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neighbour asking me to get my trees lopped

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ladylush · 08/01/2008 15:24

AIBU in being irked that a neighbour who lives diagonally behind us knocked on my door the other day and asked if we could cut our tree? It is a Sycamore (actually there are two side by side) and it is established. It was here before we bought the house and was pruned back hard (18 months ago). The neighbour complained that she had no sunlight in her garden last summer because of the tree. It is not wide but it is tall (no leaves at the moment so only an issue in summer) - about 18ft. I told her that whilst it may be a nuisance for her, it is a benefit to us because it provides screening (which is great when we want to use our garden). In the winter she can see straight into our house from her bedroom window. I also told her that we would not be paying a tree surgeon to cut it every year. She then offered her to send round her son's friend (a tree surgeon) next week (who would do it as a favour for them) and that we would only have to contribute towards the cost of removing the branches. However, we discussed it and decided that we would prefer to employ a tree surgeon of our own at a time that suits us and that when we do get it cut back, we will not take as much off as she would want. I think if a sunny garden was that important to her she should have bought a house with a large garden with a southerly aspect instead of a west facing 35ft garden.

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ladylush · 11/01/2008 18:56

No don't think so. Different developer, same tactics (or same developer working in different parts of the county).

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ladylush · 07/04/2009 21:07

Thought I would post in case anyone wanted an update We did get the trees trimmed back (we chose our own tree surgeon) and obviously paid for it ourselves. We did it in the Spring.

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deckchair · 07/04/2009 21:34

Right if you want to keep the tree get it assessed by an arboriculturist NOT a tree surgeon.
See if they think it is worthy of a TPO. (at 18ft - its doubtful and if in small garden - will it ever reach full potential??)
Sounds self seeded if you say planting is bad. They are weeds after all.
It's your tree and it sounds to me as though the neighbour's attitude has got your back up rather than the potential of the tree.

I have about 20 trees in a garden opposite me which are a pain and cause me to have lights on all day and year long.
I don't have a view but my neighbour kindly lops what he can for us (old gent) I cannot afford to pay anyone at the moment, but would definately offer is I was in such a position, so yopur neighbour is reasonable about offering to "pay"

deckchair · 07/04/2009 21:38

that will teach me to read to the end properly.
years out of date as usual!!
Glad all sorted.

ladylush · 07/04/2009 21:42
Grin
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