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Covid - Would you go to this event ?

263 replies

catfunk · 23/06/2022 23:32

Weekend away planned fri-sun. Special event.
Short flight.
Covid positive since Sunday. Symptoms started Saturday.
Over the worst of the symptoms (not coughing or sneezing)
Likely still testing positive on day of travel but it will be 5 full days since symptoms started.
No test required for destination.
WWYD?

OP posts:
Lottie2shoes · 24/06/2022 09:06

@Topgub in that case. I would stay at home for the full 10 days so as not to infect anyone whether the government says I should or not.

Obviously unknowingly infecting someone is different as you did not know but when you know you have covid definitely and then you go out and about, morally I think is incorrect.

I understand though that this government has turned everything into a mockery though and sadly people do not know what to believe any more.

Bednobsbroomsticks · 24/06/2022 09:07

Day 5 I was fine. Day 7 and 8 felt like death till Day 12. You might not feel well while away. I wouldn't go. I couldn't function when I had it. Thought of passing it on to an elderly person who lived alone would haunt me

Notanotherwindow · 24/06/2022 09:08

You'll have done 5 days isolation by then anyway, I think go but wear a mask on the plane etc.

Obviously if anyone elderly, pregnant or vulnerable is going then I wouldn't go. So not auntie mabels 90th birthday.

BiFoldChampion · 24/06/2022 09:08

There will be plenty at the airport and on your flight with covid. I’d just go. You won’t be the only one.

Topgub · 24/06/2022 09:08

@Lottie2shoes

I presume you can afford to isolate your entire family for 10 days plus.

Not everyone can.

Onedayatatime24799 · 24/06/2022 09:10

I wouldn't, but only because my conscience wouldn't allow me to.

TwilightSkies · 24/06/2022 09:12

Its not just selfishness to not want to continue that harm

You could argue expecting it is selfish.

How is it selfish to not want people to suffer and die?
’But Boris said it’s ok….’ 😂

Byebyecobwebs · 24/06/2022 09:12

it’s this behaviour that basically keeps my Dad locked up in his own home. He’s hardly been out due to cancer diagnosis, been told catching covid will likely see him off, a mask helps reduce the spread but in my opinion going somewhere so enclosed with a positive Covid test result is unacceptable.

Schmz · 24/06/2022 09:13

Hbh17 · 24/06/2022 07:51

Of course you should go - there is no reason not to. My only question is why you bothered to do a test in the first place. Covid is endemic, it's a mild illness, and we are all just getting on with our lives as normal.

Try telling that to all the poor sods under the NHS long covid services now

long term physical and mental health problems

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 24/06/2022 09:14

Timwith2noses · 23/06/2022 23:38

I would claim on my insurance and stay at home.

Even if OP had insurance, I very much doubt voluntarily chosing not to travel in the absence of any legal restriction on travel would be something that could be claimed on travel insurance

Genevieva · 24/06/2022 09:15

Do a saline nasal rinse. Look it up - salt, (optional baking soda), water hot enough to dissolve the salt. It shifts the mucus and any nasty microbes hiding in it. If you are still testing positive the following day you still have a viral infection. If not you were testing the dead remnants of a bug you shifted when you stopped having a temperature. I have always found it the best way of shifting a respiratory infection quickly. It is also helpful if you suffer from hay fever, which I do.

maddy68 · 24/06/2022 09:16

Yes I would after 5 days I would definitely wear a mask

MajorCarolDanvers · 24/06/2022 09:16

I know its a Covid thread but its truly Covid Bingo Tastic

ApplesandBunions · 24/06/2022 09:18

BiFoldChampion · 24/06/2022 09:08

There will be plenty at the airport and on your flight with covid. I’d just go. You won’t be the only one.

This is true. Anyone who is choosing to get on a plane has made an active decision to encounter covid. I flew recently, and I understood that as part of that process I was consenting to being in a confined space with the virus.

Frazzled2207 · 24/06/2022 09:19

I'd go but wear a mask on indoors where possible. People will say 'how can you knowingly get on a flight' but the truth is there will be lots of others (knowingly or unknowingly) doing exactly the same thing.

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/06/2022 09:19

I wouldn’t go.

GylesBrandrethNewJumper · 24/06/2022 09:20

Frazzled2207 · 24/06/2022 09:19

I'd go but wear a mask on indoors where possible. People will say 'how can you knowingly get on a flight' but the truth is there will be lots of others (knowingly or unknowingly) doing exactly the same thing.

Well that's ok then, because everyone else is doing it.

TheKeatingFive · 24/06/2022 09:21

I would go. Wear a mask on the plane.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 24/06/2022 09:21

Even if you had insurance, it would only pay out if you were too unwell to travel or if restrictions meant you weren't allowed to travel.

It wouldn't pay out because a bunch of MN'ers tried to guilt you into not going.

GylesBrandrethNewJumper · 24/06/2022 09:21

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 24/06/2022 09:14

Even if OP had insurance, I very much doubt voluntarily chosing not to travel in the absence of any legal restriction on travel would be something that could be claimed on travel insurance

Yet lots of posters, in fact at least 2 threads yesterday, have done just that successfully.

Frazzled2207 · 24/06/2022 09:22

TwilightSkies · 24/06/2022 09:02

And this is exactly why we are heading into another big wave this summer.
People knowingly spreading it because they don’t want to miss whatever event they want to go to.
No thought whatsoever for immuno-compromised people. And even those with good health getting sick.
Selfishness.

I don't disagree with you but the truth is that the government has taken away the ability to easily test. Therefore the vast majority with covid won't know about it. Why should certain people cancel their plans when the vast majority carry on regardless. I have an immuno-compromised DF so I totally get where you're coming from but be angry with the government not OP.

Topgub · 24/06/2022 09:22

@TwilightSkies

People have suffered and died due to the response to the pandemic.

And will continue to sufer and die because of it for a long time.

Wealth inequality (globally), health care, gender equality have all suffered.

We cant keep prioritising covid above all else forever.

Particularly given the vastly reduced risk of death/severe illness.

If people are symptomatic/knowingly positive they should isolate if they can. They should get vaccinated if they are eligible. They should keep up good hand hygiene and ventilation.

I dont think we can ask for more at this stage

GylesBrandrethNewJumper · 24/06/2022 09:22

coffeecupsandfairylights · 24/06/2022 09:21

Even if you had insurance, it would only pay out if you were too unwell to travel or if restrictions meant you weren't allowed to travel.

It wouldn't pay out because a bunch of MN'ers tried to guilt you into not going.

Yes it does.

Bednobsbroomsticks · 24/06/2022 09:22

ApplesandBunions · 24/06/2022 09:18

This is true. Anyone who is choosing to get on a plane has made an active decision to encounter covid. I flew recently, and I understood that as part of that process I was consenting to being in a confined space with the virus.

What about the people not on the flight that could be exposed to it after the travellers catch it. What about them?

TwilightSkies · 24/06/2022 09:23

People will say 'how can you knowingly get on a flight' but the truth is there will be lots of others (knowingly or unknowingly) doing exactly the same thing.

That doesn’t make it right! Do people have no morals? No sense of social responsibility?