Just a little thing really but money related, which can often be a bit of a sensitive subject! DH gave DD13 £20 to buy some shelves. She couldn’t find any so DH asked for the money back. She kept saying she would get it out of her bag but this morning had still got it. I give her £10 on a Monday as she goes to a club twice a week where she’s not keen on the food so she can buy something out of that money. She suggested keeping the £20 to use for 2 weeks youth. DH was still saying she should pay him back. I said that I would ask him for that money anyway, to save me going to the cash point, and that I would keep it rather than letting her have the whole lot then give it to her as she needed it. I couldn’t make him see that it didn’t matter who DD gave it back to. He does tend to think in terms of “ his money” & “ my money” & we did have a talk about that. He thinks we need to teach DD the value of money. She’s just paid him back & in a minute, I will have taken the money off him! Who is being unreasonable?