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AIBU ice cream truck

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Hesalwaysplayinggolf · 12/06/2022 20:23

So we live on a quiet residential road.
My daughter goes to bed at 7pm every night.
3-4 nights a week an ice cream van drives and parks down our road blaring his ice cream truck music. This varies in timing but can be as late as 8pm. Usually between 7-8pm.
This wakes my daughter every time and she takes ages to resettle. She’s genuinely scared.

AIBU to talk to the ice cream man about this?
My husband thinks I’m ridiculous. I think it’s a mickey take to be blaring loud music at 8pm.

We have her window closed and white noise in her room but it still wakes her. I know I could put her to bed once he’s been but he doesn’t come every night so it’s hard to know and she is tired by 7pm.

Fir example tonight dd went to bed at 7pm, I sat down to eat at 7.45 and by 7.50pm he had woken her up. Just got her back down 30mins later.

YABU - Put up with it he’s just earning his living
YANBU - This would annoy me too

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daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:07

You are making yourself look very silly
In your not at all humble opinion, shared by all your "clever" pile on pals.

The question was me attempting to understand since it wasn't clear to me if van and truck were being used as synonyms. I haven't heard the term before, I don't know how much clearer I can make it or why there's been such a daft pile on about it.

Yugi · 13/06/2022 15:12

10HailMarys · 13/06/2022 13:31

OP in some areas the icecream van/truck comes around late because its delivering drugs. This of course may not be the case on your road.

This is a bit of an urban myth.

You should Google the ice cream van wars Smile

skinnythick · 13/06/2022 15:16

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TigerLilyTail · 13/06/2022 15:18

Now, I need to know if the ice cream van/truck/lorry/automobile/vehicle is selling drugs or not. Please can the OP pop out and check?

I'll be waiting with my popcorn.

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FilterWash · 13/06/2022 15:18

MushyPeasPrincess · 13/06/2022 12:38

I'd bloody love a cheese truck. With extra biscuits and maybe a nice bottle of red on a weekend. Sounds like a plan!

Do you people not have Zapp/Getir/Gorilla etc?

Alltheleavesaregreen1 · 13/06/2022 15:19

This is a bit of an urban myth.

nope. When I was at Uni, I lived in a massive halls of residence complex, housing about 2,000 students. The ice cream van that visited 100% sold drugs. It did also sell some ice cream but mainly drugs.

Hesalwaysplayinggolf · 13/06/2022 15:21

Well thanks so much for all the responses! Nice to know I’m not the only one with ice cream van problems.

I have to say I do use truck/van synonymously 😂 I must watch too much tv!

I think I’m going to talk to him 🙈 and just say could he refrain after 7pm or turn it down. Hopefully he’ll twig that I know the rules. I guess if it continues I’ll just report him….but that does feel a bit killjoy 🙈

I was feeling a bit fed up last night but this thread has given me a giggle thank you 🙏🏼

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daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:22

I have to say I do use truck/van synonymously

Thanks for the straightforward answer.

Yugi · 13/06/2022 15:23

Do you people not have Zapp/Getir/Gorilla etc?

Never heard of these, checked and no, not in my area. We also don't have Uber or Lyft and only got deliveroo a couple of years ago Wink

Sistanotcista · 13/06/2022 15:23

MushyPeasPrincess · 13/06/2022 12:38

I'd bloody love a cheese truck. With extra biscuits and maybe a nice bottle of red on a weekend. Sounds like a plan!

Love your thinking re the cheese and wine 🍷 truck / van!

NippyWoowoo · 13/06/2022 15:26

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:07

You are making yourself look very silly
In your not at all humble opinion, shared by all your "clever" pile on pals.

The question was me attempting to understand since it wasn't clear to me if van and truck were being used as synonyms. I haven't heard the term before, I don't know how much clearer I can make it or why there's been such a daft pile on about it.

here you go 😁

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:29

NippyWoowoo · 13/06/2022 15:26

But that doesn't answer in the context of this thread - which OP has very kindly and decently, and with rancour or personal abuse, now done.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:29

With should be without of course

StrychnineInTheSandwiches · 13/06/2022 15:30

I'd like my neighbourhood cheese and wine truck to blast out a bit of Miles Davis.

My beer and crisps van can play The Jesus and Mary Chain.

Hesalwaysplayinggolf · 13/06/2022 15:30

@TigerLilyTail im going to have my binoculars at the window next time he comes late and get hubby to rock the baby 😂

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KatherineJaneway · 13/06/2022 15:33

TaranThePigKeeper · 13/06/2022 13:47

The theme from Allo Allo.

😂

skinnythick · 13/06/2022 15:34

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:29

But that doesn't answer in the context of this thread - which OP has very kindly and decently, and with rancour or personal abuse, now done.

OP used both ice cream truck and ice cream van in her post. Did you think she was referring to TWO different vehicles? of course you didn’t

FilterWash · 13/06/2022 15:35

Yugi · 13/06/2022 15:23

Do you people not have Zapp/Getir/Gorilla etc?

Never heard of these, checked and no, not in my area. We also don't have Uber or Lyft and only got deliveroo a couple of years ago Wink

I hope you get them soon. Last minute wine/gin/cheese/condoms/loo roll/bread/whatever chef's kiss

NippyWoowoo · 13/06/2022 15:37

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:29

With should be without of course

'I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you'

🧘🏽‍♀️ 🍦

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daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:41

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Thanks for the advice/abuse - you are incorrect.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 13/06/2022 15:42

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Amazing how you know "the truth" by apparently inhabiting my head.