So when I met my partner 5 years ago he was not in contact with his parents he lived without his uncle who lived a few Streets away. I got with him and asked him why he didn't see them. Things like they didn't tell him his nan was dying and it was too late. At he funeral his mum shouted " oh look it's my disappointment of a son " his dad ignored him in the corner shop. They didn't like his ex wife ( she was nasty I was told ) he had always been put down never had a photo of there only son in house on wall only pictures of their dogs. My partner was nearly adopted he is an only child. The mother and father were young when they had him but it was all stopped by the mother's mum. The father's side wanted there son not to he tied down. I decided to get my partner speaking to his mum and dad again. I met them and they seemed unhappy he sat in lounge with feet up while she sat in kitchen all she did was slate the family to me, trying to get me to side with her. I fell pregnant and she turned nasty at a party telling me I was fat my partner defends me and then she makes out she didn't say it. I had our baby and she visited me the day after I didn't want her too as I was tired and said to my other half do t leave me with her. She moaned and moaned about all the family slagging everyone off moaning about this and that. Showed no Interest in baby. She continued to put me down make snide comments when my partner wasn't around. The father then offered to buy a run down house and rent it to us for 800 pounds a month !! And they expected us to live in a building site my partner work all day and then come home and work on the house well I said no I didn't want the offer of them being landlords too us I wanted to keep my council property and wait for an exchange it new move, this angered them I think I wasn't feeling a good sense of this it felt like control. Eventually we got a new house 3 beds and it was perfect but they didn't seem happy for us. The mother asked if I would do a 1st birthday party for our daughter so I arrange a nice place and buffet and I ordered a professional to make a cake which they knew I was doing, it would also be a time for them to meet my family. They arrived early and then my parents turned up my dad automatically sits with my partners dad to try and hold a conversation but he just gave him one word answers and totally snubbed my dad. The mother just kept making jibes at me all day they showed no interest in being friendly. I wanted to it end it was so awful the atmosphere. My parents tried to cover it up. At the end of the party the candle wet lit on my cake I ordered and then obviously I started to cut it for people to take home. The mother suddenly brings out this shop bought giant chocolate cake and starts pushing it onto people. Mainly my son who felt awkward I could see he didn't want any, I snapped at her and told her "he doesn't want any " I made a quick exit and in the car my partner apologized for his parents. I decided I never wanted to be in there company again my anxiety was through the roof and I suffer with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue and I was poorly for days after. I haven't seen them since. My partner take our daughter to see them occasionally but he doesn't stay long. He won't talk about the situation ever he never want to address problems we have ever. Our daughter will ask why I do t see them and I do not want to lie to her. The mother has never acknowledged she has been nasty to me and I doubt ever will. But my partner won't either. What would you do ?