...to think that the woman who found out that I am going through a miscarriage, should not go around school telling everyone, AND that then.....

[NatalieJane]

NO ONE should come up to me while I am with DS1 (5yo, obviously doesn't know about the MC) not to see if I am OK or anything, but just to get a bit more gossip, from the horse's mouth, as it were? FFS stupid bloody people

And, I am not a horse, so she can get her fucking gossip from somewhere else.

NAtalie, so sorry for your loss

What a bloody cow!!! I suspect she is to be found at the local weatherspoons dishing the dirt with her hoop earing wearing, clown necklace adorning bunch of SLAGS!!!

OMG - didnt realise that radley bags were a chav icon these days, ive always hankered after one, i will certainly fast get over not being able to afford it.

i'm obviously very upset for nj and think these comments were stupid

but i wanted to add to hopefully help nj stop feeling so fed up that surely these daft women are just that - daft - i can't believe they meant to be upsetting - they just got it wrong

i dont know them of course but i wonder if they thought they were being concerned - ive read elsewhere that some people get really sad when everyone ignores the fact they have lost a child - perhaps these women thought they were saying the right thing (even though they got it wrong)

it sounds like you wont be able to avoid them so i'm hoping you might be able to just not be so pissed off about what they said

that is a sensible post newgirl

sorry to hear about your mc. Maybe she felt very embarrassed herself and wanted to tell other mums not to make same mistake, maybe others had been already speculating that you were pg. I understand cos i had a miscarriage the day before i got married and had to make an announcement at the wedding to say i had mc.

thanks lem!

Oh NJ I have no advice on the actual situation, just wanted to send thoughts for the m/c

The woman who runs the mums and tots (that said about losing the baby infront of DS1) has just apologised, she said she realised she'd put her foot in it the moment it came out of her mouth, so I asked how she found out and she said the first woman had told her, as I'd expected, (nice of her to drop her 'friend' in it as well!) I just said what's done is done, no changing it now, started to walk off and said see you this afternoon. I couldn't be any more gracious than that, but I don't want it to be a case of ignoring them/me, and I like going to mums and tots so don't want that to be uncomfortable either.

Bump is bigger, when is it going to go? I know I keep asking, not really expecting an answer, just feels so cruel, as if going through all this isn't bad enough, it seems even more sad having a bump with nothing in it.

LOL can't quite see her MN-ing, not sure she'd even know what a computer was for.