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My cousin is missing in the Amazon - please hope and pray for his safe return.

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unctuousunicorns1 · 07/06/2022 01:14

www.theguardian.com/media/2022/jun/06/dom-phillips-british-journalist-missing-brazil-amazon

Dominic's father Bernard and my mother Angela were brother and sister (Bernard has since passed away).

Please join me in hoping for Dom's safe return home. Thanks to all. xxx

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Whatwouldnanado · 16/06/2022 09:04

Sending love and condolences.

Volterra · 16/06/2022 09:10

I’m so sorry, my condolences to you all 💐

AnotherForumUser · 16/06/2022 09:13

I am so very sorry for your devastating loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

GodspeedJune · 16/06/2022 09:20

So very sorry for the tragic and needless loss of your cousin and Bruno. Sincere condolences to the family and friends of both Flowers

AceofPentacles · 16/06/2022 09:27

I'm so sorry to hear the news. I know many of us former colleagues are devastated and send condolences to you and Dom's family and friends . Flowers

DrSophia · 16/06/2022 09:55

So sorry to read the news today. I feel for your family and Bruno's family and friends. I hope you manage to find some peace x

Thepeopleversuswork · 16/06/2022 09:58

Very sorry for your loss. I worked with your cousin (briefly and a long time ago). He was a brilliant journalist and a decent person. I hope you can take some comfort from the fact that he died doing important work.

Knowbodysphool · 16/06/2022 10:06

I’m so sorry

MadKittenWoman · 16/06/2022 10:12

So sorry. Flowers

MrJi · 16/06/2022 10:45

I am so terribly sorry to read the tragic news . All condolences to your family.

unctuousunicorns1 · 16/06/2022 11:38

Thank you all again for your kindness and sympathy. I still don't think it has properly sunk in yet. Dominic was our Nan and Grandad's first grandchild (I am their last); I know they would be so proud of him, as would Uncle Bernard and Jill, Dom's, Sîan's and Gareth's mum and dad. Both he and Bruno did such important work. I am so grateful to all the people who have searched for them in order to bring this to a conclusion rather than endless waiting and wondering.

I know you will keep in your thoughts cousins Sìan and Gareth, who have lost their brother in such a horrible way, and Alessandra, Dom's widow, and of course all the family and friends of both Dom and Bruno.

I apologize for not getting back to this thread sooner; I'm on prescription diazepam, naproxen and quadruple strength co codamol for a neck/shoulder injury so I've been a bit zonked and falling asleep in the middle of the day and whatnot.

Anyway, thank you again for all the love and support. XXX 💕💕

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minmooch · 16/06/2022 12:04

I'm so sorry that there was not a better outcome for your family.

thecurtainsofdestiny · 16/06/2022 12:22

I'm so sorry to hear this OP💐

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 16/06/2022 12:58

I hope that the fact that Dom and Bruno died doing something so important for vulnerable people with a vulnerable way of life in a vulnerable ecosystem is of some comfort to you all.

They were absolutely right, weren't they?

I'm sorry for your loss.

TheWayoftheLeaf · 16/06/2022 14:15

This is awful I'm so sorry. As a journalist myself he has my utmost respect and admiration. He has shown what it really can mean to be a journalist - courageous, selfless and relentless with a cause!

Soooonotoverit · 16/06/2022 14:24

💐So so sorry, @unctuousunicorns1

BoreOfWhabylon · 16/06/2022 14:35

I am so very sorry Flowers

clarepetal · 16/06/2022 14:40

Am unbelievably sorry for your loss.

seperatedmum · 16/06/2022 16:38

I'm so sorry, heroes tho 👏🏽

Trulyweird1 · 16/06/2022 16:41

So very sorry for your loss. I was really saddened to read that news.💐

froggybiby · 17/06/2022 07:22

I am so sorry for your loss. Both he and Bruno were amazing people. May they R.I.P.

oakleaffy · 17/06/2022 19:02

@unctuousunicorns1
So sorry to read your Update.
I saw on the news the other day that the men were missing.

Foul play is likely, given the greed of illegal loggers and miners.
Good men died trying to expose corruption in a largely lawless region , I’m assuming.

IStandWithMaya · 17/06/2022 20:57

Thinking of you and your family, OP 💐

whataboutbob · 20/06/2022 18:37

If you are able to OP, can you signpost us to the correct funding page for Dom’s family? There is a gofundme, it’s in dollars, maybe that’s the right one I just wanted to check. Thank you.

unctuousunicorns1 · 21/06/2022 19:02

Hi, whatabout, yes, I believe that is the correct one. As you know, Dominic had made his life in Brazil, was married to Alessandra, and will I imagine be laid to rest in the country he called home for the past ten years. As the page says, all funds raised will go to Dom's and Bruno's widows and family in Brazil.

I don't know if there will be held a memorial service for Dom in the UK. Sian and Gareth are keeping my mum updated on matters.

Dom looks so like his dad, my Uncle Bernard, our uncle Tom (Bernard's younger brother), and our grandad, Bernard Phillips senior, who died before I was born, but whose photos I've seen. I can see all of them in him. 💕💕

My cousin is missing in the Amazon - please hope and pray for his safe return.
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