At first he was the one arranging dates and meet ups. Now it feels like it’s always me. It just feels exhausting.
When I ask him the answer is always the same ‘if I finish work early enough I’ll come over to yours’ or ‘I have some work to get on with this weekend but if I get done in time I’ll see you’.
It just feels so much hard work. He was once making lots of effort but now he ‘has’ me he does not unless it benefits him.