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To agree with the Supreme Court's decision to overturn Roe v Wade?

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thereareotherways · 24/06/2022 17:59

Obviously I can predict the voting already! Ha.

TL;DR (at the top!): I support abortion but think Roe v Wade (and later cases) are not legally sound, and there are better ways to secure women's rights that would have more public support.

I'm personally not opposed to abortion in most real-life circumstances. I think after viability I would prefer other options to be explored, but I think most women having later-term abortions are doing it for serious medical reasons and I don't think that should be prosecuted. That said, I also am okay in principle with regulating abortion and I'm not an absolutist re: women's control: I think the fetus/baby does have some rights (which I weight proportionally more as the baby grows).

As I understand it, Roe v Wade and Casey rely on a right to "liberty" in the US constitution (primarily the 14th amendment), which otherwise doesn't mention abortion. I'm not a lawyer at all, I find this tenuous at best. Liberty has always had implied limits based on what's acceptable in society, and abortion was illegal until fairly recently. I don't think there's any justification for claiming that there's an implied consent of the people that abortion is morally acceptable - and the polarisation of the US on this issue reflects that.

I think the decision in Roe/Casey to impose abortion via activist judges was a poor decision both legally and politically. This is a clear case where elected representatives need to pass legislation that reflects their constituents' positions. If that legislation differs from state-to-state, well, that's the whole point of a federal system. Pro-choice candidates need to get elected in red states and then they will have the actual consent of the people, not tenuous implied consent.

The decision in Dobbs is here and good reading: www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/21pdf/19-1392_6j37.pdf

I also have a faint hope that now that this has been overturned, both Republicans and Democrats might now return their focus to legislation instead of Supreme Court nominees. The power of the Supreme Court is too dominating in US politics: we should be pleased to see them ceding some power back to the legislature, i.e., the people's representatives!

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mum2jakie · 24/06/2022 21:36

It's a barbaric outcome. Can't believe it can be passed in this day and age. What an era to be a woman...

FruitToast · 24/06/2022 21:39

Haven't RTFT.....I don't like the idea of abortion but I've never been put in the position of needing to have one so I can never judge anyone who has. If I was in that position then I should have a legally enshrined right to be able to have one if I wanted one. By overturning this the supreme court are taking away that right and women will die, be seriously injured or prosecuted for reasons beyond their control. All you are doing is removing the right of a women to abort a fetus as humanely as possible. We shouldn't be going back to an age of hot baths, gin and coat hangers, women suffering a miscarriage ending up being prosecuted because they can't prove it's a natural occurrence and doctors being accused of helping women with a genuine need for a medical termination of pregnancy. This will disproportionately affect the poor and WOC. No matter what your personal view is on abortion the right to access one shouldn't be taken away and women should be given the right to choose. Theoretical musings are no good at this stage. Some States have already enacted an abortion ban with immediate effect and desperate women will start resorting to desperate measures.

Thisismynamenow · 24/06/2022 21:41

Waffleboggy · 24/06/2022 18:09

So some women in some states will be fucked, others will be fine. Those who can afford to travel to another state might have a chance at getting a safe abortion, others will be condemned to having a baby they do not want or to pursuing an unsafe illegal abortion. Roughly half of states have indicated they will be either heavily restricting or making abortion illegal; some have already enacted snap changes. Contraception isn't free there either, some insurance plans cover it but not everyone has access to it, and their social security provisions are dire. How anyone can see this as a good thing is to me, personally, baffling. Women will needlessly die as a result of this, and babies will suffer as they're born into homes not fit for purpose in which the parents cannot afford food or warmth. I absolutely don't subscribe to the thought that giving birth even if a child will be born into absolutely shit circumstances is better than not at all.

This this this this.

Those poor women.

knittingaddict · 24/06/2022 22:01

boogiewithasuitcase · 24/06/2022 20:44

It is horrifying. How much further do some of these people want to go ...women not allowed to use their voice at protests? Women not allowed to attend protests? I think it is a slippery slope and the women celebrating today have no clue.

