ridiculous, though Pieces are easy to re-sell for a decent amount, which for some people is a plus, but probably not the first consideration when you're buying it as a gift!

OP, if you are going to buy her jewellery, regardless of where you buy it, I think the thing to consider is what kind of thing she currently wears. For example, if she usually wears silver she's probably not going to be keen on gold, and vice versa. If she favours jewellery or accessories that are quite bold and edgy, something delicate might not be right for her.

Have you looked a Viviana Westwood? DD and friends are all after the earrings!

Could you not get her a lovely mug?

Catherine Zoraida had some cool gold star earring and necklace which sound like they might suit her style.
Lovely gesture btw. My MIL has never got me anything on this scale!

I second the idea of looking at what she usually wears and choosing something in a similar vein.

Tiffany can be lovely but it's not everyone's taste and a delicate classic piece given to me would lie in a box unworn (along with the other Tiffany pieces already there....). My own DD though constantly wears a tiny white gold infinity knot necklace which if it isn't Tiffany, looks as though it should be.

Must have missed the posts were Tiffany jewellery was slated!
my engagement, wedding and eternity rings are Tiffany - love them all. Much admired, timeless and flawless.

It’s a lot of money to spend on something when you’re not 100% sure on her personal style.

Also consider that although very generous and thoughtful, that value of present might make her feel a bit uncomfortable, especially if it’s something she’s not keen on. I have a few pieces of jewellery that I’ve been given as gifts sitting unused in a drawer, and I feel a horrible guilt every time I come across them.

This is a bit different if it’s within your budget.

I think your sentiment is lovely, and the wish to give her something that will ensure is also lovely. But I’m not sure Tiffany jewelry is the answer. Partly because jewelry is very personal, partly because Tiffany jewelry bought now has a reputation.

Browse the Tiffany website. There are beautiful pieces for around the home. Photo frames, a jewelry dish, a keepsake box. These are quality pieces, discreet, durable, and have a price tag that might help indicate the depth of your appreciation.

A well-written letter and photograph could do the same, mind.