We have been together for 6 years. In the beginning we were both pretty poor. I being a full time student and him private renting and working in low paid positions. I paid for a lot once I was employed. Then he’s moved in with my parents and me. He doesn’t have to pay rent as my parents said we could save for our own property (his mother previously charged him £500 a months). He makes £2000 a month now. I make £1800 we now have a baby. I have a standing order into dd account and he says he can’t afford it. He complains about the cost of living. He has been saying he only has £2000 saved for the past few years. So where is all of his money going? Up until recently I was paying for groceries. Then I would leave myself flat broke with him having “no money”. He has. Is moved his money into an ISA which he’s unable to touch. So when we have a rainy day, how can we get through it if he’s locked his money away? Years ago I had £8000 saved in an ISA, we missed our flights in Bali and I paid for us both to return home. I had to draw money from my ISA. I now have no money in that account.
what’s your take on this? I want to ask him to leave but having a child together now will complicate things further. Advice?