My husband and I plan to christen our daughter. We booked the christening and had decided prior to that we only wanted our parents, siblings, any surviving grandparents of ours and her godparents so our best friends. I’ve since been informed my dad’s invited his siblings without speaking to me and has gone absolutely wild at me for informing him they aren’t invited. Now, let me give you some context. His siblings and his side of the family generally treated me awfully as a child. Everything was my fault and I was often left out of things and they rarely bothered for my birthdays etc, I never understood what I did to be treated so badly when even my brothers were treated well. My dad never stuck up for me, not once. In fact he once slapped me in the face when I was around 13 for arguing with a cousin and upsetting her. The truth about the argument came out a few days later but he was never sorry he hit me in aid of her. He kindly paid for my wedding, but with that forced me to pay extra to invite his family. One of my cousins was extremely rude to my face at my wedding, another completely ignored me the entire day! He’s now saying he isn’t coming because I’m excluding his family and he’s sick of me trying to keep them from events that I throw. None of them have met my daughter in the 14 weeks she’s been born, they haven’t so much as asked me about her. I really don’t want them there, am I being unreasonable with this?