Tiffany jewellery views

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I need to buy a gift for my sons TA, she’s much more than that she’s now like family. She’s been with my son for seven years. He’s gone from being non verbal to verbal with her among other things. She’s been amazing. I wanted to get her something that she could look at to remember that would last. I was going to get know earring for friendship but after thinking about it realised that they would clash with her bung.

is Tiffany as a brand now tacky/ outdated? I’m thinking of getting her necklace, not a love heart return to Tiffany’s, a more subtle not obvious necklace, probably a friendship knot.

it is an expensive gift (for us) but want something that will last.

I have asked on style and beauty but wanted to widen the views to more people who aren’t as fashion conscious if that makes sense.

If she’s into tattoos, piercing and stretching and is under 30, I’d say she’s probably not got branded jewellery at the top of her gift list.

Given what you say about the relationship, I get why you want to be so generous, and it makes sense.

Maybe something like this might be more “her”- aweinspired.com/collections/athena-collection

There’s lots of feminist goddesses/icons- one that represents knowledge/learning etc might be meaningful to her?

OP what's your budget?

I really like Tiffany's personally but only the bits that aren't obviously the brand. I'd avoid heart stuff as well

Kirstie LeMarque has some wonderful pieces that are quite 'in' at the moment and varies from chunky to delicate.

I think it's a wonderful idea and sounds like she's really been invaluable to you and your son x

I wouldn’t, jewellery is so personal. People might see I like gold, and a certain style, but I would hate for someone to spend money on something I would be fussy on (I.e., same style but slightly too thick or thin, etc). It’s a lovely sentiment, but money or vouchers (or a shopping trip together and let her know the budget beforehand) would mean she could get something she really liked and would be a lovely memory with you, rather than her feeling she has to wear it whenever she saw you and for it to be a chore. I personally wouldn’t buy jewellery, accessories, or art for someone unless they specifically wanted a certain item.

To be fair, when I was a nanny I bought the children gifts of anything from £50-£100. I don't think it was inappropriate. I adored those children and spent 55hours a week with them. Far more than my niece and nephew who I saw once a year and spent more on. It made them happy and that made me happy in return. It's almost 10 years since I left and I'm still in touch with their mum celebrating their milestones, laughing at their girlfriend drama (they're still 3 and 5 in my mind) and in awe of their academic achievements. I get the odd Facebook message from the eldest and love it when I do.

Thanks. I did Google bung but that's not what I got!
I'd personally be blown away by a gift from Tiffany's for what it's worth

Sweet sentiment, but inappropriate I think.

A card with a note about the difference she has made is much more suitable.

I know of one member of staff who was gifted cash by a grateful parent. It had to be given back and was awkward and embarrassing for all involved. Don’t put this lovely person in that position.

My SIL has this necklace and it's nice. She's in her 30s. www.tiffany.co.uk/jewelry/necklaces-pendants/palomas-graffiti-love-kisses-pendant-36343257/

That's sweet

I work as a jeweller (but I'm not fashion conscious at all!) and would say Tiffany jewellery is incredibly overpriced.
I feel aggrieved seeing people spend £250+ on mass produced silver jewellery, not because I'm snobby but because I know you could either get something very similar for a fraction of the price or get something better (maybe unique or handmade) for the same budget.
Obviously with Tiffany it's about the name, the advertising, the luxury shops, the experience, the blue box etc the jewellery itself is only part of what you pay for.

I have never heard of this £25 rule. I bought DS's exam scribe a bouquet of flowers costing £28.

Take a look on Notinthehighstreet.com.

Lots of ideas and gifts that can be personalized.

There is a heap of different types of jewellery if you're still keen on that idea.

I have some Tiffany jewellery (purchased using Singapore transit dollars many years ago so worked out very cheap) and I'm regularly complimented by young and old.
I'm 30s, with tattoos and several piercings.

Jewellery is a difficult one as I have never received a jewellery gift that is something I would have bought myself and usually haven't liked it all that much. But I love the idea of getting something she will treasure for a long time.

My favourite gift I have given was really personal to the person I got it for. The gift in itself meant something, as well as being of value and could be treasured. Could you perhaps go back to the drawing board ans think along those lines?

Some posters have suggested vouchers. I really wouldn't buy vouchers, too impersonal.

I have also never understood them. Why anyone would swap government back currency for something that usually expires, has no protection and you're limited where you can spend it is beyond me.

Just had a thought - maybe something from Sean Leane? Much more edgy than Tiffany. shaunleane.com/collections/best-sellers

I think a Tiffany gift would be OTT.

A smaller gift with a card with a heartfelt message would be a better call.

I've had loads of amazing gifts over many years from parents whose pupils I've supported.
So many wonderful things but the one that I'll never forget was a lovely card with a very personal message and a packet of Forget-Me-Not seeds.

I love Tiffany as well.

I work as a jeweller (but I'm not fashion conscious at all!) and would say Tiffany jewellery is incredibly overpriced

Same. I'm a silversmith and stone setter. You'd be better off getting a one-off piece that's more 'her.'

I do commissions for any budget, so that people can get the perfect piece that has a bit of unique meaning behind it. Plus you'd be supporting a small business/maker!

If you had a budget of £50, if you find the right metalsmith, you could get something nice made, a pair of earrings/pendant or something. I'd do it for that, silver isn't expensive (relatively), and I work efficiently.

I'm anon. here, so not touting for trade, but there are plenty of others like me out there!

Oh nice. Some of those pieces are amazing. Very different.

Aside from the fact that it sounds like she has a pretty unprofessional relationship with your family…I’d be disappointed by the waste of money if someone bought me Tiffany jewellery. I’d much prefer a gift card. I’m sure she would too, so she can choose something she definitely likes

There’s a website called Tom Foolery London that has some really nice things. The prices vary but I think you’ll find something on there a bit different that she’d probably like