White people feeling insulted when racism is pointed out: tick
white people feeling personally attacked and also generalised when racism is pointed out: tick
white people telling people of colour that the racism they have experienced and recounted is not racism: tick
white people not only refusing to acknowledge that there is racism, but also actively gaslighting people who have experienced it in their lives: tick
I’m white, but the way. And grew up in an almost entirely white area of rural Britain.
for most of my life I thought rural racism wasn’t a thing here, because that’s what I was taught and told, and because I had not “seen” it.
newsflash… it’s real. We didnt “see” it because we didn’t have many people of colour in our community, and those who were here had long learned not to speak about their experience, even in their own family units.
White people are the ones who need to talk more about race, and do the work to acknowledge their own part in structural, and non structural racism.
if we don’t take responsibility and ownership, and do better, it’s just going to keep rolling. And black and brown children will continue to grow up feeling they don’t belong in rural Britain. And black and brown families will continue to experience maternal mortality at five times the rate of white British families.