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To be concerned that the Depp/Heard trial has put off genuine DV victims from coming forward?

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PetraBP · 09/06/2022 09:23

The Depp/Heard trial was troubling to me.

On the one hand, people do sometimes make false allegations, especially after relationship breakups.

On the other hand, dragging someone to court for alleging domestic violence might deter some women from reporting it.

Assuming the court got it right and Depp was not a perpetrator, how could he have handled the situation so that it would not put domestic violence victims off coming forward for fear of being sued?

Worrying all round.

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BlanketsBanned · 20/06/2022 19:28

Rabbitholedigger · 20/06/2022 19:15

I do think something needs to be done now.

Pics taken in TK Maxx and now allegedly a tell all book?! She doesn't care about the consequences and has no respect for justice and the court system.

She's taking the piss.

That tj maxx was silly, who cares. Let her make a fool of herself, people are getting bored with her.

Aspiringmatriarch · 20/06/2022 22:03

She's allowed to go shopping. Hmm

Rabbitholedigger · 20/06/2022 23:34

Course she is but does TMZ happen to be wherever she is?

I doubt very much they have a photographer on standby at every private airport and TK maxx just in case she turns up.

bigfootisreal · 21/06/2022 05:46

I don’t think you have answered what you think about the causes of schizophrenia? Are you saying that you think schizophrenia is a result of trauma?

Quite! Many such as John Read discuss this and his work is an interesting read especially comparing those with schizophrenia and child abuse cases.

Aspiringmatriarch · 21/06/2022 07:18

Rabbitholedigger · 20/06/2022 23:34

Course she is but does TMZ happen to be wherever she is?

I doubt very much they have a photographer on standby at every private airport and TK maxx just in case she turns up.

I assume it was just other shoppers taking pictures on a smartphone who sent them in.

LetitiaLeghorn · 21/06/2022 12:09

I assume it was just other shoppers taking pictures on a smartphone who sent them in.

Me too. I don't think she's done herself any favours with the interview but I guess she needs the money. Johnny, her lawyers and the two charities and her appeal need paying.

Rabbitholedigger · 21/06/2022 23:50

I started to feel sorry for her with the upcoming interview. Bigger fool me,but then I've survived a narcissist.

They're always the same.

Disgusting, lying, self serving, gaslighting, horrible scumbags.

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 01:07

It's all coming out now. She's a lying cheating scumbag. And she has the nerve to gaslight us all.

To be concerned that the Depp/Heard trial has put off genuine DV victims from coming forward?
Boulshired · 22/06/2022 11:06

The aftermath of the trial was always going to be difficult for Amber. She has an expensive lifestyle and going forward will need income for her own security. She was OK in aquaman but she’s not the best actress. I cannot see Depp letting her off the 8 million without conditions. But Ambers best source of income is the Depp saga. So not only, if Elaine is being honest can she not afford to pay Depp to pay him and support herself she needs to be in the public eye talking about Depp.

BlanketsBanned · 22/06/2022 11:23

Boulshired · 22/06/2022 11:06

The aftermath of the trial was always going to be difficult for Amber. She has an expensive lifestyle and going forward will need income for her own security. She was OK in aquaman but she’s not the best actress. I cannot see Depp letting her off the 8 million without conditions. But Ambers best source of income is the Depp saga. So not only, if Elaine is being honest can she not afford to pay Depp to pay him and support herself she needs to be in the public eye talking about Depp.

Tough tits, she will have to curb her expensive lifestyle and get a job like everyone else. I imagine Elaine is also expecting to be paid. I doubt she will starve and be left out on the streets.

Onthedunes · 22/06/2022 11:43

@Rabbitholedigger

When was that footage with Cara, had they split at that time.

I suppose we don't know what Johnny was doing with others at this time, this is just going to keep on happening, new revelations on both sides I should imagine.

NannyOggsWhiskyStash · 22/06/2022 11:55

RomanceOnARooftop · 09/06/2022 10:08

I think it’s more disbelief at how Depp is seen as a really good person by so many people when he’s clearly done lots of bad things. The fact that Amber was called out for her shit on social media, but he wasn’t for his. Instead he is adored. A man who defended another man that drugged and raped a child being adored, shows a worrying trend in society. That may put people off reporting but I hope not.

This, they both behaved badly but I don't think she lied. I am amazed at how Depp has come out if this smelling like roses, after reading the text messages and seeing him trashing rooms.

LetitiaLeghorn · 22/06/2022 12:08

This, they both behaved badly but I don't think she lied. I am amazed at how Depp has come out if this smelling like roses, after reading the text messages and seeing him trashing rooms.

