To think husband should go on Sunday instead?

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OH has to travel down to London to collect some things for work, he's able to collect from
Tomorrow he could just go on his own on Sunday when tickets are at the cheapest and come straight back.

However his friend is working all weekend so OH has told him that they will go on Monday instead when his mate is off work so they can "make a day off it"

Im 37 weeks pregnant and have SPD so OH has been around to help me with majority of the school runs to be honest so I am dreading this on my own. I also have a midwife appointment at 12 and have to picked DD up from nursery at 11:45 so I have 15 minutes to get there and we are not supposed to bring kids to antenatal appointments.

AIBU to expect him to go on Sunday? And not on a Monday when I need his help the most.

I can appreciate he probably wants to have a bit of fun but it's putting me in a rubbish situation.

DH has been around to help me with the majority of the school runs - that sounds to me as if you are able to do them. If so, why not let him enjoy a day off?

@CharlotteRose90

Nope he’s a dickhead. He needs to go Sunday and come home Sunday. He can have a lads day when baby is here. You shouldn’t be lifting kids in and out of the car in your condition or a strenuous walk up a hill. Hes inconsiderate and awful to even consider it.

It's one day. Most pg mums have toddlers and don't have a OH on tap for school runs. The OP says he helps most days which suggests it's not impossible to do the school run.