Holiday booked. Has been for a long time. Once in a lifetime type trip for us. I am completely fed up with DH’s attitude. We both had some initial reservations purely around how much it cost, but he was definitely not opposed to it in principle.
However, he cannot say a single positive thing about it. It has crept up on us a bit and we now have weddings to attend the two weekends before. Everything to do with the holiday is either too much hassle or about how much money we’re spending.
Conversations go as follows:
”I’m really looking forward to our holiday.”
”I can’t even think about it. Let’s get through this wedding first.”
“You could wear [outfit for wedding next weekend] for activity X on holiday.”
”Oh great, something else I have to take with me.”
“I think X is included in the cost on our holiday.”
”I suppose we’ll have to do that then to get our money’s worth.”
”We could go to Jamaica for what we’re spending.”
”Do you want to go to Jamaica?”
”No.”
I feel any excitement on my part is met with a negative response, to the point that it has completely killed it for me and I am dreading how he’s going to behave when we’re there.
AIBU to feel really annoyed with him for spoiling it for me.