DP and I had just started having sex when DS (not his child) came in unexpectedly from waking up from a nap. We heard him coming.
DS had woken up in a bad mood and was having a tantrum and being generally unreasonable. It took a few minutes to calm him and he said he wanted to try and sleep again (he hadn't napped for long). Put him down and went back in to the bedroom.
We went to continue having sex but I said I wasn't in the mood. DP said okay but immediately became cold. His car was elsewhere and he had somewhere to be so we got in the car and he didn't say a word to me whilst driving.
When I dropped him off he said he didn't want to see me for the rest of the day (we don't like together) as he won't be over "it" yet.
I asked him what was wrong over text and this is what he said:
^And I know you say it’s a weird pressure thing to do as well, but if you were really horny and I wasn’t myself, I would give you head or any form to give you a orgasm that wasn’t from sex.
You want(ed)me to stop wanking but knowing I’m really horny as id expressed, then you’re no longer horny and uninterested in how I’m feeling.
I myself offer you head all the time and it isn’t just as a door to sex it’s because I want you to feel sexually satisfied.
I already know your response to this point that it’s pressuring and weird and not on so you don’t need to express it again.
I know that I’m not alone in that either, people do the same for their partners what id do for you ^
I don't even know what to say, I'm pissed off and offended. We're already having problems.
Who is being unreasonable here? Before I respond.