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Does your DC primary school allow squash through a hot day?

381 replies

Neowwwm · 11/07/2022 09:03

Sent my DC with a non- see through bottle with juice in today as since weaning and trying - DC has never drank plain water. Teacher removed the bottle stating water only in the day which will be provided with their own water bottles from school and juice only at lunch time.

AIBU or should this rule be relaxed during heatwaves?

OP posts:
EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 11/07/2022 14:09

That's one very expensive bottle

Madein1995 · 11/07/2022 14:09

It's boiling. They should be allowed to drink squash ffs.

UndertheCedartree · 11/07/2022 14:10

Mamibaer · 11/07/2022 09:34

Have you tried those water bottles with the flavour pods (think they’re called air up, or something)? My friend‘s autistic child uses them. It’s a scented ring that is placed round the nozzle to give the drinker the impression they are drinking something flavoured, but it’s actually just water. Works perfectly for him

I got one of these for my autistic boy. He wasn't keen. Any tips on the best 'flavours'?

ComDummings · 11/07/2022 14:11

Water definitely does have a taste

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 11/07/2022 14:17

UndertheCedartree · 11/07/2022 14:10

I got one of these for my autistic boy. He wasn't keen. Any tips on the best 'flavours'?

How is he with smells? I'm not sure it would be any good for mine. He's very sensitive to smell, can tell you you've bought different meatballs to usual just by sniffing them 🙄

MissMaple82 · 11/07/2022 14:24

No, you can't have one rule for one and not the others. He'll not die, he'll drink water if he's thirsty

Fml1980 · 11/07/2022 14:27

bigfootisreal · 11/07/2022 13:34

We had a parent who claimed this and tried to call us abusers until we pointed out that their child drank water all day and we have photos to prove it that we've taken during the course of activities. Not one child has refused water in over 20 years experience with me including SEN.

You are very welcome to come to mine and see if you can work your magic on my child.

justfiveminutes · 11/07/2022 14:38

Our school only allows water too.

It is for good reasons - to encourage good choices for teeth and health, to prevent sticky spills.

I turn a blind eye if ND children bring in bottles where I can't see what's in them - I assume it's squash and consider it to be a reasonable adjustment, especially in such hot weather.

I used to think they'd drink water if it was all that was offered, but some children really do get to the point of dehydration before they will drink it. I suppose they'd drink it if they were thirsty enough, but seems rather inhumane to test the theory!

SirenSays · 11/07/2022 14:47

All these posts about how if the children were dropped into a desert and all juice disappeared from the world then they'd drink water... well yeah, we'd all do things we don't like to Survive 🤦‍♀️
I'm not sure forcing children to drink things they don't like is great for learning and concentration. Being desperate for a drink has never helped me focus on anything, except how thirsty I am.

What's the deal with these airup pods? It looks like a lot of plastic waste.

mizzo · 11/07/2022 15:20

Hate the taste?"
But there IS no taste! It's water.

Of course it has a taste. The tap water where I live is lovely. Where my sister lives it's horrible and tastes bleachy.
Evian tastes different to Volvic. A glass of water at my in laws tastes soapy because they don't rinse after washing up. I can tell if DH uses a glass that's had squash in it and not been washed just quickly rinsed when he gets me a drink of water.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 11/07/2022 15:38

RaleighDurham · 11/07/2022 13:24

"Hate the taste?"
But there IS no taste! It's water.
And if you live in an area where the tap water is chalky or whatever, then buy bottled water.
Disabilities aside, there are some fussy people around.

Water definitely does have a taste!

I used to be able to tolerate the water where I used to live - can't stand it here - even ice cold it makes me gag, I have to add squash or something to it to make it tolerable.

Bottled water is extortionately expensive and awful for the environment - a bottle of squash is dirt cheap and lasts weeks.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 11/07/2022 16:30

CuppaTeaAndSammich · 11/07/2022 10:58

Why is it bad? I've drank heavily diluted sugar free squash (yes, it exists!) all my life, brush my teeth well and I am 30 with no fillings or decay. I have 6 month dental checks and each time they give me the all clear and praise me for my good hygiene. Tap water in my area tastes like crap and I refuse to keep buying plastic bottles of water

No one doubts that sugar free squash exists - the sugar has been replaced with that artificial sweetener shite. And whatever damage that is doing to you won’t show up in a dental check up 🤨

zingally · 11/07/2022 16:46

In my experience as a primary supply teacher, a lot of schools are moving away from this "water only" rule. Deciding that weak squash is better than drinking nothing.
I have squash in my water bottle while I'm teaching (it's not see-through), and I don't have a problem with a child having it either.

