My father would never discuss names for a baby until the baby was born and he saw it. I think this is very sensible (I was going to write eminently sensible, but most people here would not understand that).
In our family we have James, Hilary, Grace, Patricia, Constance, Vaughn, Harry, Frances, Mary, Helen, Joanna, Catherine, Fiona, Richard, Michael, Simon, Nicholas, David, Stephen, Jackson, Thomas, Caroline, Oliver, Toby, Sebastian, Evelyn, Ann, Ian, Nicholas, John, Sylvia, Susan, Elizabeth, Jean, Hugh, Mary, Christopher, Jack, John.
Nothing contentious.
I am also very good friends with Rupert, Henrietta, Charles, Neil, Giles, Miles, Fidelius, Andrew, Jane, Nigel, Rainer, Martin, Ursula, Philip, Kristine, Maritta, Renate, Götz, Dorotee, Margret.
Make of that what you will.