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To think its an old fashioned name!

324 replies

Mammyloveswine · 20/05/2022 22:54

Talking with a colleague lately about common names from the 80s and 90s... the usual., Sarah, Laura, Becky, Lydia, Lindsay, Louise, Emma etc..

We then got talking about more unusual names we went to school with "Hester.. Paula..Hermione (way before Harry Potter 😂).."

I just cannot imagine a baby or small child being called Paula! I can't even imagine a person my age (30s) being called Paula!

Any other names you just cannot imagine as a baby/small child?

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x2boys · 20/05/2022 23:24

Names go in and out l of fashion, I had a friend at high school who had a very old fashioned name, Grace,now you can't move for Grace,s

Handsnotwands · 20/05/2022 23:26

Lorraine

there’s a little Phil in my dcs school.

ZebraLyghts · 20/05/2022 23:26

Graham or Darren

BellePeppa · 20/05/2022 23:32

Sharon
tracy
sandra
Elaine
Janet
Pauline
Susan

pigalow27 · 20/05/2022 23:34

None of the 1960s or 1970s names are used very much currently. Not sure if they will come back- most sound very dated now and if their time- Karen, Nicola, Debbie, Susie, Dawn, Gillian, Julie, Elaine, Lorraine, Beverley, Deanna, Nadine, Tamsin, Samantha, Alison, Jocelyn, Christine, Janet.

Mammyloveswine · 20/05/2022 23:35

When i Was pregnant with my first my nana d said "I'll tell you a lovely name...Wayne" 😱😂 he was not called Wayne 😂

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Musmerian · 20/05/2022 23:35

DD1 is Hester. Fabulous name!

BellePeppa · 20/05/2022 23:36

Winniewonka · 20/05/2022 23:24

From my primary school in the 60s, possibly not already mentioned, will they be revived in 2050?
Alison
Deborah
Diane
Eileen
Elaine
Fiona
Gillian
Hazel
Janice
Lesley
Linda
Ruth
Sandra

Barry
Graham
Ian
Kenneth
Martin
Neil
Raymond
Russell
Terence
Victor

We must have been at the same school 😁

CoralBells · 20/05/2022 23:36

Baby Lesley or Leslie

Mammyloveswine · 20/05/2022 23:37

Musmerian · 20/05/2022 23:35

DD1 is Hester. Fabulous name!

Hester is very unusual! Nice to hear this! ❤️

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WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/05/2022 23:37

Gladys
Doreen
Janet
Sylvia

Bernard
Carl
Walter
Norman

Trafficjamlog · 20/05/2022 23:39

Edith Agnes and Agatha are three of the ugliest names I’ve ever heard. I know a few Lauren Laura and Michael’s age 10-18

Stopdropnroll · 20/05/2022 23:39

Kite22 · 20/05/2022 23:02

Any other names you just cannot imagine as a baby/small child?

Virtually all the names that have become very popular over the last 8 years or so.

I think this is as much to do with your own age as anything else. All the names that are being given to babies at the moment - Elsie, Ivy, Stanley, Reggie - are all names of elderly Grandparents or Great Aunts or Uncles of mine, but people of an age to be having babies, won't remember people with those names, and think they are lovely.
Then the next generations will come through - Alan, Keith, Derek, Deborah, Pamela, Angela, Pauline, etc etc will come round again.
Then the next, then the one after.
They sound 'old' and unimaginable on a baby when you picture old people that you know with those names, but don't sound old when that generation are no longer alove and the new parents don't remember people with those names.

There will come a point when all the Charlenes and Scotts are 'old people names' and then the Jaydens and Kaidens.

Ahh see i think you're wrong saying people using these names don't remember the members of the family having those names. My eldest has the same name as my grandmother and I love it. My youngest would have been named after my other grandmother but husband didn't agree. I think people do look back on their own families names and use them.

Pretty much everyone I know when naming children have at least made a nod towards family names eve just as the middle name.

Glitterblue · 20/05/2022 23:39

My primary school had:

Gillian
Claire
Katherine
Louise
Jennifer
Kerry
Joanna
Elaine
Emma
Wendy
Samantha
Kelly
Pamela
Jinnah
Trudy

Paul
Richard
Ian
Christopher
David
Finn
Neil
Mark
Philip

I can't imagine any of these on a little baby except for Finn, Katherine and Jennifer and even that's only because I've known babies called those names recently.

There was a baby in DD's baby group called Ned, and it really didn't suit him.

ChazzaGirl · 20/05/2022 23:39

I can’t imagine a baby Shirley or Denise. Or a baby Colin.

I can imagine a baby Hazel though - it’s a lovely name. I also quite like Nigel, but I don’t know why!

Sally090807 · 20/05/2022 23:41

A few names from my family
redvers
gwendoline
maud
percy
walter
frederick

i cannot imagine any of them being used for a babies name except Fred

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/05/2022 23:42

Surely some of those people born in the 80s and 90s must be amongst those parents who give their children the same name as them - so somewhere, Keith & Linda must have Keith Jr and baby Linda?!

RobertaFirmino · 20/05/2022 23:43

It won't be long before Laura, Alison, Gary and Jason become grandparents and that is when their names will start to be used again - many parents seem to name their DC after much loved GPs.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/05/2022 23:43

Redvers? Was that a typo or the actual name?

I've never ever heard of anybody with that name!

MerylSqueak · 20/05/2022 23:44

Darren. There were loads at my school. Can't think of one I've taught. I don't think it's a bad name, really.

Usernamenotavailabletryanother · 20/05/2022 23:45

ChazzaGirl · 20/05/2022 23:39

I can’t imagine a baby Shirley or Denise. Or a baby Colin.

I can imagine a baby Hazel though - it’s a lovely name. I also quite like Nigel, but I don’t know why!

I had a baby Shirley 10 years ago 😀

BellePeppa · 20/05/2022 23:46

Mammyloveswine · 20/05/2022 23:37

Hester is very unusual! Nice to hear this! ❤️

There was a Hester in my class back in about 1974, only time I’ve ever come across the name I think.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/05/2022 23:46

It's so odd, really, when you think that these are all just letters and sounds. What makes one dated and another often similar one so current?

Why is Brian invariably an old man and Ryan a man in his teens/20s, yet Briony could quite plausibly be a female of just about any age?!

Sally090807 · 20/05/2022 23:47

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/05/2022 23:43

Redvers? Was that a typo or the actual name?

I've never ever heard of anybody with that name!

No, it was my uncles middle name

The name Redvers is boy's name meaning "from Reviers; place of rivers". A popular name during the Victorian period, given in honor of Sir Redvers Buller, a British Army general awarded the Victoria Cross for his services during the Boer War.

Louise0701 · 20/05/2022 23:47

Ian