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'Distance reiki' - quack or what?

171 replies

mackthepony · 25/05/2022 20:27

Mate has started doing reiki.

She's now offering 'distance reiki' - same as normal reiki but feels your energy online. And yes, there's a charge for it.

🙄

Is it just me? Wtf?

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Onlywomengivebirth · 26/05/2022 12:05

About as effective as thoughts and prayers I should think.

donquixotedelamancha · 26/05/2022 12:12

reiki is sometimes available on the NH for cancer patients.

Very, very occaisionally either because the person commisioning it is an idiot or because they figure it's a cheap way of using placebo to make patients feel better.

It's not unusual to use open placebos as treatment; I do think there is an ethical problem with using it deceptively, like this example.

The fact that it happens does not constitute evidence that reiki works.

donquixotedelamancha · 26/05/2022 12:15

If you don’t believe in it, you don’t need to use it or engage with her about it. But you also don’t need to knock or belittle the beliefs of others.

Of course nobody needs to criticise stupid and harmful ideas but doing so in open debate is how humanity progresses.

Mocking reiki is just part of being a good person, like recycling or being kind to children.

saraclara · 26/05/2022 12:19

Notadramallama · 26/05/2022 12:04

reiki is sometimes available on the NH for cancer patients.

For its relaxation/placebo effect, and in very rare cases, yes. But not because it has any proven scientific effects. And certainly not for its (non-existent) healing properties.

MasterBeth · 26/05/2022 12:25

Not as a treatment. As a placebo-generator, like mood lighting or nice music. And funded by a reiki business, who no doubt benefit hugely from the implied approval.

MoonriseKingdom · 26/05/2022 12:28

donquixotedelamancha · 26/05/2022 12:03

If reiki, much less distance reiki, worked, and you could learn it for free(!), the world's militaries would have reiki masters stationed with every single unit healing their soldiers. Would save them a fucking fortune and could turn the course of a war.

You are so naive, the Lizard People would never allow that.

Have you read/ seen ‘The men who stare at goats’ - they certainly gave it their best shot.

Homeopathic hospital 😁

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 26/05/2022 12:28

mackthepony · 25/05/2022 20:27

Mate has started doing reiki.

She's now offering 'distance reiki' - same as normal reiki but feels your energy online. And yes, there's a charge for it.

🙄

Is it just me? Wtf?

It’s no more ludicrous than normal reiki, which is already as ludicrous as anything can be.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 26/05/2022 12:30

BrightYellowDaffodil · 25/05/2022 20:34

I’ve used Reiki for both me and my animals, people I know well are Reiki practitioners and Masters.

If you don’t believe in it, you don’t need to use it or engage with her about it. But you also don’t need to knock or belittle the beliefs of others.

No, but it’s always useful to point out that it’s horse-shit, from start to end, to try to stop people spending money on it, or worse using it for conditions that need actual treatment.

LadyCampanulaTottington · 26/05/2022 12:31

I’m in the camp of “it can’t hurt” as long as it’s complimentary not replacing orthodox treatments.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 26/05/2022 12:34

OldTinHat · 26/05/2022 10:35

I'm a reiki master and believe me, it wasn't a Groupon course for a tenner that I did online to qualify! It took a loooong time.

I don't charge or do distance healing. Only my family know I practise and I keep it for them or myself. (Reiki is not just about healing btw.)

Yes, there are scammers out there and I wouldn't pay for distance healing from someone I hadn't met. Interestingly, my local women's centre (who offer free yoga classes, knitting, talks, childcare, etc) have started offering Reiki for free.

We all have different beliefs. No need to be nasty and say we practitioners are all quacks and scammers. Do you say the same thing to people who are actively religious?

As soon as they start charging people, then yes.

Reiki “master”. FFS.

orangeisthenewpuce · 26/05/2022 12:38

Distance reiki and any reiki is bollocks. People can believe it and do what they want but if she's charging money for it she is a charlatan.

CorpseReviver · 26/05/2022 12:44

saraclara · 26/05/2022 12:19

For its relaxation/placebo effect, and in very rare cases, yes. But not because it has any proven scientific effects. And certainly not for its (non-existent) healing properties.

