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To boil and cool my baby's bath water?

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belephant · 04/05/2022 17:28

Posting on AIBU for traffic as bathtime is fast approaching, sorry if it's not appropriate for this board!!

I was just FaceTiming my mum when I said in passing "ugh it's bath night tonight, I'd better start getting the kettle going soon" and she looked at me like I was stark raving mad and told me to just use tap water like any sane person would. I had a quick google and can only see stuff coming up advising cooled boiled water for wiping newborns' faces. My baby is 5 months old for reference. I'm struggling to actually remember where I even got the idea that it had to be boiled and cooled from.

So go on then, should I be boiling it or am I lost in the realm of 'PFB' and FTM anxiety?! 😁

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ExtraordinaryBehaviour · 04/05/2022 17:34

Agree with beautifully bonkers... although now wondering what else you do? 😂

LemonDrizzleSlice · 04/05/2022 17:34

DD is fourteen, I still boil the kettle!

It's exhausting holding it up for her shower, mind.

JoeGoldberg · 04/05/2022 17:35

One day you'll look back and roll your eyes at the things you did during the first few months/early years of your first born. I did so many overkill type things, and this is one of them 😂

Totally unnecessary OP, tap water is fine.

Summerholidayorcovidagain · 04/05/2022 17:35

Well quite obviously a stealth boast! The price of electricity and the op is boiling her kettle 3 times a night and not even getting a cuppa! 😱

savoycabbage · 04/05/2022 17:37

Your electricity bill must be through the roof!

Winkydink · 04/05/2022 17:38

Quite possibly the maddest thing I’ve heard of! Seriously?! Can you run through the rest of your routine in case there’s anything else we can suggest you cut out?!

Greatoutdoors · 04/05/2022 17:38

WTF? 🤣🤣🤣

That’s hilarious. How long does it take you to fill a bath?

Littlemissprosecco · 04/05/2022 17:38

I can only assume you’re not in the uk and are living in a tent somewhere with a little stream running down from the wilds!!

Minfilia · 04/05/2022 17:39

Definitely PFB 😂

By your third child you’ll happily be washing them in three times recycled bath water!!

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 04/05/2022 17:41

OP they can go swimming from newborn! That's got all sorts in!

FelicityBeedle · 04/05/2022 17:41

Wish I could find the thread of daft (but sweet) things MNers have done for PFBs, this would fit in perfectly

SleepingStandingUp · 04/05/2022 17:42

I can't even imagine how many kettles it would have taken to Bath my twins 😂

Wnikat · 04/05/2022 17:43

Bless you for giving us all a good giggle OP.

CouldItBeCake · 04/05/2022 17:43

Wow. If you were on a phone-in Boris would actually be justified in telling you to cut energy costs by running your baby’s bath water from the tap 😂

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 04/05/2022 17:44

OP they don't even use sterile water to clean dressings now they just use tap water . Am telling you this to try to reassure you Flowers

BobHadBitchTits · 04/05/2022 17:44

How have you gone five months without anyone picking up on this?!

Indoorcamping · 04/05/2022 17:48

You've been doing this for 5 months??

😂

GraceandMolly · 04/05/2022 17:49

Yes, you use tap water for a bath.

Good news is that your life will be so much easier from now on and it will be a funny story to tell.

NinetyNineRedBalloonsGoBy · 04/05/2022 17:49

Oh bless you OP Grin

You'll properly laugh about this one day! My PFB moments still make me think WTF 😳 even 16 years later

NewPapaGuinea · 04/05/2022 17:49

Interested to know how much money that now saves you! 😆

Ionianprincess · 04/05/2022 17:49

Get him in the bath with you op, baby will love it

TreacheryPepper · 04/05/2022 17:50

This can't be real

Itstime1 · 04/05/2022 17:51

Oh this has made me laugh! I have a 7 week old and wouldn’t think to do this.

thanks OP! Hope your energy bill thanks you now 😂😊

minou123 · 04/05/2022 17:53

You are so lovely Op. A little bit mental, but lovely 😊

LoveSpringDaffs · 04/05/2022 17:54

savoycabbage · 04/05/2022 17:37

Your electricity bill must be through the roof!

@savoycabbage

Don't be daft. Boiling a kettle 3 times is not a big cost.

@belephant

Batshit my friend!! But definitely one for her memory book! 😍. One to remember when she's being a PITA teenager too... remember how much you loved her when she was tiny & try to have the same patience!!

Does your Mum live overseas? How has she not seen you go through this rigmarole in 5 months?? friends?

I wonder if there are any other things we can help stop you doing unnecessarily??