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To wear long sleeves to my brother’s wedding?

96 replies

Clementinetree · 28/05/2022 18:34

I’m plus size. Size 22 so the dress is from Simply Be.

He’s getting married in the autumn.

Does the dress look ok for a wedding?

To wear long sleeves to my brother’s wedding?
OP posts:
MinglingFlamingo · 28/05/2022 18:56

I'd say that's the perfect dress for an autumn wedding!

CuriousCatfish · 28/05/2022 18:58

What's with the it's not formal enough comments? It's a perfectly nice dress to wear to a wedding.

Useranon1 · 28/05/2022 18:58

thefirstmrsrochester · 28/05/2022 18:49

Your only unreasonableness is not to tell us where it is from.

It's in the OP!

paisley256 · 28/05/2022 18:58

Oooh what a lovely dress op!

FlissyPaps · 28/05/2022 18:58

It’s a lovely dress OP.

If you like it and feel comfortable in it, go for it!

DropYourSword · 28/05/2022 19:00

Don't think there's any issue with wearing long sleeves at all! But...(and I'm CLEARLY in the minority here) I don't think that's a very nice dress. I don't think it looks like it would be at all flattering. The dress @Shoxfordian linked to looks much nicer to me

SenoraAveiro · 28/05/2022 19:01

CuriousCatfish · 28/05/2022 18:58

What's with the it's not formal enough comments? It's a perfectly nice dress to wear to a wedding.

They're called opinions, which were requested 🙄

Germolenequeen · 28/05/2022 19:02

What DropYourSword said 🙂

Cuckoo48 · 28/05/2022 19:03

Shoxfordian · 28/05/2022 18:37

I much prefer the first one (purple)

InFiveMins · 28/05/2022 19:03

Ignore those that are saying it's too informal OP, it's a lovely dress and perfect for a wedding.

Clementinetree · 28/05/2022 19:05

Thanks everyone, I’ve ordered it now.

Now the next question, I need help finding some shoes that go with it!

OP posts:
sonjadog · 28/05/2022 19:05

Why would sleeves be a problem?

I think it is a nice dress. In my experience Simply Be dresses can vary a great deal in quality, so order it up and check that in plenty of time.

Cheerybigbottom · 28/05/2022 19:06

I love it

Buy the shoes as well Grin

ManateeFair · 28/05/2022 19:07

It’s a lovely dress. Perfectly OK for an autumn wedding if you add some posh-looking accessories.

tiredmumof4teenagers · 28/05/2022 19:07

It's gorgeous! Good choice.

PurpleFlower1983 · 28/05/2022 19:09

It’s lovely!

PinkiOcelot · 28/05/2022 19:10

DropYourSword · 28/05/2022 19:00

Don't think there's any issue with wearing long sleeves at all! But...(and I'm CLEARLY in the minority here) I don't think that's a very nice dress. I don't think it looks like it would be at all flattering. The dress @Shoxfordian linked to looks much nicer to me

I thought the opposite. The dress OP put up is much nicer than the link to the second one.

OP it’s a lovely dress. You’ll look lovely.

Barkingmadhouse · 28/05/2022 19:10

Sleeves are fine although the dress is very informal for a wedding

ManateeFair · 28/05/2022 19:11

DropYourSword · 28/05/2022 19:00

Don't think there's any issue with wearing long sleeves at all! But...(and I'm CLEARLY in the minority here) I don't think that's a very nice dress. I don't think it looks like it would be at all flattering. The dress @Shoxfordian linked to looks much nicer to me

Personally I thought the one Shoxfordian linked to was hideous

Newestname002 · 28/05/2022 19:12

It's a lovely dress,@Clementinetree and a gorgeous colour. I really like the sleeves and the band under the bust. With some nice jewellery- and maybe different shoes? plus as a PP said, a pashmina in case it gets cool. 🌹

maddiemookins16mum · 28/05/2022 19:13

Lovely, fab Autumn colour too.

Wolfiefan · 28/05/2022 19:15

Love it OP!

Clementinetree · 28/05/2022 19:20

What sort of jewellery should I go for? Now I’ve ordered the dress I’m thinking of how I can make it look even nicer?

OP posts:
EcafTnuc · 28/05/2022 19:20

ManateeFair · 28/05/2022 19:11

Personally I thought the one Shoxfordian linked to was hideous

Me too. The sleeves were particularly nasty.

underneaththeash · 28/05/2022 19:24

I think that's a lovely dress OP. Good find,