And also, this is exactly why it shouldn't be available on the NHS. Because it gives ammunition to the scammers.

donquixotedelamancha · 26/05/2022 12:46

I’m in the camp of “it can’t hurt” as long as it’s complimentary not replacing orthodox treatments.

I think the last few years have proved that the spread of false ideas really does hurt.

reikitruth · 26/05/2022 12:46

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Chica10 · 26/05/2022 12:54

IDespairOfTheHumanRace · 25/05/2022 20:40

Reiki is pure quackery anyway, just like spiritualism, crystal healing and all the other shit people buy in to - anyone foolish enough to pay for online reiki must have more money than sense!

But, good luck to your friend if she is able to sell this 'service' - if she can, she could probably sell snake oil by the tanker load too

What do you think about people who believe in an invisible god that no one has ever seen, that no one has actually met? And yet billions of people believe in what is essentially hear say, and pray to this invisible god. Surely that’s even more strange then any reiki or crystal healing?

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 26/05/2022 12:59

Chica10 · 26/05/2022 12:54

What do you think about people who believe in an invisible god that no one has ever seen, that no one has actually met? And yet billions of people believe in what is essentially hear say, and pray to this invisible god. Surely that’s even more strange then any reiki or crystal healing?

It’s on the same level, really.

Religions have got pretty good at explaining away the complete lack of evidence, of course, whereas Reiki practitioners just refuse to actually look at the data from proper trials, which demonstrate that it doesn’t work. They’ll often claim it’s not amenable to the scientific method.

Strangely they very much like to rely on the data from crappy unblinded trials though, which aren’t valid.

Sparro · 26/05/2022 13:03

Your friend is a scam artist and what she is doing should be illegal. I hope none of her "customers" are vulnerable or desperate.

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 26/05/2022 13:05

Sparro · 26/05/2022 13:03

Your friend is a scam artist and what she is doing should be illegal. I hope none of her "customers" are vulnerable or desperate.

Come on, that’s exactly who they target, and you can be pretty sure that their miracle cure never lands after a single session. They’ll be signing them up for an ongoing course, getting them back again and again, which is weird for such a powerful healing force.

donquixotedelamancha · 26/05/2022 13:07

I hope none of her "customers" are vulnerable or desperate.

Surely anyone using reiki is vulnerable in some way?

ElenaSt · 26/05/2022 13:14

To the Reiki Master and any other Reiki practitioners -

Please supply hard evidence to support a case, example here -

Doreen in Coventry who is a Reiki Master has by the power of long distance Reiki, cured Mavis's bunions in Southend in Sea.

Sparro · 26/05/2022 13:23

@OldTinHat
We all have different beliefs. No need to be nasty and say we practitioners are all quacks and scammers. Do you say the same thing to people who are actively religious?

If they charge hundreds of pounds for 'healing' that has no science or regulation behind it, then yes.

LeeMucklowesCurtains · 26/05/2022 13:30

Oh wow. I’m going to nick distance reiki as a new business plan.

I’m going to call it “Dick Turpin Healing Enterprises”.

I shall pretend to heal people when I am actually at the pub/in bed/watching telly.

CorpseReviver · 26/05/2022 13:35

Chica10 · 26/05/2022 12:54

What do you think about people who believe in an invisible god that no one has ever seen, that no one has actually met? And yet billions of people believe in what is essentially hear say, and pray to this invisible god. Surely that’s even more strange then any reiki or crystal healing?

It's not really 'more strange', is it? Kind of exactly the same.

Fairislefandango · 26/05/2022 13:36

If you don’t believe in it, you don’t need to use it or engage with her about it. But you also don’t need to knock or belittle the beliefs of others.

...but you can do if they are batshit crazy. Dumb ideas deserve ridicule.

^ Absolutely this.

We all have different beliefs. No need to be nasty and say we practitioners are all quacks and scammers. Do you say the same thing to people who are actively religious?

No, because most religious people aren't trying to extort money out of anyone. Do I say to them that their religious beliefs are a load of nonsense? No, I just think it really loudly.

doadeer · 26/05/2022 13:37

I love in person reiki, but I use it for a very specific purpose which would not remotely be achieved not in the same room. Sounds like nonsense