My husband went out around 12 to the pub. Not usual behaviour but it's a leaving do for one of his work colleagues. Fine, no problem.
Our 2 years old is suffering from a really bad cold and cough that keeps waking him up and at the moment my mental health isn't good. So I'm tired and quite possibly being unreasonable.
He told me he'd be home around 3 and do waking duties tonight. However he's just phoned and said they are going in to town and he'll probably be late back (around 10 /11).
We can't really afford a big night out and it's my birthday tomorrow so I'd hoped to have a rest. However if he's out until late he won't wake up in the night or surface until late tomorrow morning. So obviously it will be me up with our toddler again.
I snapped at him reminding him I was tired and that I'd told him not to buy me anything for my birthday so we could save some money not so he could get pissed at the pub.
He snapped back that he hardly ever goes out and I was being a miserable witch.
I feel mean like I'm ruining his day out but I'm tired and not in a great place mentally. Am I being unreasonable to expect him to be home at a reasonable time? Or is he entitled to a night out? Tbh I'd be less pissed off if w could afford it and it wasn't right on my birthday.
Reading this back I realise I sound totally selfish and I don't think I usually am. Perhaps it's just the tiredness talking. Perhaps I just need to get over myself.