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Anyone up? Newborn help...

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newmuvva · 29/04/2022 01:43

Every night my 1 week old starts getting grizzly around 8pm. This then escalates into full blown screaming which can go on for hours and makes it impossible to attempt to put him down for sleep at night. During the day he sleeps in a Moses basket well but at night he won't entertain the idea and only settles from his tantrum if he's on either me or dh.

I know it's early days and newborns aren't designed to being alone but what could be causing this pattern of hysterics at night when he seems quite content during the day? And how are you meant to sleep safely with a newborn who won't be put down separately at night? We've taken to sitting up separately with him in shifts as we are worried about him falling asleep in the bed with us, especially as knackered as we both are at the minute.

It's only been a week and I feel spent. How long will this last?!

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darlingsweetpea · 30/04/2022 04:21

Hello, you'll look back at this in a couple of months with a smile. I have a three week old and because he lost over 10% of his birth weight and was slow to regain it I was advised to give top up formula. He absolutely lost it when we went to bed, he was clearly in discomfort and I spoke to a GP yesterday and he didn't advise mixing BF with formula at this age as it can hurt their gut. Is your baby gaining weight as BF should be enough at this stage.

Although saying that, for the first few weeks he was glued to me and often he would feed 9.00-1.00 (4 hours), which is tough at that time. However, it is to establish your milk supply and any formula risks messing with this....I'm currently dealing with this!

You're doing a great job trying so many different things and it's so hard in the early days.

PurpleNebula84 · 30/04/2022 04:44

Read up on the 4th trimester.

Also check out PURPLE crying: purplecrying.info/what-is-the-period-of-purple-crying.php

You are doing nothing wrong - your baby is very tiny and it's an adjustment being outside in the big wide world. Make co-sleeping as safe as possible if that's the only way you can get some sleep - Lullaby Trust have some guidance on this.

It will pass. Hang in there x

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