I've got better things to be battling over.

zingally · 11/07/2022 16:49

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 11/07/2022 16:30

No one doubts that sugar free squash exists - the sugar has been replaced with that artificial sweetener shite. And whatever damage that is doing to you won’t show up in a dental check up 🤨

Me too. Even as a little tot I was drinking weak squash rather than water.

I don't recall ever drinking a plain glass of water as a child.

As an adult, I now only drink squash or coffee during the day. It ain't done me no 'arm!

Motherofalittledragon · 11/07/2022 17:02

TheSoundOfLunch · 11/07/2022 09:16

There is no “additional need” that means a child should have a sugary drink rather than water.

If you say so 🙄

bigfootisreal · 11/07/2022 18:49

Fml1980 · 11/07/2022 14:27

You are very welcome to come to mine and see if you can work your magic on my child.

Oh many of ours are the same at home, in school bring out a jug of water at break and they are like flies all after some. Every single one. Never seen a child refuse before now. They suddenly forget they 'hate it'.

cansu · 11/07/2022 19:02

flavoured water.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 11/07/2022 19:09

bigfootisreal · 11/07/2022 18:49

Oh many of ours are the same at home, in school bring out a jug of water at break and they are like flies all after some. Every single one. Never seen a child refuse before now. They suddenly forget they 'hate it'.

So because you've never experienced a water refuser, they don't exist?

I used to refuse water to the point of making myself unwell. As an adult, I couldn't tell you the last time I had plain tap water - probably about five years ago, maybe longer?

Loics · 11/07/2022 19:13

I work in education at exec level (still work with/around students), and was previously a teacher, I'm 🤔 at the teachers who seem to think it's all made up. I hope they're in the minority, at least I can't think of any staff of mine who would automatically assume a student not tolerating water was just being picky, especially if we were aware of SEN.

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 11/07/2022 19:16

Mine has never drank water at school, all the teachers he's had have said he won't, never drinks the milk either. He also never uses the toilet at school apparently . I'm not sure how he'd be if he suddenly became unwell and had to. Distressed probably

bigfootisreal · 11/07/2022 19:34

coffeecupsandfairylights · 11/07/2022 19:09

So because you've never experienced a water refuser, they don't exist?

I used to refuse water to the point of making myself unwell. As an adult, I couldn't tell you the last time I had plain tap water - probably about five years ago, maybe longer?

Oh I've seen kids refuse water for their parents and then forget the minute they want a drink.

UndertheCedartree · 11/07/2022 20:25

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 11/07/2022 14:17

How is he with smells? I'm not sure it would be any good for mine. He's very sensitive to smell, can tell you you've bought different meatballs to usual just by sniffing them 🙄

He's not particularly sensitive.

Isaidnoalready · 11/07/2022 20:26

MissMaple82 · 11/07/2022 14:24

No, you can't have one rule for one and not the others. He'll not die, he'll drink water if he's thirsty

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

UndertheCedartree · 11/07/2022 20:27

SirenSays · 11/07/2022 14:47

All these posts about how if the children were dropped into a desert and all juice disappeared from the world then they'd drink water... well yeah, we'd all do things we don't like to Survive 🤦‍♀️
I'm not sure forcing children to drink things they don't like is great for learning and concentration. Being desperate for a drink has never helped me focus on anything, except how thirsty I am.

What's the deal with these airup pods? It looks like a lot of plastic waste.

Each pod is used multiple times, can't remember how many bottles worth but it is quite a lot.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 11/07/2022 20:30

bigfootisreal · 11/07/2022 19:34

Oh I've seen kids refuse water for their parents and then forget the minute they want a drink.

Good for you 🙄

I refused water at home, at school, at childcare and now, as an adult, I still won't drink it as it makes me gag.

I was diagnosed as autistic in my twenties, so at school I wouldn't have had the "excuse" of SN or disability, but I can assure you it existed. I never touched water at school. I remember being made to have a drink lukewarm tap water in primary school and promptly vomiting it back up all over the floor.