Wedding Evening Do Tonight

[quicklybeendrivenmad]

Invited to one of DH friends weddings could not do day do as we were working, so just accepted the evening invite. the evening is pretty much bring family open invite, woke up today feeling crap told DH this morning did not think I would go, worked all day today got home and just crashed, he has gone which I have no problem with just had a nasty message saying shame you could not be bothered FFS feel like shit and tbf its the third time I have been to his weddings each one bigger and better than the last can I just tell him to a) fook off b) I am bored when will the next one be (usually around 5 years) c) Just dont invite me next time

Where are people getting that this is a workmate? It says it's DH's friend?

I wonder if there have been a few no shows, if he's texting about it. Not that that would make it okay.

I suspect you h must have implied you didn't want to go rather than you were unwell - sounds like you didn't want to go so being tired was an excuse. You should have either refused months ago or attended

Not sure I'd really care if we stopped being friends after that though. It's not like the bride and groom have paid for a full meal for them, they won't even have technically paid for a buffet meal if they did it right.

These are two people or at least one who has taken time out of their wedding day to berate someone who is ill for not going to their third wedding. So clearly the amount of people there means more to them than the actual marriage. And he is berating her for being ill. I'd do anything I could to get out of that friendship even if it meant insulting him.

At least you won’t need to go to anymore of his weddings as you won’t be speaking to him ever again.

I hope you’re feeling better today.

They clearly had a really shit wedding if they were that offended that they text you!

I really don’t think you’re that important