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To wear sandals to an interview?

197 replies

hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 15:14

I've damaged both my big toes running and they've come off, I cannot put my foot in a shoe without wincing.

Would this be absolutely horrendous and I can tell the story? Or do I wince and just put a shoe on?!

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hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 16:08

@Quincythequince since when were bare arms not acceptable for an interview? Are you ok?

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TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2022 16:09

Why are you asking if you keep arguing back?

You're not the only opinion in town you know 🤣

hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 16:09

Some of these comments make me feel like interviewing has turned into being put on the stand Hmm

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AryaStarkWolf · 07/07/2022 16:09

Quincythequince · 07/07/2022 15:49

To an interview, yes there is.
It’s not proper attire.

You’d be better off wearing trousers and clean new white trainers (also with an sorry for these but I have a foot injury explanation) than sandals.

better to wear trainers over sandals? Are you mad?

Fizbosshoes · 07/07/2022 16:11

Wow. I really never knew that feet /sandals were a big no no for interviews. I work in a practical creative job and I wear flip flops, t shirts, vests, shorts etc (jeans and hoodie in the winter). I would prob try to look slightly smarter if I was going for an interview though.

Fizbosshoes · 07/07/2022 16:11

Wow. I really never knew that feet /sandals were a big no no for interviews. I work in a practical creative job and I wear flip flops, t shirts, vests, shorts etc (jeans and hoodie in the winter). I would prob try to look slightly smarter if I was going for an interview though.

Vikinga · 07/07/2022 16:12

I'd wear the sandals and tell them that you injured yourself running a marathon so can't wear normal shoes.

TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2022 16:13

I really never knew that feet /sandals were a big no no for interviews.

That's because they aren't.

In spite of some big opinions on here.

stratforduponavon · 07/07/2022 16:13

Try and wear shoes - personally I only like to see bare feet in perfect condition. I see people sometimes with the most appalling dry skin, dirty feet, chipped or uncut toenails and it makes me feel slightly sick.

I know its me....

AryaStarkWolf · 07/07/2022 16:14

TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2022 16:13

I really never knew that feet /sandals were a big no no for interviews.

That's because they aren't.

In spite of some big opinions on here.

This indeed!

Duttercup · 07/07/2022 16:16

Is there someone saying they would wear trouser and a t-shirt to an interview? Good god!

Yup. Like I say, big corporate, established professional, would most likely judge anyone who came in a suit to interview more than anyone who wore sandals. In fact, the only women I've seen wear a suit to interview in the past 5 years or so have been recent graduates who look very sweet and very young. Occasionally some men, but more likely to be shirts and trousers. Like I say, not a creative industry. The world moves on.

Although willing to accept the experience of people saying the NHS has not! But even then, sandals are so inoffensive!

Whichjobnow · 07/07/2022 16:18

Personally I would wear the sandals and explain why (briefly!) - I tend to see it as a positive to show a more human side/personality and a sense of humour in an interview!

DayreeMilk · 07/07/2022 16:20

I interview candidates for work, I can honestly say I wouldn't notice.

Purplecatshopaholic · 07/07/2022 16:21

StoppinBy · 07/07/2022 15:21

I think it's ok as long as you preface with a cheerful 'sorry about my shoe attire, I injured my toes, they are on the mend but with the bandages on my shoes are a little too tight'. Get the elephant in the room out of the way and move on :-)

Defo what I would do. No need to over egg, or mention it again. Job done. Defo don’t wear painful shoes when you don’t have to, it will put you off doing well in the interview. Good luck with it op.

Whichjobnow · 07/07/2022 16:23

Duttercup · 07/07/2022 16:16

Is there someone saying they would wear trouser and a t-shirt to an interview? Good god!

Yup. Like I say, big corporate, established professional, would most likely judge anyone who came in a suit to interview more than anyone who wore sandals. In fact, the only women I've seen wear a suit to interview in the past 5 years or so have been recent graduates who look very sweet and very young. Occasionally some men, but more likely to be shirts and trousers. Like I say, not a creative industry. The world moves on.

Although willing to accept the experience of people saying the NHS has not! But even then, sandals are so inoffensive!

Yeah - I'm a lawyer and generally work in-house for massive multinationals, so a pretty professional/corporate environment. I would feel ridiculous turning up to an interview in a suit! I don't think I've ever done that since interviewing for training contracts as a student.

Octomore · 07/07/2022 16:23

Duttercup · 07/07/2022 16:16

Is there someone saying they would wear trouser and a t-shirt to an interview? Good god!

Yup. Like I say, big corporate, established professional, would most likely judge anyone who came in a suit to interview more than anyone who wore sandals. In fact, the only women I've seen wear a suit to interview in the past 5 years or so have been recent graduates who look very sweet and very young. Occasionally some men, but more likely to be shirts and trousers. Like I say, not a creative industry. The world moves on.

Although willing to accept the experience of people saying the NHS has not! But even then, sandals are so inoffensive!

I have plenty of NHS experience (non-clinical roles) - the Trusts I worked at were more formal than the big corporates I've worked at. PAs typically dress pretty formally, as do the people they work to (mostly directors or heads of service, as those are the only roles that still have PAs).

coodawoodashooda · 07/07/2022 16:24

StoppinBy · 07/07/2022 15:21

I think it's ok as long as you preface with a cheerful 'sorry about my shoe attire, I injured my toes, they are on the mend but with the bandages on my shoes are a little too tight'. Get the elephant in the room out of the way and move on :-)

This.

Chazzagirl2 · 07/07/2022 16:24

Just wear smart sandals and explain you’ve got a minor issue with your toes at the moment (mentioning your charity run may well get you some extra points!). The last thing you want is to be in pain and discomfort during your interview.

As long as the rest of your outfit is interview-appropriate, I doubt the interviewer will be bothered.

Good luck for Monday, OP.

Applesonstairs · 07/07/2022 16:33

@Duttercup are you NHS? T shirt for a band 5 pa would not go down well in my trust.

Quincythequince · 07/07/2022 16:36

hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 16:08

@Quincythequince since when were bare arms not acceptable for an interview? Are you ok?

My SD interviewing for a professional position was given feedback on just this. Her bare arms - not appropriate dress.

Out of curiousity - when do the sandal wearing, bare arm people here think formal workwear should be worn, if not to an interview when making a first impression?

Applesonstairs · 07/07/2022 16:39

But in regards to the op. It’s fine to be polite and say apologies for the sandals I have an injury healing and like another said be breezy. Being in pain will probably put you off the interview. In our trust open toes are a no but then even back office often have to be around the public often or interact with clinic staff. Also isn’t it a bit gross to have bare feet out at work or am I institutionalised ha.

Quincythequince · 07/07/2022 16:40

AryaStarkWolf · 07/07/2022 16:09

better to wear trainers over sandals? Are you mad?

Smart clean white trainers with a trouser suit (think of something Trinny style, for lack of. A better expression).

This is very common now in many professional environments.

Sandals, nor so much.

I guess it shows the difference in working environments.

hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 16:42

I can assure you I'm not attending an interview covering my arms and legs, it's not 1666. My forearms are not offensive.

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Maireas · 07/07/2022 16:44

hamandpotato · 07/07/2022 15:15

My big toes haven't come off - my toenails!

Hahahaha oops!

Yes - I was imagining quite the horror scenario!

Quincythequince · 07/07/2022 16:48

TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2022 16:09

Why are you asking if you keep arguing back?

You're not the only opinion in town you know 🤣

I get that.
But is you have pre-formed opinions, that won’t be swayed and you argue back, why post?

Seems pointless.