I don't think the vast majority of people think that he has come out of this smelling like roses. Just that he smells a lot better now than he did before the court case.
A jury member said that they thought they were both abusive but that her assertions did not reach the threshold of finding against Depp. The fact that she lied over different things undermined her credibility with them all. However some jury members had some sympathy towards her which is why they found in her favour on one charge. They had to have a unanimous decision so I guess there was some horse trading for a decision they could all live with.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/06/2022 12:10

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 01:07

It's all coming out now. She's a lying cheating scumbag. And she has the nerve to gaslight us all.

Do you never question anything that fuels your hate? Any idea of dates on this picture?

Boulshired · 22/06/2022 12:19

I’m assuming the elevator videos are after the TRO so technically still an affair but not in most peoples eyes. It only looks bad for me as a lot was made of Depps jealousy including these three elevator people. He probably was right to see that there was attraction. Cara was known about from josh Drew’s deposition that’s on line but this just confirms it. With Josh I think he implied late 2016. Amber has definitely lied, the photographs alone are a lie, I do think she has told some truths but she lost her own truths by exaggeration and misleading.

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 13:14

It's not timed stamped but A portion of Josh Drew’s deposition was cut where he was explaining Heard having many visitors including Cara Delivigne during the marriage, taken out due to hearsay.

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 13:18

Exactly @Boulshired

More will come out on her lies now the trial is over.

@Aspiringmatriarch I don't hate her, I don't know her but I absolutely hate what she's done and MSM giving her a platform to continue to do it. If it weren't for independent channels or the court case being televised allowing the truth to be seen and discussed, it would have been whitewashed over.

LetitiaLeghorn · 22/06/2022 13:23

Does it even matter? She cheated on him, he cheated on her. He hit her, she hit him. She lied, he lied. Her reputation is in tatters now, he's been vilified for 6 years.
Neither are shining examples of how to behave like decent human beings.

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 14:01

I think it does matter, yes

She is displaying that you can commit perjury, defamation (continually) abuse, assault and then get paid and platformed. It's disgusting.

Boulshired · 22/06/2022 14:06

It wouldn’t of mattered at all if they both had walked away and got the help they both needed. Unfortunately that wasn’t the case and instead it became a battle of who could destroy the other using Metoo, the media, social media and ultimately the courts. That was down to Amber and the TRO and TMZ, it started a battle that has not been good for women, victims of domestic violence both past and future and ultimately not been good for Amber Heard or Johnny Depp. It matters a great deal. She wanted to remove power from the wealthy and she’s actually achieved the opposite.

BlanketsBanned · 22/06/2022 18:57

Years and years of therapy didnt seem to help her much

Friars23 · 22/06/2022 20:49

I think it matters. People shouldn’t make allegations of a very serious nature that turn out to be lies regardless if the other person is far from a decent person in many areas of their life.

I do think she has told some truths but she lost her own truths by exaggeration and misleading.

I too thought she may have exaggerated the incidents but there was possibly some truth to some of them. However, the more I read the more I question even this. Yesterday I read an article that included a video clip from her 2016 deposition about an incident which also included an audio recording of Heard and Depp discussing the incident shortly after and for this incident she outright lied. In her video deposition she said she was trying to escape from Depp and the room he was in whilst trying to close the door behind her. Yet the audio in which they are discussing the incident shortly after Depp says ‘I opened the bathroom door when you were knocking on it. After a few times I opened and you know, you just kept coming, you just kept going, you just kept going, kept going. I tried to close the door’.

Some on this thread who support Heard accuse those of us who from the evidence conclude she has made false allegations of severe physical abuse and sexual abuse as also claiming Depp is a saint. He clearly isn’t, some of his behaviour is grim, but the more details I read (I watched the trial too) the more examples of her poor credibility appear.

Friars23 · 22/06/2022 20:57

Onthedunes · 22/06/2022 11:43

@Rabbitholedigger

When was that footage with Cara, had they split at that time.

I suppose we don't know what Johnny was doing with others at this time, this is just going to keep on happening, new revelations on both sides I should imagine.

There is no time stamp apparently. We do know Depp cheated. The woman mentioned in the trial he cheated with was 22 when he was 49. I don’t think he is a physical or sexual abuser but I am unimpressed with an older man dating such young women. 22 is so young.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/06/2022 21:53

@Aspiringmatriarch I don't hate her, I don't know her but I absolutely hate what she's done and MSM giving her a platform to continue to do it. If it weren't for independent channels or the court case being televised allowing the truth to be seen and discussed, it would have been whitewashed over.

Maybe you don't hate her, but you post these things in outrage without any concern for their accuracy or fairness. You keep dunking on 'MSM' while citing supposedly independent sources that are anything but. It's not even that they don't fact check; they're actively engaged in a smear campaign.

Unlike mainstream journalism, they don't have to bother with things like ethics and facts and accountability. And people fall for it, with serious societal consequences.

Rabbitholedigger · 22/06/2022 22:43

"Unlike mainstream journalism, they don't have to bother with things like ethics and facts and accountability. And people fall for it, with serious societal consequences."

Like the Sun newspaper?

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