"Do you feel safe??" he asked as I got in the Jaccuzi at the Gym)

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Went to the Gym (popular generic brand) today, felt like a change and decided to get in the Jaccuzi after my work out. Two men in there already, not a thought crossed my mind that I would feel uncomfortable to get in on my own. The eldest man (70's ish maybe) asked me "Do you feel Safe?"........I said "sorry" as I didn't know if I'd heard him right.....he said again....."do you feel safe?"........I asked "shouldn't I"?? And the other bloke (40's ish) says......"we're alright, you don't need to worry about us"........I just continued to sit in the Jaccuzi and get lost in my own thoughts for the day........aibu to think that that was a little weird though right?????

It reads more like they were telling you to leave rather than offering to leave

I regularly chat to men in the sauna or steam room at my gym. Not once has any man ever said "Do you feel safe?" because - judging by their respectful behaviour on the gym floor and in the sauna - they have no thought in their heads about why I might not feel safe.

Although it could be to do with them having seen how much weight I can lift ...

But it does make me love my gym even more, reading this thread!