And that person was a man. Says it all really.

superram · 24/06/2022 22:11

I think you are a shit human being. You really are completely clueless. As reading about the subject seems beyond yiu, maybe watch ‘call the midwife’ to see a dramatised (vaguely positive) idea of backstreet abortions.

Anyfeckinusername · 24/06/2022 22:11

HDready · 24/06/2022 18:33

Most people, including most women, do have some kind of a line where the rights of the fetus start to become relevant.

I completely disagree. Hundred percent believe it is always the woman’s choice and the rights are hers. Since becoming a parent I would not wish an unwanted pregnancy/child on anyone.

I am entirely with the OP on this albeit unpopular and difficult thing to say. Women don’t go on “the foetus moved! The foetus kicked!” It’s baby - the baby moved, the baby kicked… there is a point when most people start to naturally see it that way and that will affect how we feel about abortion.

takealettermsjones · 24/06/2022 22:14

Robust legislation could still have been written while Roe v Wade was in place. Your argument makes no sense.

HopeIsNotAStrategy · 24/06/2022 22:15

Applesandroses · 24/06/2022 20:01

Must be a nice place to be, up in your ivory tower of intellectual debates whilst not giving a damn about real peoples lives. I imagine its pretty similar to how some rich white men think about womens rights.

You really must have very little empathy and compassion to post this today.

It's really not just rich white men who are the problem. This is amply demonstrated on here daily.

PinkButtercups · 24/06/2022 22:15

Are you a man by any chance?

JellySaurus · 24/06/2022 22:17

Abortions were carried out because it was an inconvenience for women to have a child.

What an inconvenience it must be to have a baby with anencephaly, who will die shortly after being born - if not before.

What an inconvenience it must be to have an ectopic pregnancy, which will kill you painfully if it is not aborted.

What an inconvenience it must be to be diagnosed with cancer while pregnant, and not be treated until you have given birth, by which time the cancer may have spread so far that it is terminal. How inconvenient for the baby to then lose its mother to the metastasised cancer.

What an inconvenience it must be to have a child born of rape. What an inconvenience it must be to have to give your rapist access to his child.

What an inconvenience it must be to have your right to make your own decisions about your own body.

Funny how men don't have this inconvenience.

And shocking how many women are keen to impose this inconvenience upon other women.

Inconvenience! Hmm

Clymene · 24/06/2022 22:17

To force a woman to carry an unwanted pregnancy is the most sickening law ever. It's denying women basic healthcare.

crumpet · 24/06/2022 22:20

If Roe v Wade is flawed then find the right fix which protects women and implement it before doing away with RvW altogether. What has just happened is an abomination

cestlavielife · 24/06/2022 22:21

Macarr · 24/06/2022 18:32

I've name changed because people seem to get bashed a lot for this view, but YANBU, OP.
Personally, I don't agree with abortion, unless for medical reasons, and certain other complicated situations. I'm not religious, it's just my personal opinion. However, I also recognise that my opinion shouldn't outweigh the majority (and I think, in the UK, the majority probably believe it should be allowed). If the majority of American citizens don't agree with this decision, then it should never happened.

Legsl aborion does not compel anyone to have sn abortion.
It allows you or anyone to choose.

Making abortion illegal compels everyvwoman to giuve birth regardless , it forces women and gives no choice over their bodies (or seek unsafe procedures)

Bovrilly · 24/06/2022 22:24

And the majority of Americans did not want RvW to be overturned.

huuskymam · 24/06/2022 22:29

This ruling won't stop abortions, it will stop safe abortions.

OMG12 · 24/06/2022 22:29

You might find it fascinating from a legal perspective or whatever, but such apologists are the unwitting enables of dictatorships which destroy the rights of women. For all your poncing around trying to prove how clever you are, you have missed the point, spectacularly. This is a full on attack on womens rights, the fact they have used a carefully manipulated legal point to do so makes it even more abhorrent. A point they will use next to ban contraception, to ban same sex relationships. You really aren’t very bright if you can’t see what this is actually about

BurnDownTheDiscoHangTheDJ · 24/06/2022 22:29

Yeah, no. This ruling is about the control of women and anyone saying otherwise is lying. It’s misogynistic and regressive and women will die as a result of this ruling today.

