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To care that my children’s great grandparents were first cousins?

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Antipoodean · 21/05/2022 21:12

Not particularly unusual perhaps, but I come from a very diverse gene pool myself (different hemispheres). I only learnt that my MIL’s parents were first cousins after we had children. Would this bother you? My dcs are healthy and I am not worried about them, I’d have had them
with the knowledge, it’s just a bit disconcerting.

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TheOriginalEmu · 01/06/2022 22:47

mathanxiety · 26/05/2022 23:25

And I'm saying that there are other elements that went into the conclusion besides behaviour of the middle classes in London, but also that middle classes in London is a representative sample, which is how surveys work.

Are you claiming that significantly more people outside of London married their cousins? Fewer people?

No, I’m not claiming that. I’m not claiming anything. I’m just saying you can’t use that data as meaningful for the whole U.K. that’s it.

mathanxiety · 02/06/2022 05:00

Fox R. Kinship and Marriage: An Anthropological Perspective. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press; 1983.

By the mid-20th century, less than 1% of marriages were with cousins [in the UK]

zingally · 02/06/2022 11:00

1 set of great-grandparents being first cousins isn't anything to be concerned about in terms of your children's health.

It is a little bit ick by modern standards, but 60-100 years ago, it wasn't very unusual, especially in small communities where the dating pool wasn't very large.

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