ThickCutSteakChips · 24/06/2022 22:30

thereareotherways · 24/06/2022 18:27

So if a 12yr old girl is raped and becomes pregnant you think that the foetus has rights.....where were the 12yr olds rights when she was being raped.

Yes, I do believe it has rights. I believe that for most of the pregnancy, the 12yo's rights MASSIVELY outweigh them. Obviously.

That doesn't mean I don't think the fetus has any rights at all.

If the 12yo decided at 37 weeks to terminate the pregnancy for no medical reason... I'd struggle with that morally and I think many people would too.

Most people, including most women, do have some kind of a line where the rights of the fetus start to become relevant.

Oh come on, engage your fucking brain for just a second and think about the situation, the reality, in which a 12 year old girl who is pregnant by rape is wanting to abort at 37 weeks. Think about the fucked up shit that would be going on for that to happen.

And fucking stop peddling the absolute bull crap that women and girls are going for abortions at 37 weeks purely for the craic. It's so bloody offensive.

Cas112 · 24/06/2022 22:31

Are you a man?

butterflied · 24/06/2022 22:33

OMG12 · 24/06/2022 22:29

You might find it fascinating from a legal perspective or whatever, but such apologists are the unwitting enables of dictatorships which destroy the rights of women. For all your poncing around trying to prove how clever you are, you have missed the point, spectacularly. This is a full on attack on womens rights, the fact they have used a carefully manipulated legal point to do so makes it even more abhorrent. A point they will use next to ban contraception, to ban same sex relationships. You really aren’t very bright if you can’t see what this is actually about

All of this.

Moanranger · 24/06/2022 22:36

OP does not understand the legal basis for Roe vs Wade. It is NOT concerning liberty, it is based on the right to privacy, one of the Constitution’s inalienable rights.
Get your facts straight.

Mango101 · 24/06/2022 22:36

Anyfeckinusername · 24/06/2022 22:11

I am entirely with the OP on this albeit unpopular and difficult thing to say. Women don’t go on “the foetus moved! The foetus kicked!” It’s baby - the baby moved, the baby kicked… there is a point when most people start to naturally see it that way and that will affect how we feel about abortion.

I agree too.
One can be strongly pro-abortion.
And also believe that that both mother and foetus have rights.
And that abortion law should be made by democratically elected representatives.
These (to me) all seem like morally responsible philosophical positions.

On the other hand the practical consequences of today's judgement are clearly going to be disastrous.

DeerMyDear · 24/06/2022 22:38

JFC… go read a book, get educated, get a grip.

Sheffieldissunny · 24/06/2022 22:39

If you don't want to have an abortion personally that's up to you, but it's a woman's right to choose, and no woman should not be forced to have a kid against her will. They are talking about life beginning at conception and that rules out a lot of contraception . Women will die because of this.

thereareotherways · 24/06/2022 22:40

Wish everyone would stop calling me a pro-lifer. Other people might be and that's their business, but the current system in E&W almost perfectly matches up with my own moral instincts - later-term abortions legal but only for serious medical reasons, otherwise fairly long period with very limited restrictions. And I think that basically everyone having a late-term termination is doing it for serious medical reasons!

Roe v Wade was passed in, when, the 70s? It's all very well saying that we mustn't let the perfect be the enemy of the good, but that's a long time that could have been used to build a more stable platform.

I agree 100% with the poster from the US saying that judges who are appointed once for life based on whoever happens to be president when someone dies are the wrong people to be deciding on issues like this.

If you're annoyed that this got overturned because Trump got lucky / got cheeky and got to nominate an unusual number of justices - then you understand. At least the decision returns it to the legislature - they could have found some reason to just ban it!

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